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RomanceRe: Girl Orders Boyfriend To Kneel In The Street & Slaps Him For Cheating by Chidonsky: 7:22pm On Oct 09, 2013
lynpetra: Nigerian men and thier pretence grin grin.For out side they would be like "them never born the woman well",but behind close door,(clears throat),the wife wud be like,"uduoji o bu n'isi gi mere mmebi,step out of this house this night!ka m gosi gi na khaki no be leather" cheesy grin.
lol would u do that?
Christianity EtcRe: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by Chidonsky: 6:17pm On Oct 09, 2013
Peeping all the holy sisters...just landed safely
RomanceRe: Write To Your NL Crush. by Chidonsky: 4:53pm On Oct 09, 2013
Crawled in, luk around 360 degree no security, grab all the ladies 2 myself and walk away gently.
RomanceRe: Girl Orders Boyfriend To Kneel In The Street & Slaps Him For Cheating by Chidonsky: 3:54pm On Oct 09, 2013
Oh gosh thunder slap....wow lack of maturity and respect, any reasonable girl won't do that..
RomanceRe: Guys Have No Right To Be So Choosy by Chidonsky: 8:27pm On Oct 07, 2013
mtcheew: @Chidonsky u r rite. parents may be both ugly but looks may also com 4rm grandparents and further generations. as 4 rich beauties they r very common ( i cud mention names of very rich yet very ugly ppl ,older ppl sha,)younger ones brought up in comfort may have improved looks. true. as 4 ur last point, i already mentioned(on d 1st page dat looks is one of my shallow preferences. everybody has @ least one(shallow preference) by d way and any human who claims otherwise is a pretentious liar.
u are right, i think what we all generally need is right attitude 2 tins,definitely life will be easier..
RomanceRe: Marry For Compatibility, Not Love!!! by Chidonsky: 7:52pm On Oct 07, 2013
beau49: So many enlightening posts....u all seem 2 av said it all.

To me I tink d major issue is we dnt really understand wat 'Love' means n dat is where our problem lies.If u ask a number of persons wat luv means sum answers wud mk u laff while odas wud mk u want 2 slap d person.

Nw d question is wat is luv n hw does it occur?Most of all we av mentioned above,love encompasses dem all e.g compatibility,understanding e.t.c....most pple wud argue dat luv grows while odas wud say it happens @ first sight,dey wud tell u it is unself givin of oneself n closing ur eyes 2 d flaws of ur partner n so on n so forth.But d issue is most of all d definition of wat luv is r jes excuses n r fashioned jes 2 suit our selfish purposes.

Nt until we av trully cum 2 understand wat it means our divorce rates will continue 2 escallate !
RomanceRe: Marry For Compatibility, Not Love!!! by Chidonsky: 7:41pm On Oct 07, 2013
beau49: So many enlightening posts....u all seem 2 av said it all.

To me I tink d major issue is we dnt really understand wat 'Love' means n dat is where our problem lies.If u ask a number of persons wat luv means sum answers wud mk u laff while odas wud mk u want 2 slap d person.

Nw d question is wat is luv n hw does it occur?Most of all we av mentioned above,love encompasses dem all e.g compatibility,understanding e.t.c....most pple wud argue dat luv grows while odas wud say it happens @ first sight,dey wud tell u it is unself givin of oneself n closing ur eyes 2 d flaws of ur partner n so on n so forth.But d issue is most of all d definition of wat luv is r jes excuses n r fashioned jes 2 suit our selfish purposes.

