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These IPOB people don't understand anything. I hope you guys don't cause a big problem in this country.

antidelay what is going on?

If he had gone there and any idiotic IPOB person had tried to touch him, they would have been wasted. He made a good move. And you wonder why those zones will never get developed

Stupid IPOB people. And you wonder why your zones are not developed.

Kaodek:
Anti-dont be too happy oooo. She might be pregnant and still menstruating

Mr oga this is in the past na. She for don born is she dey pregnant that time

FRSC already extort people na. They are even worse than the police

i thought people now call him snoop lion

This is a big problem in the country. If corruption here can be tackled, things may actually start looking up for this country.

My ePassport has expired and i decided to renew it and the hell i have been going through can only be understood by God. I paid N30,000 to an officer there thinking it was the normal fee and that i'd have to tip him or sort him later, only to discover that it actually costs N17,500, the foolish officer abandoned me after collecting my money and for more than 3 weeks, i have been trying to get my passport. Apparently, nationwide the booklet for the passport has finished and there is a serious backlog of applicants waiting to collect their passports. I have been going to their office at ikeja everyday since monday just for one passport and nothing. While waiting in line today, a discussion about the whole situation started and i discovered that my own case isn't even that bad, someone paid N45,000 for his passport, another paid N52,000(they were supposed to collect it on the same day) and they have both been waiting since middle of November for their passports. This is really bad. Did anyone expeirence this and please how did you get your passport? i'm going to miss a deadline because of their foolishness

jayhansome:
Pls i av a question
1. Where does oyedepo pay his tithe to??
2. Were does d money go to?

to himself na

steamy peck?!!!! you be first class MUMU

antispexish:
me: " cramps, what cramps?"

toke: (she roled her eyes) " menstrual cramps"

me: (frowning)" are you saying you are on your period"

toke: " yes, it started yesterday night and I don't like the pains"

You should have seen my reaction

Bro i know your reaction. I have experienced it twice. That joy is indescribable

Tell her you are a big man, up and down. she can check if she doesn't believe you

This is sad. What is buhari doing? Rubbish!!!!

very very true

i have seen my new wife. Omowunmi please follow me to the other room right away

Please why is Dalung still there

austinosita:
Sex is very sweet and both men and women enjoy it! Why would she deny you or choose just 2 days in a week? Are you not good in bed? Don't u hit the right spot that will make her never hesitate anytime u want it? Or is it that she just does not like sex? How old is your marriage?

Oga, I'm sorry to tell you, but it's like she's seeing someone! Her love for you is "diminishing"


Sit her down and talk some sense into her.#whatnonsense

you are saying rubbish and people like you are why people should not post their problems in public. terrible human being

DaySpringer:
I have seen your post and your problem is complex and most of it is internal... Yet you are trying to find a solution externally.

Seems you weren't shown a lot of love early in life and till now you still seek that person that will come and make you their center of attention and make you feel that love that you think you are lacking..
Even if you get a girlfriend, she has to always show you a lot of attention if not you will doubt her love. This also means that you will be very clingy. You know the irony of all this? The same need for attention and clinginess you will display will make ruin that relationship.

This neediness also shows in your behaviours sub-consciously and girls pick up on it which accounts for the reason for most of your rejection.

Did i forget to add Low Self-Esteem?



Here you're not even talking like a man who knows his worth as a man, so the rejection you receive from girls means that you won't get married? That means you will fall for the first girl that seems to really want to marry you because she is the first girl that didn't reject you or rather one of the very rare ones who didn't.

OP
There are many principles and coded knowledge that apply and are true in this our world of dating and in the world of relationships at large.


Like i mentioned early you found a girl that seemed like she was the one for you and instantly you fell for her.. and then asked her out, you weren't sure she was fully attracted to you, you let your neediness shine through and you wanted to possess her instead of being patient and waiting till she was totally hooked to you.


Again your neediness and need for attention shininig through, almost every guy has gone through this with a girl before and the mark of maturity is when the guy is able to take things coolly, acknowledging that almost every girl does this; infact the mark of a well collected player is being able to spin it and make the girl feel like she missed out on something exciting, list all the things she missed and make her want to make it up to you next time she sees you. Other guys would use this opportunity to make the girl more into them but you're here whining like a baby.
Look at your victim mentality, "Being treated by ladies"


The girl called you and apologised to you and you're still here, whining, Some girls don't even bother. She deemed you important enough to apologize to you and yet your low self esteem didn't let you see that. You still had the victim and crybaby mentality. No girl's actions is supposed to determine, your worth, the fact that the girl did not do the necessary things in order to make sure she could see you, means she is uncoordinated, the problem is with her not you.



And Right here is the greatest expression of Low self esteem. Bro, those things might attract a girl but those things won't keep a girl, Infact those things are not the most important things to have when it comes to getting girls, I am sure you have heard of Ugly guys getting and banging the hottest babes, that's your proof there.

There are guys with what you have that don't need to talk much to get a girl.




Do you know that all relationships have their own problems?

Do you know that not all relationships that look happy on the outside actually are?

Do you know that almost all relationships eventually end?

If you cannot be happy with yourself when you're single, how can you be happy with a girl in a relationship? you will burden her with all your emotional needs (leading to you becoming insecure and clingy) and no human is meant to carry the emotional burdens of another, eventually they will break or leave and guess what? You'll be right back where you started.


So Bro what is the solution for you?
1. You need to learn to Love yourself.

2. Do research on Low Self-esteem and all it's manifestations and work on getting rid of it.
Self-Esteem does not come from what is on the outside or what you have but what is on the inside and that's why it is called "SELF-esteem"

3. Find things to do that make you happy, have hobbies. Learn to be able to enjoy yourself by yourself or with your guys and that will naturally draw girls to you.

4. Learn something, boosting your skills boosts your confidence and if you already have an amazing range of skills write them down and be proud of them and work to improve them.

Now get yourself out of that Self Pity shit, Girls are too flaky and unreliable for you to base your happiness on having them!

Cheers mate.

See analysis. Bros you get time o

you agreed to see by 6 but you left your house by 6.. she should break up with you sef

ILuvGummyBearz:
[color=hotpink]See now that yer problem "i couldnt wait 2 see her beautiful face"
.....u 2 concerned with apperance ,u are shutting off good women because they arent yer "type"[/color]

you are talking like this because you are not fine

but did you die?

veekid:

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Buhari sef

Na wa for you oo. what did he do this time?

you never see better juju

UrennaNkoli:
Nothing like satanic occult. There's always a trick to every supposed magic. If you take your time and examine well, you'll find the trick.

bro please stop quoting the whole post

brunxy:
Anti-Gobe........u don enter into the land of no return...bros locate the nearest Madam Uyo joint in that area to help urself o

Drsugar these are not psychological tools for handling depression or the MMM situation na, these are stages of grief. You too dey lie

http://grief.com/the-five-stages-of-grief/

no such thing as dane ak 47 gun. you too dey lie

buharimustlive:
BUHARI keep buying Dane AK-47 guns for our soldiers.



MOD please I don't like my user name? Who asked you to change it?

She doesn't know him

MMM

Na autograph we go chop?

And he somehow slid from the top to the bottom through the holes in block abi. You really believe that