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That guy shouting should calm down. In Nigeria, cow no be your mate. Go flog one of those cows, you go chop wet beans that day 🤣

Cromagnon:
How much is unit of electricity in America or UK or Canada

Does US, UK and Canada have security?
Do they have amenities?
Do they have better currency strength?
Do they have our level of poverty and unemployment?

Electricity cost is too high per income in a country that offers nothing to reduce frustration. Cost of food is high, cost of transport is high, cost of medication is high.

Why do we even need to compare ourselves with other nations if they have issues. We are suffering that's what matters.

Don't worry ladies. You won't understand even if we told you the reason.

SoftSport:
It’s sad how N100 is now worth very little, but I like how president Tinubu is trying with new ideas like the floating exchange rate to help Nigeria get better. We are getting there.

Getting where? Thank your God you are still ok because you can't say the same for people in Benue.
Look at the price of everything. N20,000 for 88 units of electricity and you say we are getting there?
Amenities stripped, security stripped, hunger increased, frustration increased, etc.
What exactly are you talking about?

IAM4BAT4plus4:
Lol





We shall see..


From your no missiles can enter Israel 🇮🇱 to Iran 🇮🇷 should surrender....



You will soo see reality

Nothing will happen. Iran has been crippled severely. Iran was using it's funds for Hamas and Hezbollah. Iran is at Israel's mercy right now.

Streetog34665:
Isreal mosad were only able to do this by cowardly building drone factories in Iran and disabling air defenses system and caught Iran off guard, they should do more now make we see. USA can’t say Iran this time around

What's cowardly about attacking your enemies from the inside. Why can't USA say Iran this time around. Do you think Israel will sit and wait for a nation whose leaders have openly said they will destroy Israel to make nuclear bomb. How can a nation erect a structure with countdown of another nation's destruction. Israel is justified in their action.

ImoleNaija:
All these unnecessary killings between the two need stop. Peace must reign.

It's not unnecessary killing. In Iran, there is a clock place in the middle of Tehran(I think it's Tehran) with a countdown to Israel destruction. Those same people have been secretly enriching uranium to make atomic bombs. Once they succeed, Israel will be bombed. It a necessary attack from Israel.

Let's stop relating things with the Biafra war. I'm Igbo however this generation has nothing to do with the past. We are simply undersiege and we don't know it. It's obvious they want to take over benue and later start calling it their father land. protest is good but the Nigeria I know will just ignore it and continue their daily activities.

I pray for the victims.

Juoflife1:
During buharis time, everyone believed he was quiet because he is Fulani. Now tinubu is there. Why can't this government save it's people? If you cannot do it, get help from outside.
This is heartbreaking to watch

They place politics above everything. Those in power seem to support such due to political influence.

BodyCount:
How did the youths there tried when none of the attackers was taken down?

E BE LIKE SAY HEAD DEY PAIN UNA.

The enemies were many and well armed. The youths lack guns and even if they took down some, the attackers might have taken the bodies with them.

BrutusOj:
Are we going to continue to refer to what our great grand fathers and grandfathers did to ruin this country? Why can't you guys move on from the Biafra war?

The reason is because some people refused to hear the igbos warnings because of hate some has for the igbos.
They warned about Buhari and people still voted.
They warned about Tinubu and people still voted.

9japride:
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A lot of wickedness were done during that war and people haven't healed. There should be a legit reconciliation and discussion one the way forward.
The funny thing is that they prefer the northerners to the Igbos. Politicians and bad propaganda people have really messed up their view about the Igbos.
We call ourselves one Nigeria and yet habor extreme wickedness.

That is why igbos refuses to participate in anything so that they won't say it's igbos fueling it.

Kc3000:
It's too much! We cannot remain docile anymore.

What will you do. After one week, normalcy will return and we all will forget. That has been the motto of Nigeria.

fuckingAyaya:
governor that is recieving orders from akume in Aso rock, a day is coming when the world will ask "who is this man called Nnamdi kanu"

Mazi can't change the level evil we have in this country. My brother, it has gone deep.

The water must be highly polluted. They should investigate before it harms people.

I don't even care about Obi since I don't trust any politician however I'm tired of this economy. Found out yesterday that I was thrown to band A from band B. Paid N20,000 for 293 units last month just to pay the same N20,000 for 88 units yesterday. Yet some humans are disturbing us about Obi.

Fix the damn economy!!!

This is very wrong to say. Rather than talking like this, why not bring up the policies and infrastructures that have benefitted Nigerians so that they would stop criticizing your boss. Mocking a person criticizing something doesn't mean anything.

First of all, the generalization is wrong simply because you have good women that are related to you except your wife. When you mean Nigerian women are good, which women are we talking about?
Is it the ones in cult?
Is it the ones that join in scam?
Is it the ones that try to extort and steal?
Is it the ones that set you up for kidnap?
Is it the ones that sleep with their best friends boyfriend?
Is it the ones that cheat?
Is it the ones that leave a guy after he paid for her schooling?

