₦airaland Forum

I just know she's going to lose– Lady reveals the meal her mum cooked for a competition at her workplace.

First wife laments after finding out on Facebook that her husband has married a popular Facebook herbal vendor.

I want to marry my girlfriend but she has H factor, I'm scared! Man seeks help

The Second Born in the Family – Is This True About You?

Does love really ever die?— Man laments after seeing a girl he hadn’t spoken to in 26 months 😔💔
Another recalls how his chest almost burst after watching his ex’s wedding video… 5 years later

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Lady lost her 650k job after requesting a salary increase.

My friend in Canada hired a fresh graduate in Nigeria (awaiting NYSC) as her executive assistant.
The job was simple: respond to emails and help schedule her day. She worked 2 hours daily and earned ₦650k monthly.

After 4 months, she realized my friend was a “big deal.” Maybe she got bad advice, but she sent a mail asking for a salary increase.

We ended the contract immediately. Now she’s asking if she can still keep working for the same pay.

Are we wicked for saying no? 🤔

https://x.com/UnclePamilerin/status/1968339296546636155?t=RjwMzytFtJiBrzHhG85AbA&s=19

What could be the cause of this and what's the cure for it? Nigerian boy Crys Out

My people that were raised by extremely strict parents, how has that affected you as an adult?

Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings. They Are Your Blood While She Is An Outsider— Nigerian Lawyer Advises Men

Canada-based Nigerian Pastor, Temmy Omoileri recounts how her 42-year-old friend has remained single because of her strict policies and expectations from her partners.

She was reacting to a viral video of unmarried women wearing wedding gowns in a church event.

My childhood friend is 42 soon to be 43, never married and no kids.

While we were younger she insisted on not marrying anyone who's more than 5 years older than her. Most guys just hold, eat and leave. She was a devoted believer, unlike me then. She acts like she's better than all.

When I arrived Canada, i introduced 2 different men who were in their 50s then she was in her mid 30s, she engaged them but kept it cold, they walked away.

She later told me that her pastor whom she was very close too, lost his wife, I said eyahhh. Hopefully you can marry him if he likes you, at least you be church girl. She said lailai. Unknown to me, they've been extremely close. The man has been sponsoring her lifestyle, he's a lawyer but early 60s and she's already 40.

According to her, she goes to cook, clean the house do everything but nothing else. So the pastor officially asked her out and she refused. The man was shocked, he really liked her. Told her to go take a masters program which he paid for.

But, according to my friend, he's too old for her. Auntie you're 40 already. She attended my first wedding, now they 2nd one. I told her, Ore, you need to work on your character ooo.

The pastor complained to her that despite all he's doing for her, she has never for oneday buy him a gift. The pastor withdrew all his financial commitment and stop answering her calls. A year later, the man remarried and she was very angry and jealous. She claimed he never loved her and he wouldn't have stopped helping her if he did. I told her, I'm proud of the pastor. I will be angry at him of he didn't withdraw.

She doesn't call first, check in and all..
Another guy complained, she said its a man's duty to call first and those blabla......
Bible says: he that wants a friend must be friendly.
I've heard pastors told me that they have older sisters in their ministry never married, 40s 50s
Haba! Kilode!
Also, the supposedly financially stable ones, the same pastors told them to not give money to their men.
Once his finances is weak they won't commit to him.
E continue adura, una eye go clear.
LIFE IS ALL ABOUT RISK.

I hear alot of dont marry again but I CHOOSE MARRIAGE.
EVERYTHING ABOUT LIFE IS RISK, CHOOSE YOUR RISK WISELY.

