₦airaland Forum

elipheleh:
Marrying an unintelligent woman is really the worst mistake a man can make.

If I can reverse the Hands of clock I wont go for my current wife.

Well, I always loved an intellectually sound woman. It trips me. Something like a medical doctor or a programmer lady. At minimum a working class lady. Both intellect and beauty trips me.

I imagined a marriage where I'll be on thesame frequency.

I am a 1st class material but financial burden made me drop to second class upper in my 3rd year to 5th year.

I always knew I was going far in life and needed a woman who wanted to go far too.

When I met my wife she was very beautiful, speaks very well and in her 1st year. Each time I asked about her studies she would convince me how she was the best in her class and this and that.

Ask for her results, she would say results are not yet out.

By her 2nd year I married her after she got pregnant. As per the honorable man na

Do you know this girl after I2nd year, all her results were carry over. I mean ALL. Not even 1 pass.

Damn. Women fear women.

Now she just birthing beautiful kids. But now there's communication. Tge knowledge gap between us is too wide. Nothing to discuss about. Even when I try to communicate it frustrates me. I will speak and still explain my very own grammar. Then I will now explain the meaning and the etymology before continuing with the sentence. Its a real pain communicating.

You can imagine my regrets when I see an intelligent hardworking lady doctor outside.

Secondly, she doesn't want to work or even study to improve herself.

I am not poor by any means. I am a software developer. I earn about N4 million monthly.

But my wife is only happy selling ZOBO and kwulikwuli. Even at that she is not serious with it. Imagine this year she has not even started selling anything. January has passed.

I've told her to learn and IT skills. She says No.

Told her learn nursing, she said No

I did international passport for me, her and our 3 kids. She just came up and said she won't like to travel abroad. Her fears is that women there are likely going to be working on jobs.

Ok. Madam lets open Boutique for you - she no get the energy to run boutique.

Oya learn driving and be taking the kids to school - it is taking her almost 3 years to learn. Today she will drive, tomorrow she will forget it.

Oya madam go back to school and complete your education. She no want.

Every quarrel, she will threaten to commit suicide (informing random relations of mine to take care good of her children if anything happens to her) and accuse me of not seeing any value in her. Madam which value? You don't want to improve yourself and you now cry that I am improving.

She wants this and that and I spend so much. How can a man be spending more than 3 million every month? She want chop chop chop.

Since I met her, I have overworked myself.

Story long..

Sometimes, I always feel like quitting this marriage. But being a Christian, I feel trapped in this better for worse journey.

If only Madam can develop herself. I wish she can be just willing to learn or pursue knowledge. Let her drop this laziness about self-development and littleness mindset thing. Kai. No ambition. No dreams. I wish she can just have dreams for once in her life. And be a lover of wisdom.

I plan to go far in this life. But its difficult to do so when you're unequally yoked with an unambitious partner.

Only God can save my marriage at this rate things are going

she is a wicked being...God will see you through

shadrach77:
19 bawo? Na wah! If he is 19 I'm the pope

POPE?

Resource should be controlled by who has it. The Fulani core North contribute next to nothing to the growth and the economy of this country yet they want to dominate every area.

The best for this country is true federalism or outright division along the geopolitical zones

No idiot should wake up and start spewing rubbish.

Of course Miyetti Allah is the same as Bandit

These people are criminals

You haven't condemned activities of Bandits but you can condemn the pardon of a freedom fighter

Sergem phone

Sergem phone

Sergem phone

This is witchcraft

You will regret this

Who grants citizenship to criminals and drug dealers?

Canadian Prime Minister called APC a terrorist party

Reconcile with your father... don't fight unnecessary battle

Exousiang01:
We should manufacturer information because you are hungry for it?
This is why you buy every lie sold to you.

There information is false but because you hunger for it to be true you me to give you verified news on something you lots made up.
He is the one who is posting the information you should be asking him to provide facts to back up his claim...
These politicians know how you people think honestly.
That's why someone can sit in UK and tell you lots that he will go into Aso Rock and kpuff a sitting president and you believed him and donated your money to him

Eyah ...you rally know me oo... can you help me get my money back from the person we donate it to?

This is the season of the resurgence of HIV


DON'T SLEEP AROUND


AIDS IS REAL


Many are HIV +ve

It is not a thing of joy.

I am not sure there are free meditations again.

Stay safe

Exousiang01:
Where are you getting your information from.

These politicians know you Nigerians don't think for yourselves, anything they through at you you swallow like man's best friend....

And this is how some of you go on living your life and making choices based on wrong unverified and decisions born out of bias....

God save you all

okay give me the verified news

How much is a member of the state house of assembly?

I hear governor is #250bn

Senator. #1bn

Rep. 500m

If the ADC is serious, ATIKU cannot be their flag bearer.

He is always on the run

But he always fail too.He is not as popular as he used to be

The truth is , bandits are in charge of this country.

The country is gone

The US government needs to capture many big politicians and locked them up

It's over...

