Family › Lord Lamba Sparks Debate Saying Woman Who Pay Her Own Bills Won't Listen To Man by Chilipepper(op): 3:47pm On Aug 26, 2025 |
Comedian and skitmaker Lord Lamba shared on X:
"If she is able to pay all her bills without your assistance, she cannot listen to you."
The post drew mixed reactions.
One user replied: “Paying bills doesn’t cancel mutual respect. Independence is not a license for pride, and providing isn’t a ticket for control. Relationship na partnership not boss and employee vibes.”
Another added: “A woman who truly loves you will naturally be supportive and submissive, whether or not she pays her own bills. Some women simply want to love and be loved in return.”
Some women, however, pushed back. One wrote: “As I’m paying my bills by myself, you have to be doing more than just paying bills for me to take you serious.”
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Wasted Transport, Wasted Photocopies – Kaduna Polytechnic Broke My Heart by Chilipepper: 4:00pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
All these skills? And you just finished NYSC too yet you're already borrowing 5k? No savings at all from your alawee? Besides your skills should bringing money, if they are not, consider physical skills like painting, solar installation and pop. You can't be borrowing 5k again if you can master those skills. TechToyin: I'm a website and web application designer, a research writer and data analyst |
Romance › Lady Raises Alarm After Being Asked Out By Female Passenger In A Keke by Chilipepper(op): 5:58pm On Aug 24, 2025 |
Lady Raises Alarm After Being Asked Out by Female Passenger in a Keke
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Family › Re: Nigeria Inflation Is Draining Me Oooo.i Need Help by Chilipepper: 2:07pm On Aug 22, 2025 |
Linus...single person sef dey spend pass 35k per month. Caaz: Seems they re killing 3 cows every month hence why 1.2 million isnt enough for them every month.
Me that manages 35k every month and still have enough surplus change left for a family of 5. |
Family › Re: Sad Story Of Nigerian Woman Abused By Husband After Relocating To UK For Love by Chilipepper(op): 1:54pm On Aug 22, 2025 |
Sad story of Nigerian woman abused by husband after relocating to UK for love
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Family › Sad Story Of Nigerian Woman Abused By Husband After Relocating To UK For Love by Chilipepper(op): 1:52pm On Aug 22, 2025 |
A Nigerian woman has shared her heartbreaking story of how she thought she had found her soulmate, only to end up in an abusive marriage after relocating to the UK for love.
According to her, two months after moving, her husband began physically attacking her — punching her in the face, strangling her neck, and calling her degrading names such as “bitch, animal, fat, Nigerian scammer.”
She revealed that despite constantly apologising even when she wasn’t at fault, and trying to make the marriage work, the abuse only got worse.
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Education › Re: National Open University Of Nigeria (NOUN) Students by Chilipepper: 11:39am On Aug 22, 2025 |
Thank you! I will check it out. Enskynelson: Before you proceed, Go to https://nounupdate.com/fee-check Check the courses listed for your program and put eyes on the MTH courses. You can go further by downloading the course materials to see the content from nou.edu.ng Lastly, you can check past questions for the maths courses and see if you are fine. All the best
If you are fine, you can go ahead and apply. |
Education › Re: National Open University Of Nigeria (NOUN) Students by Chilipepper: 2:46am On Aug 22, 2025 |
Good evening, seniors in the house. I need your suggestions, please.
I studied media studies, but last year I decided to sit for another WAEC so I could switch fully into a science-related course. Now, I’m considering applying to NOUN to study Information Technology. However, I noticed that one of the courses listed is Elementary Mathematics.
To be honest, I don’t really like mathematics, and I’m a bit worried about how difficult it might be. I believe I can push through, but I still have this fear and uncertainty.
Please, I need your sincere advice. |
Health › Man Shares His Battle With Vitiligo And How He Is Finally Getting Relief by Chilipepper(op): 9:20pm On Aug 20, 2025 |
A man shares his battle with vitiligo and how he is finally getting relief even though expensive.
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Crime › Nigerian, Oyebola Coxon, Charged With Manslaughter After Baby's Death by Chilipepper(op): 6:48pm On Aug 20, 2025 |
Nigerian Born Home Birth Influencer Charged With Manslaughter After Baby's Death Nigerian-Born Home Birth Influencer, Oyebola Coxon Charged with Manslaughter After Baby’s Death in Prolonged Labour.