The list can go on so no, women aren't the Angels you are trying to portray. Most Nigerian women treat strangers differently depending on looks and assets.

Simply means: she is talking to you for the purpose of what you can do for her. Most and not all women view men as utilities that makes their life better than it already is. Don't give her money and you will see the way she responds in the long term.

Where did you get your sample from?

Obakoolex:
Obi does not have the balls to handle many situations like Tinubu did, tho I believe he might have done better in some areas..... Let's wait and see what Tinubu has in stuck for Nigerians from now till 2027, probably obi will vote for him too🤣🤣

What did Tinubu handle?

Elon musk wanted power and Trump refused. A businessman will always be a businessman. Good luck Elon, I wonder who will vote for you.

Nigeria my country. Have pastors turned to wizards now? We just follow without questions. This is some serious level of brainwashing.

Why is it hard to show us evidence. They said 150 yet not even one picture of a downed terrorist.

Nifemy4:
I have known peter now for over a decade. The rest of us amongst his pool of friends womanize a lot , but Peter. He is a straightforward, loyal and steadfast handsome guy to the core. His discipline when it comes to women is second to none. i secretly admire his his resolve and firmness when it come come to chasing big bum like the rest of us, especially Seyi, Emmanuel and me----the group leader when it comes to big bum affairs.


Two years ago , during a cool evening hangout with the boys,i had just finished my own bottle of small stout, when Peter hit us all like a Russian missile, the news of his intention to get married to girlfriend Amara.

boom.. the silence that befell the meeting was deafening. i looked at seyi, seyi looked at emma with our eyes widely opened envicing shock and surprises at the same time. well, honestly , i am not supposed to gawk in shock , i always knew peter to be a one way serious fellow . he loved the girl and he never cheated, nor ever flirted with any other. at least we all know all our secrets.

"i intend to set up a business for her, and i budget about 10m for it "these were his words. he opted for a hair(wig)niche for her somewhere around unilag Akoka.

i was miffed and skeptical at the same time. To my mind ,i felt peter never know all this naija lagos babes, they go show you colour wey no dey for crayon soon. but again, he's about to get married to her in months to come aso, it's no effort in futility i persuaded myself to take a chill pill.

He handed over 5m to her at first to scout for the shop and initiate the importation of a few hairs from Vietnam as she claimed.

2 months later, peter who traveled down to the south East in preparation for the traditional marriages that was to come up in august 2024 .arrived lagos..

"Amara, how far with the 5m , how far have you gone with the search" behold. her response was heart stopping and could break sweat from the skin a person living in iceland.

our dear future sister in law allegedly bought an iphone 15 pro max from the money and could barely account for the rest.


I convinced peter to let go off her. she will end up being a liability , which was his greatest fear .

The more I browse the web, the more I find informations that makes me question the viability of marriage.

Zackattack:
They found creative ways to please their wives. It wasn’t necessary though.
This is just impunity and has nothing to do with being a simp.
You come back from work seeing your wife acting childishly, you still find a creative way to please her. Na wa.

You need to be more flexible and less stiff when dealing with life. A lovely marriage usually has some childish aspect of it. The two guys were actually having fun if you put yourself in their shoes. it's just part of the way married couples have fun in marriages. look at old couples talking and you will see them mocking each other or doing childish things.

marriage can be stressful that is why you need to be prepared mentally and physically. There should be discipline however there are times you have to turn a tensed situation in a playful one.

bernardluccky:
I have issues with my girlfriend.

We have being dating since 2021 so 2022 I enter school but I discover the school have no certificate so I write jamb last year to enter uni but I ask my girlfriend if she can bear with me for another 4 years but she refuse to answer me due to I keep asking she suggest we Break up but I did not say no nor yes.

I just ignore her and did not call her for 2 months but I do write her on WhatsApp and fb because I love her so much base on we are not in the same state. It's being 2 years since we see each other
And now I done dey beg her for 2 weeks now.

Note: we have being dating for 4 years no intimacy no kiss no photo together.
The aim was till after marriage and we both 22.

Please I need advice.

Yes it a wrong thing to say to a lady. The reason is because they have a biological clock and we don't. Both of you can marry and work together for that 4 years. It's a bad deal for her since you can change your mind at anytime. If she wants to then good for you however most will not want that unless they see you have good connections.

yyba:
RUFAI osine go and do animals documentary and stop talking to humans please

There is freedom of speech and why does it bother you that someone is challenging an information shared online. Is it because it goes against something you support. let the Reno prove himself so that Rufai will be embarrassed however if Reno can't, the Rufai was right.

Connected1:
A Coursemate Friend gave me the number of a certain girl about 3 years ago saying that she needed a friend to talk with, so I started getting along with her based on my easy going personality, so at a point she needed finance and myself not giving money anyhow I gave her my goods to sell and take the profit whilst she bring back my capital, she failed at it and I went to take back my goods, after that I bought goods for her to sell based on a business she said her friend told her about, the business failed and I barely got my capital I gave her.


