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Cathaliya: All these trolls everywhere...

Btw, Chidonsky, you be man ati woman?

babylolaroy: Respect o
*pecks*

passionate88: when him use money shine ur eyes u no confuse ba?, when him dey toast u lie say ur mind no go money?. When him dey call u everytime say u no happy?, nw wey una dn part ways na nw u realise all these flaws for him body. Na wa for girls o. U go see girl wey im boifrnd jst break up wit her na that time she go see say d guy dey confused, no fit fyt for her, bla bla bla. Girls are d most confused specie of all animals on mother earth. And girls sabi pretend like say dm no get flaws too.

Cathaliya: Abeg, Chidonsky the adviser, I no talk say me I perfect o, but for the fact wey you ma dey advice give people, make you try update the english and use punctuation marks where necessary...


Biko!

bjennifer: I want to know, is there anyone who goes through this Menace. You see someone you really like but when he shows interest quickly you pull back and then the one who really doesn't send you is the one you are head over heels for...
The more he's unpredictable the more you can't seem to get him out of your head, it becomes another season of The Chase!!!
You like the chase more than the actual relationship....
I don't know if its a psycological issue because that's my menace!

passionate88: Maybe him don get gf or him notice one mu*mu character wey u dey always exhibit. Either conciously or unconciously or u pt am for friend zone

remsonik: Hello ladies,there is the guy who is my friend and we are really close.all of a sudden he stopped talking to me,won't call me or pick my call. Although we are still friends and I really like him a lot plus he knows how to bring me out of my shell. Pls what could be wrong for him to be avoiding me,am losing it.pls help

cowgurl: Hey, I think you misunderstood her.

And to your comment, I believe a true relationship involves;

* both hands working on it

* sacrifices and compromises by both parties

* finance, love and encouragement

"wit love u can brush up someone 2 bcom successful

And if anyone is planning to do the above, he or she should do so with an open mind devoid of expectations...

gowaga68: as of job i asked a pal this questions
*is it possible to get a pertime job?
Part-time job I´m sure that you can find something like security or in some bar or something like that, but full- time job I do not really know if it would be possible, because of the language barrier, a lot of people speak English but the requisitions for the applying for the jobs ussully is Czech language.


as of living standard

i was informed it's the same or even better than other European countries.

Idowuogbo: Halllo! I'm single and ready to mingle.

P.S- I b Lesbiano o!

kofsy: Looool thanks so much! Funny enough what happened had happened about 4weeks ago. I had already gone through the hurt and disappointment phase even though I wasnt sure about what I'm hurting over. Cos my fiance swore by everything that nothing happened between them. The only things I could hold on to then was what the girl to me on phone and the calls they exchanged(which has stopped).
I only created that thread to hear what ladies have to say about how to handle the girl... Out of fun!!! I can't just fathom why that catalya girl took everything personally. First of all she called me MUMU. She went all ballistic on me cos I refused to accept their advice of dumping my fiance. If only they understand that I don't make decisions canally. I don't make choices in life apart from God. I let God into everything I do. May be they think I accepted my fiance's proposal based on feelings. If prayers and steps have not been taken about my future with him, you think I'd accept to marry him whether he cheated or not? I don't live life blindly.




To you cathaliya, I hold nothing against you. Wisdom is necessary to live life well. I just hope you'd find your perfect man. And to say I lack self esteem, my dear you don't know me jack about me... I'm the last person with low self esteem. And also referring to what you said about being in an abusive relationship... Loooool I couldn't help but laugh. My friend and I created that thread years ago out of childishness. If you google the first sentence or any part of that post, you'd see that same story on a foreign thread. That was were we copied and pasted it and added some things. And I addressed it 3days after on that same thread that it was all a prank. May be you should for once stop believing every story you read on Nairaland. It would really help with how you react and take things personally. You don't even know me and I don't know you either. So why the sudden insults? Why lose a sleep over my matter? I decided not to follow your advice cos love doesn't throw people away. I know the man I'm marrying. Nobody is perfect. A slut told me my fiance slept with her and all I can hold on to is the calls they've exchanged... I'm sorry my relationship right now is not something I'd walk away from; like you expect me to. Even if he did cheated, Love forgives you know? True love. I just hope you'd come to understand this.
Take care

Cathaliya: @Chidonsky,
you have spoken well. I have no other desire other than to help people in need if I can. I will be the last person to gloat over someone's problem.....jeez, karma is a next door neighbour nah.