Nt until we av trully cum 2 understand wat it means our divorce rates will continue 2 escallate !
love @ first sight is not love but attraction,unless d person his willing 2 take whatever comes out of such misconcepted idea...love grows ''ye" and hw,by learning and getting use 2 d person by fondness,communication,observation of lifestyle,actions,attitude and the rest...Now i know why people say love is blind,why won't it be blind when their idealogy is blind..Marriage can work when u combine every qualities u have acquired in live into it,is a life time investment..Though every love pass through hurdles of life....Life respect no 1 but alwas put your best and expect less..!
RomanceRe: Guys Have No Right To Be So Choosy by Chidonsky: 6:45pm On Oct 07, 2013
mtcheew: accordin 2 my stats nd assumin a girl gets all feature 4rm one parent(ie she either takes afta d dad or d mum, no combination of features. if d parents r only able 2 pas on one of 3 looks(ugliness-u,beauty-b nd jus dere-j, each girl has 5/12 chance of getin B, 3/12 Chance of J nd 4/12 chance of U 4rm either parent. there4 out of 36 girls 9 may be jst dere, 15 may be beautiful and 12 may be ugly.
lol haven't u seen kids who are beautiful even when ppl claim that their parents are ugly..it depends on what u call ugly or beautiful because most kids have what i call rich beauty moulded wit monetary spendings..it good 2 look good but those are secondary facts when it comes 2 love and building a perfect life..
RomanceRe: Guys Have No Right To Be So Choosy by Chidonsky: 5:24pm On Oct 07, 2013
Sagamite: Not a chance in hell will I read it once.
is a choice chill den.
RomanceRe: Guys Have No Right To Be So Choosy by Chidonsky: 5:23pm On Oct 07, 2013
@dailynews and 50calibre u guys always make sense in ur post,with vital point 2 enrase doubt about ur facts..more grace 2 ur pen.
RomanceRe: Guys Have No Right To Be So Choosy by Chidonsky: 5:13pm On Oct 07, 2013
Beauty can be classified into 4....1. Beauty to the Eye .2.Beauty to the Mind..3.Beauty to the flesh...4.Beauty to dream...this categorically decide ur choice and who u want in ur life...how well they appeal to u decide how good ur choice will be.. As 4 me i go 4 mind and dream they are the best beauty..!!
RomanceRe: Guys Have No Right To Be So Choosy by Chidonsky: 4:57pm On Oct 07, 2013
Sagamite: ^^^^ Textspeak plus writing volumes without paragraphs and spacing?

Not a fcking chance in hell I would read it.
really read again
RomanceRe: Guys Have No Right To Be So Choosy by Chidonsky: 4:57pm On Oct 07, 2013
Sagamite: ^^^^ Textspeak plus writing volumes without paragraphs and spacing?