The country shall be divided and the children of Usman Dan fodio will require Visa to enter the South

2027 is around the corner

I am interested

I have good past record

When did you treat it like that ?

I do not know about it

Nigeria government does nothing on terrorism ( boko haram , fulani herdsmen and Bandits)

Malami has no business coming out of prison

South-West Governors (1999–2023) — Ranking (Worst → Best)
(With reasons)
Rank
Governor
State
Years
Main Reason for Rating
1 (Worst)
Rauf Aregbesola
Osun
2010–2018
Half salaries, heavy debt, unpopular education reforms, labour hostility
2
Ayo Fayose
Ekiti
2003–2006, 2014–2018
Fiscal recklessness, weak institutions, populism
3
Gboyega Oyetola
Osun
2018–2022
Low-impact tenure, unresolved salary issues, electoral rejection
4
Segun Oni
Ekiti
2007–2010
Court-annulled tenure, instability, limited legacy
5
Gbenga Daniel
Ogun
2003–2011
Debt buildup, corruption allegations, uneven development
6
Akinwunmi Ambode
Lagos
2015–2019
Weak political control, abandoned projects, party rejection
7
Olagunsoye Oyinlola
Osun
2003–2010
Average governance, no strong long-term impact
8
Rashidi Ladoja
Oyo
2003–2006
Impeachment crisis, political instability
9
Olusegun Agagu
Ondo
2003–2009
Poor infrastructure outcomes, court removal
10
Lam Adesina
Oyo
1999–2003
Limited reform and visibility
11
Olusegun Osoba
Ogun
1999–2003
Short tenure, modest achievements
12
Adebayo Alao-Akala
Oyo
2006–2011
Populist style, weak institutional legacy
13
Adebayo Adefarati
Ondo
1999–2003
Conservative governance, low development footprint
14
Bisi Akande
Osun
1999–2003
Fiscal discipline but minimal infrastructure impact
15
Ibikunle Amosun
Ogun
2011–2019
Major projects, poor continuity, abandoned structures
16
Kayode Fayemi
Ekiti
2010–2014, 2018–2022
Policy-driven, but elitist perception
17
Rotimi Akeredolu
Ondo
2017–2023
Security gains, governance slowed by health issues
18
Niyi Adebayo
Ekiti
1999–2003
Stable foundation era, cautious leadership
19
Dapo Abiodun
Ogun
2019–2023
Improved fiscal discipline, steady governance
20
Bola Ahmed Tinubu
Lagos
1999–2007
Strong institutional reforms, but highly controversial methods and dominance
21
Babatunde Fashola
Lagos
2007–2015
Efficient technocratic governance, strong infrastructure
22
Olusegun Mimiko
Ondo
2009–2017
Health & social programs, balanced performance
23
Abiola Ajimobi
Oyo
2011–2019
Urban renewal, security improvements
24 (Best)
Seyi Makinde
Oyo
2019–2023
Worker-friendly policies, infrastructure growth, broad public approval

GanagiBitrus:
Some are declaring 30days dry fasting & prayers to get a husband,
While this one is poisoning her husband to death.

Walahi, dis life no go ever balance.

30days?
Dry?

It's seriously serious

Kobojunkie:
1. Well, she has a valid point there. Why should she have to take on additional stress all in order that you can save yourself from the stress of having to do more to afford the bills? I mean, you are trying to give her more work to do because you don't want to have to do more work as a provider. That ogboju dem dey call that one. 🥱🥱🥱

2. What reason would you have to suggest she do that, though? Anyways, you could always divorce your wife and go find yourself a cheaper woman who wouldn't mind cooking using charcoal and taking on all the stress that goes along with it. Alternatively, you can take over cooking duty in your home so you can handle the stress all by yourself instead of stacking on to the stress your wife already has to deal with. 🥱🥱🥱

na the way you dey reason be this ?🐑

Olishe should behave like an elder

Obiedun:
Your reasoning is very low. How old are you?

you have the lowest reasoning ability

Some things cannot be said.


If they are replacing him, there is a reason for that

Obiedun:
Good question. If we are divided can't you see how small each fragment will look. If we are together, we stand strong. If we can come together with our population and resources,we are strong. A small nation can be invaded at any time by another powerful nation .
Again, if we divide, what will be position of the minorities. The Jos people, the christian in the north are in trouble. The middle belt become landlock and it can be run over by their neighbors.

you are speaking arrant nonsense

I just dey laugh...you kill people of other regions like chicken, insist on establishment of Sharia law and milk other regions dry . No one has Monopoly of violence. It is time for breakup .

Let me be clear here, If the North insist on their ideologies, this country will break up, know this and know it well. You cannot conquer the other part of the country

Apkapbio
,I thought you said you dropped all charges after listening to a sermon .

But I understand. ( I won't say more than that)

Denying it means that you support it , it is worse than committing the crime

Hell Rufai should go and sit down