If you have read through her thread, you will get the picture of why I refered her case over here since those advice given to her there was waste to her......and as it is, she is also a product of an abusive rlshp which she also stated here on Nl.

Al I wanted was to help but she saw it someother way....and for me, I am exactly what my siggy says....

I drop her case, she can go french kiss a transformer for all I care..

no time...if time dey kwa, no chance.

Cathaliya: oh my God, it can pain o....




you are bursted...!

kofsy: Now look at you! Taking panadol for another woman's headache...











Face your life dear! Busy body. Even taking it personal than the person wearing the shoes. Aren't you ashamed of yourself. Every other person dropped their advice and left. But you have been running up and down putting the whole thing on your head. I didn't know it was going to give you heart attack. With all your 'gragra' you still say an infinite deal of nothing. Shove your advice down your ass and pick your crumbling life up.







Don't bother replying, cos you've been ignored. Go wear the green hat!

beau49: Sumtimes d way I tink luv shud be mks me begin 2 tink it only happens in novel, wen I luk at those who claim 2 be in love around me.......

M jes so scared of makin mistake n pickin d wrong choice dat it has stopped me 4rm goin into relationships 4 over 2 years nw(only had 2 relationships b4 nw)....buh sumtimes I wonda if I av nt sent d rite person away,den again I ask myself hw do I knw he is the rite person?

So confused rite nw.....!

beau49: Sumtimes d way I tink luv shud be mks me begin 2 tink it only happens in novel, wen I luk at those who claim 2 be in love around me.......

M jes so scared of makin mistake n pickin d wrong choice dat it has stopped me 4rm goin into relationships 4 over 2 years nw(only had 2 relationships b4 nw)....buh sumtimes I wonda if I av nt sent d rite person away,den again I ask myself hw do I knw he is the rite person?

So confused rite nw.....!

wetdspace: Have alwyz been hurt. Why? Girls want money and hate been too much caring. Some kinda think i double date.
Its so much painful not to be loved.
That's past.

Present things.... Looking for a lady 22-32, caring, independent, good looking, smart and humble. Holla @ me here or call 07038212206:

chrissy3: Nice thread . I want to contribute to this very interesting topic and I can say I have tried being good and being bad and none worked and its only God that can give you your own.
I am a final year student of Ndu and b4 I got into sch I was a playa and that was because I was naïve as a young lad, in experienced and intoxicated by attentions I was getin from the opposite sex.I dated girls at multiple girls at thesame time but didn't love anyone until I came Across my first love 'Anastasia ' and I fell in love with her.I loved her so much for the first time I thought of focusing on just her and I did not knowing what was lurking ahead.we had issues And we solved it but then a girl I left took her number from a betraying frnd and she called and told her that we did stuff and dats how she got her number from my fone and that was a lie.I pleaded but she broke up with me and I grieved for 1yr. I got in2 Ndu and decided not to date more than one girl and decided to b serious.I met a girl in my 1st year ' adaora' And we Started a relatnship in my 2nd year.I was not fully healed from my last breakup and so things didn't go so smoothly and I didn't want to fall in love too quick.I finally fell in love with her and we dated for 3yrs but d last year plus was hell.she had an ex that was working and so when he came in2 d scene ,she changed and I noticed it from her body language cuz I noticed how she acted when she was wit d guy b4 dey broke up and we started. I endured her ,she would travel without letting me know,no calls,no visits,I needed I.v to com visit, etc .I foundout abt the guy and so I left her 4 3months and she started begin to combak dat she's broken up wit d other guy and do I accepted.I noticed she wasn't into romance with me and I asked her ' between me and d other guy who she preferred? And She chose d other guy over me and it was at that point I took a walk.I so much love this girl to the point that I put her as 1st priority b4 myself .what am saying is that,when we choose to be serious , we won't see any1 that would be willing to be serious but when we choose to not be serious we would see people willing.just pray to God for your own because both men and women no one is better,they r both the same.