Not a fcking chance in hell I would read it.
really
RomanceRe: Guys Have No Right To Be So Choosy by Chidonsky:
@all.Lol..what a great debate about beauty and beign choosy....My pain is we have failed 2 give a proper definition of beauty...LADIES if u think most men who adore ur beauty are genuine men, who will settle down with u hmm i doubt it...this is the reason why most guys who are players settle with those unbeautiful ladies as wife.. it's a fact that guys will go 4 a woman with admirable virtues like,hardworking,humility,respect,that posess all it takes 2 keep home and marriage 2 work...To be choosy is never a bad idea because preferences differs in human resulting 4rm their strive 2 get a better life,a better woman,a better compliment to live their life 2 the fulliest..BEAUTY come in different ways,it come in form of neatness,structure,buildup,packaging that appeal 2 d beholder or people involved..Any man that rate beauty as an antidote 4 having a beautiful home,he he he u are on longthing oh...averagely looking in our society is a norm 4rm ages 4 ladies 2 spend more time policing their beauty with utmost consciousness...beauty is 1 of a woman selling point is inborn looking at how habitual the practice of beauty has rocked the society...If i may ask hw many ladies do you see talking much on doin something extra ordinary 2 liberate the society?rather you see them in mass piloting d passive trend that don't enhance life general...The so called fashion which is now a bait 4 indecency and immorality..Make up beauty that fade in a twinkle of an eye,which also depict fakeness...@op Guys are handsome even with minimium attention, but what you should have said is that guys are careless about going the extra mile like ladies,though am an advocate of good looking both in neatness and lifestyle....Some girls say they don't worship money but i hope what u say here is exact who you are in real life because u can never outsmart life in contrary...Women try to be real it pays 2 be real..
TravelRe: Top 10 Countries In The World To Migrate To by Chidonsky: 5:53pm On Oct 05, 2013
tuntoks: New Zealand is a great country to migrate to if you don't mind the distance from naija. its about 26hrs in-flight journey but believe me the move is worthwhile. There are a lot of skilled professionals needed here and migrating is quite easy if you have the experience and skills. No language test is required like the likes for australia or canada as long as your studies were carried out in english but bear in mind that nigerian qualifications are not recognized by the immigration new zealand so you have to do a qualification assessment (or conversion if you will say). Like i said, the process is quite easy and if you've really got the skills you might be here in 8 months time. smiley grin
share their school experience 4 us and life generally
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Chidonsky: 2:27pm On Oct 04, 2013
Sylvyangel: Am new here pls welcome me ;DAm new here pls welcome me
welcm
RomanceRe: Marry For Compatibility, Not Love!!! by Chidonsky: 11:53am On Oct 04, 2013
@ALL...Love itself is a misery unveiled by nature..the older generation stayed glued with marriage not just because of fear of divorce, mind u love was at is raw form devoid of materialism,selfishness,egocentric sentiment..Adaptation can't work if there is no tolerance,understanding and love..Sacrifice can never manifest if both lack sense of marital responsibility,combined 4rm their differences in quallity 4 d betterment of their love and society..Remember they also love with d intent of also building a societal with peaceful co-existence....Luking at this generation they practice selfish love not considering the next generation at heart,what more do we see than perverts,sexist,feminist,adaptation of ill character resulting 4rm a way-world civilised society where norms,culture,belief,love,submission his seen as slavery and gender assault.Tnx 2 the negative effect of the so called misconcepted empowerment..There is high negligence of truth and pervertion due to increasing demand 4 liberty which is suddenly encroching an ungovernable society...LOVE and COMPATIBILITY works together 2 achieve a lasting relationship and marriage...When we talk abt compatibility we see more of partners with the same like minds,who are willing 2 accept and make up each other flaws..I think beign compatible means 1 ability 2 compliment his partner weakness without and iota of disgust nor tiredness...But love set the atmosphere 4 their emotions 2 be express towards each other, to test the level of acceptation and affection both proclaim 2 have 4 each other independently,with obvious exhibition..Compatibility break d bridge of differences in choice,background,lifestyle,though with a close collective possession....In other words love and peaceful co-existence will be restored,if only the world can trace back the lost ancient landmark of real love,responsibility,fairness,tolerance,respect and uprightness..tnx
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Chidonsky: 10:42pm On Oct 02, 2013
babylolaroy: i am sorry my lady. i wasnt one of dos chatting really, i was just being a mouthpiece.
lol
TravelRe: Any Nigerian In Czech Republic? by Chidonsky:
gowaga68: okay man, i was only saying what they wrote on their site.
wishing you the best after all you will be our man on ground to give us feed back.
we need his contributions here atleast we have a rep, safe journey 2 u@geoman
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Chidonsky: 12:17pm On Oct 02, 2013
This thread is drifting away 4rm is main purpose,pls all love cats should nt derail rather move 2 the chat room..
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Chidonsky: 9:36am On Oct 01, 2013
happy independence
TravelRe: Any Nigerian In Czech Republic? by Chidonsky: 10:06pm On Sep 30, 2013
gowaga68: on the entrance Exam i talked about here is the school link info on that http://msc.pef.czu.cz/?pageid=4
and you can check more discussion on this same school and subject at https://www.nairaland.com/814925/offer-advice-interest-studying-czech/2

hope that helps.
ok tnx time 4 research.
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Chidonsky: 8:52pm On Sep 29, 2013
Cathaliya: If God comes to me now and ask me to 'form', I will say no.
As you see me so, na so I be.
nothing is impossible it depends on both of u,what u should be concerned about is if he is what he portrays online...personal i hate pretense so if he is real and replicate the love likewise u are good 2 go...Hiding one's feeling is 1 of the most deadly thing u can ever because it keeps hurting u,4 letting loose your mind about it makes it commendable..meeting people is the fastest way 2 link up and also the fastest way 2 get bruised but though fear not and tread wisely..have also made good friends through chatting site that we are good friends 2day,though we are not the same by instinct because i can detect falsehood and secrecy even the person is far away, so d ball is at your court..study him well..ok
RomanceRe: I Caught My Brother's Friend Sniffing My Panties by Chidonsky: 8:01pm On Sep 29, 2013
@OP u see it as abnormal because u are upset with the fact that he invaded ur privacy,yes i know ur privacy should be respected but this is a case of a teenager who is suffering from sexual torture and unstable mind,d action he carried out already interprets the load of fantasies going through him...i call this youthful sexual exuberance that occurs during their stage of puberty where they get hormonal reactions.This is the time he needs the best of advice because what is happening 2 him is what every adult went through...as 4 d bra and panties he stole it shows d boy is sexually attracted,since he can't have hold of u 4rm d bulk of sexual imagination and fantasy he decided 2 take ur panties and bra which represent u indirectly..just call him and advice him he need ur advice because he might do this else where and he won't get away with it...he is normal but carried out in abnormal way.
RomanceRe: I Caught My Brother's Friend Sniffing My Panties by Chidonsky: 7:33pm On Sep 29, 2013
mobuch: Of course its normald and romantic.