I was doing the best I can for her but then she brought talks about having feelings for me and how she knows I do too but I kept hiding mine, so I shunned her about it, we quarreled and I deleted her phone number & blocked her everywhere, after a very short while, she began using her friends to call me and beg me, I completely ignored everything because i don't have any feelings for her nor am I even interested in sleeping with her when she offered me sex despite saying she was sacred about all that.

Alas I unblocked her when she lost her mum and she wrote me, I felt I needed to assist in consoling her by unblocking and chatting her up, then I offered some financial help too because both her parents are now gone and I told her not to bother me about dating her and focus on offers she receives which she agreed on, she's 29 and I understand time is telling on her.

Then some months got past and everything was going well, then she came again with the love jargon again and began saying how she prayed on the day I gave her money around when she lost her mum, she said she told God that whichever man she knows that sent her money is the one going to marry her and I was the only one who sent money and a huge one at that bla bla bla, I was infuriated and told her I unblocked her because she lost her mum, she kept explaining and I wasn't having any of it, then she agreed and swore not to disturb me about dating or marrying her I recommended she blocked me so that it will help her to forget about me but she never agreed.

We got talking again and living our lives until this week when she brought up issues about dating and marrying her again, how she saw me in her dreams that I was the one, how 2 other guys were asking her out and she prayed to God to know the right one and i suddenly appeared in her dreams, at this point I think I am sick of it and might go mad anytime soon if I continue like this, the reason I haven't blocked her everywhere this time around is because she gave me a job connect which one of her elder brothers was involved in as an exco member and I paid some money like others did only that it was cheaper so I have been hesitant, since it seems the job is about to taking shape and they may start paying this month or next, around 150k -200k for 2 weeks and I intend using it as a side hustle along side my business and normal job.

Please I need your advice, because whilst I have no intentions to date her or have sex out of pity, I can't just let this job opportunity go like that because I feel she may tell her brother to jeopardise the whole thing for me now if I chase her away angrily.

I will appreciate your inputs, regardless of how I feel about it.

Bro its either you have feelings for her or you have sympathy for her. You will ruin your life if you continue to play this game with her. end it and move on. What helps in such a situation is that i imagine if the roles were reversed and you were the one going after her without money, will she end it with you or not. She can get really aggressive later in the future and if you end up impregnating her, her real nature will show.

Its all about the money not love.

Zonefree:
They're still SIMPle men.


No matter the chaos at home, when a man returns, there should be silence and calmness... that's a sign of respect and love.


Women shouting and quarreling in the presence of their beloved husbands shows the men are not incharge of their marriage.

If a thunderous "it's enough" can not stop your beloved wife in her chaotic mood, check the foundation of your marriage.



My prayers are with them.

Abeg lets hear word. Everybody using the word simp without knowing what it is. Is it father vs daughter that they will act like that. They went inside because they respect their husbands to take charge of the situation. when wives try to calm down their angered husbands, the husbands listen because of love and respect.

Better remove that mindset of wives acting like your daughters.

Futuristica:
My wife has been acting weird for some months now, like she doesn't apologize if she is wrong, doesnt try to seek avenues for us to reconcile if we have quarrels. Instead, I am the one that always put the foot forward. If I point out something, she shows no remorse. She often says things like 'this life na once' .

Just a background.

I stumbled on this message sent by her workplace close girl friend. This tiktok message talks about falling in love with a married man because the man makes her feel loved etc etc.

But the caption below by the friend says, we will miss you so much.

My mind has been wondering what it means.
I woke her from sleep to confront her to explain what the message means (it's a message sent this January) ..she looked scared or maybe anxious as I asked her if she had cheated on me with anyone recently.. offcourse ,'no' is the normal answer.

I showed her the message for her to explain what it was about . She said she can't remember what it was about and that she doesn't know. When I pressed further, she started gaslighting that if I feel she cheated, I should give her a divorce .

Dear house, what are you views on this matter? I am more concerned about what this message might mean.

Please be fair in your judgement. Thank you.

There are two things you have to understand about women:
1. They DONT always mean what they say. Infact some women say things to see your reaction
2. A woman that is sexually attracted to a guy would never want to create a window to lose that guy.

Remember i said sexually attracted because some men mistake a woman attracted to you because you are capable with sexually attracted. A capable man is resource while a sexually attractive guy is connection. Resources are in abundance for women especially if she is gifted with looks.

This issue is not something you should ask others however you should ask yourself:
1. Does this go against my principles.
2. Does it affect the way you view your relationship.
3. If you find out the truth, are you willing to take the huge step of divorce.
4. Can you still trust her.
and the most important
5. Does she still respect you. Any lady that is in a relationship with you that doesn't respect you doesn't love you.

So sir it all depends on you.

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