Men dupe ladies, ladies dupe men too.
Whoever is struck down by a car, another car will pick him/her up to the hospital.
Don't sit around and set unrealistic standards....
Be easy, be loving, be approachable, respect a man. If you cant respect him, let him be.
Be open minded and stop wasting your own time.
Loneliness is Real! Sexual urge is real! A woman is created for a man so stop deceiving yourself. No woman is limited by marriage. If you're thinking such, you dont know your potential and life given purpose.
Pray and be ready to obey God not a pastor alone.
Follow biblical principles of marriage.
Ruth approached Boaz....
Be humble.
At the end of it all " Que sera sera" what will be will be!

https://x.com/Temmy_omoileri/status/1967618692860317826?t=sM0QoMwf0Ya-mtjrUxwIrA&s=19

Your parents’ marriage shapes how you see marriage’ — Nigerian man sparks debate online, says it’s a major influence whether people admit it or not

If income comes from both husband and wife, then chores MUST come from husband and wife too. — Journalist Eloho Johnson sparks debate.

Mother and daughter go viral after revealing they are both expecting babies by the same man.

Non-Salary earners, What’s your source of income; How are you surviving?

Hi boss, Is Zk still valid?

GRACEGLORY:
Take this as a financial advise

Nobody knows what you have to offer in your house— Man recounts how he audaciously landed a job in a government house.

Wife secretly planned and secured a US visa for herself and the kids without her husband’s knowledge. He only found out two days before their departure. After arriving in the US, she blocked him everywhere.

Man causes stir on social media after he shared the "disadvantages" of dating him

Nigerian Lady recounts awkward moment with Tanzanian colleague at work

My husband recently bought a brand-new car, and the whole family was excited. Not long after, he mentioned that he wanted to sell his previous one and upgrade to the latest version.

I didn't think much of it,until a friend called, saying she spotted his "old car" at ShopRite being driven by a woman. When she confirmed the plate number, my heart sank.

It was indeed my husband's car. She even sent me a picture, and the driver turned out to be his girlfriend. He gave her that car as a birthday present, while I, his wife, am struggling with two kids and no car to ease our daily movement. I feel crushed.

How am I supposed to deal with this kind of betrayal?

Man cancels wedding after his fiancée refused to let his sister join her bridal train.

This guy was planning to get married to this girl, they had already fixed the wedding date and sent out invites, but the marriage had to be cancelled a few days to it, because his would-be wife refused his request to have one of his sisters participate as one of her bridesmaids.

Baba spoke to her for days about it, trying to convince her, because he had discussed it with his sister, but she remained adamant, he just had to end the marriage before it even began.

As a woman, why would something this trivial be an issue for you? A wedding he’s funding 💯?

https://x.com/Kasieobi_1/status/1963639626704249243?s=19

He saw her dad washing plates :Man cancels wedding after visiting his partner's family.

I hope rumor of Trump dying is not true Sha because en 😔😔😔😔😔hey God!

Did you use this in your secondary school days? Which hymn is your favorite?

Mine is

All things bright and beautiful!

Man shares the things he allows as a Gen Z CEO running a Tech Company

Man shares the things he allows as a Gen Z CEO running a Tech Company(Oxgital) in Lagos that would trigger old bosses😳🥺

Man shares a lady's response after asking what she would bring to his life if they dated.

I don't see myself eating this. Kinda wild.

Can you eat this?

She knew when we met that I was homeless, wore borrowed shoes and clothes – Nigerian man writes as he celebrates his wife on her birthday.


Dr Charles Apoki writes:

This picture is about 44 years old. It was taken in 1981 when I was 22 and she was 20. We went to visit the University of Ibadan Zoo. We took this Polaroid picture on our way back.

Memories are like diamonds.

My wife knew when we met that I was a homeless stranger; I wore borrowed shoes and borrowed clothes and she was aware.

Why did she agree to marry me?

I even deceived her that I was a northerner, hence Apoki, but she did not bother.

When she first met my parents before they moved to my village, Otokutu, they were living in a mud house at Okere, a ghetto with no electricity, pipe-borne water, toilets. There was literally nothing to excite today's young girls. My father was a security man in Idama Hotel, then, and we used to go visit him in the gatehouse.

Why was she not discouraged?

Please pray for that girl, celebrating her birthday today, that had faith in a homeless stranger, Pastor Mrs. Felicia Apoki, that she will live long to eat the fruits of her risk in marrying a rascal then.

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How old were you when you learnt that 9-5 is 9hrs a day, 5days a week and not 9am-5pm