My wife's pink g-string is always in my suitcase; whenever i get to office in d morning, i open my suitcase and sniff d panty, and i perform excellently well for dat day.
lol..lol...lwkmd u dey vex oh
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Chidonsky: 12:15am On Sep 29, 2013
passionate88: ^ ^ ^
wetin arsenal dey do there?. Wetin concern the gunners wit that talk? grin
lol
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Chidonsky: 12:14am On Sep 29, 2013
kidkay: Hi Hi, kay doll here. Single and female. Cupid keeps on hitting me with blanks. Wonder when he's going to roll out the big guns (bow) wink
Anyway recently broke up, then had a rebound, then fell for my rebound, then got confused and bailed, and now I'm all by my lonesome. Beginning to feel the creepy hands of loneliness settling on my shoulders too embarassed

Anyway, now I miss the rebound, but he is not really into me, if I'm honest. So it's time to stick my neck out there again, and try to get it right this time. So hello all and hope I get some inspiration from here.
rebound well it sounds like u need 2 put things together again 4 ur own good..happiness is a virtue we all live 2 achieve by dreams,actions,decision,choices with alot of mistakes,amendment until u land safely...it can be achievable if only u can activate the hero living inside u who i call ''i can" so u can...Alwas replace fear with faith,hurt with love,mistakes with might,gradually u will start beign happy again because all u can hear by now is u can.....Let your past be behind u and kiss them goodbye,backward never and forward ever,pick up ur mantle of love and pilot them 2 your dream destination because is all about u....This time take your time,evaluate b4 u leap again so u don't get jailed by hurt...cheer up
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by Chidonsky: 11:30pm On Sep 28, 2013
osy baby: Camedoll I want to commend ur efforts ur thread has helped me though. Okay here's my ish I met dis guy not quite long ago say a month now. I know he likes women I mean like a lot of gal frnds. But he told me dis gals are aware dat he has nothing serious with them and I really want to believe him. Now he wants sex and I just feel am just like the oda gals he has around. Up until now am a very cautious person I hardly even give boys my time. Then it hit me if I don't try out relationships how am I going to find the real tin. I know dat I can easily just shut the guy out of my life without second thoughts neither am I in a hurry to find a husband just dat I don't want a situation wereby eventually I realize dat I turned down a lot of opportunities cos I was too uptight I want a relationship yes but I don't want a boy to add me to his list of galfriends. Camidoll would be looking forward to ur intelligent reply smiley
u have specified what u want,d problem is not whether he is a boy or man what matter is the state of his mind,his he ready 2 settle down sincerely with a lady?can he shoulder responsibility?...some guys are like kids who go 4 different favourable toys at thier disposal with d hope of interchanging them at will...if u do not want 2 make it 2 his list of available intimacy gadgets pls walk away gently because his intention is written all over him..The guy has problem of lust not love,so lust is at work not love..As 4 opportunities there are alot of it but your sense of identity is what you should work on...The best way 2 spot any right relationship at the initial stage is SINCERITY and RESPECT before other factors come into play,use those 2 keys 2 identify is ur arsenal..If i may ask, u said u need a man and not a boy right? ok but my question is does your general disposition qualify you as a woman or girl?whatever it qualifies u is what you will get in return i call it the 'law of attraction".remain blessed.
TravelRe: Any Nigerian In Czech Republic? by Chidonsky: 4:39pm On Sep 28, 2013
@gowaga@Geoman..Wat is the minimium 1 can have in his account 2 b eligible 2 apply.
TravelRe: Any Nigerian In Czech Republic? by Chidonsky: 4:34pm On Sep 28, 2013
[quote author=Geo-man]You must not write exam to be admitted in CULS,I didn't write any exam.[/quote]are u already in czech if u are can u provide us with info on life,schools,jobs opportunity,rate of tolerance generally in czech
TravelRe: Any Nigerian In Czech Republic? by Chidonsky: 4:30pm On Sep 28, 2013
gowaga68: if you still need more information kindly ask them here, me no get time for email stuff o.
it would be nice if you will be going to Czech University of Life Sciences Prague (CULS) their tuition fee is cheap but you've got to go for exam in Ghana i was at the Czech Embassy in Ghana two days ago to ask little questions.
tnx but what exam is that atleast since we are english speaking country..do we need 2 prove proficiency in english because i knw that could be d exam u talking about

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