An Australian-based midwife and social media influencer, Oyebola Coxon, 36, has been charged with manslaughter following the death of a baby boy linked to a home birth she supervised.
Coxon, who promoted herself online as a natural birth advocate with over 40,000 followers, allegedly left a woman in labo¥r for two days without calling for medical help, despite signs of complications and repeated requests for hospital transfer.
The mother was eventually taken to John Hunter Hospital in Newcastle, where she underwent an emergency caesarean section on October 2, 2024. However, the baby, delivered alive, d+ed eight days later.
Coxon, founder of the controversial platform Mamma Informata, had built a following by dismissing medical practices such as ultrasounds and blood tests, claiming conditions like gestational diabetes were “non-existent.” She also encouraged high-risk home births, including breech and twin deliveries, while urging women to resist doctors’ advice.
Her arrest has sparked widespread debate in both Australia and Italy about the dangers of unregulated online health advice.
Coxon appeared in court last Thursday, where she was granted conditional bail. Under her bail terms, she is barred from practising or teaching anything related to pregnancy or childbirth, must surrender both her Australian and Italian passports, and report daily to Nelson Bay Police Station.
Her trial is scheduled to begin at Newcastle Crown Court on October 15, 2025. https://www.facebook.com/share/16d3d2SCzX/
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Family › Re: Man Laments After His Wife Refused Him To Bring His Sick Mother To Their Home by Chilipepper(op): 10:37pm On Aug 18, 2025 |
Yes. A peaceful and reasonable husband needs permission from his wife before bringing his sick mum to the house. You think taking care of a sick old human is ABC? Some people sef always quit their job just to take care of their sick parents. So what are you saying? As a husband, I will just carry my sick mum com dump for another person's daughter? No...I no be mad person. I need her to agree first because 80% of the care will be from her. tanigororo: He needs permission is like saying you need to knock before you enter your own house |
Family › Re: Man Laments After His Wife Refused Him To Bring His Sick Mother To Their Home by Chilipepper(op): 7:39pm On Aug 18, 2025 |
What happened to the husband's sisters? If the man is not married, who will take care of the mum? And to your comment, a reasonable man know that in situations like this, he needs 100% permission from his wife because who will be taking care of the mum? Is not the same wife? abeg try dey reason somethings well before you talk am out. tanigororo: I no understand, so he need her permission to bring his own mother to his own house. Make she go her Papa house if she doesn't want the responsibility. |
Family › Man Laments After His Wife Refused Him To Bring His Sick Mother To Their Home by Chilipepper(op): 7:04pm On Aug 18, 2025 |
Nigerian man laments after his wife refused his request to bring his sick mother to their house
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Family › Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Chilipepper(op): 6:43pm On Aug 18, 2025 |
Mothers-in-law destroy marriages more than the couples themselves - Nigerian lawyer says
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Romance › Nigerian Gay Man Celebrates 3rd Wedding Anniversary With His Husband by Chilipepper(op): 10:35pm On Aug 16, 2025 |
Three years ago, we stood before our family and friends, promising to love and cherish each other for all our days. Since then, we’ve grown together, learned together, and loved deeper than I ever thought possible. I love you endlessly. ❤️ #3YearsMarried
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Car Talk › Car Lovers, Which Version Of This Car Is The Strongest? by Chilipepper(op): 10:14pm On Aug 16, 2025 |
Car lovers and drivers, Which Version Is The Strongest?
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Family › Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Take Her Husband’s Surname After Marriage? by Chilipepper(op): 9:15pm On Aug 16, 2025 |
Amid ongoing debates, the question arises: should a woman be required to adopt her husband’s surname after marriage? To husbands, is this a matter of importance, or do you view it as insignificant?
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Family › Re: Man Shares A Touching Story Of How He Was Treated Differently Growing Up by Chilipepper(op): 7:19pm On Aug 16, 2025 |
Man shares a touching story of how he was treated differently growing up.
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Family › Man Shares A Touching Story Of How He Was Treated Differently Growing Up by Chilipepper(op): 7:18pm On Aug 16, 2025 |
Man shares a touching story of how he was treated differently growing up.
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Family › Which Stage Is This In Marriage? Pictures by Chilipepper(op): 4:30pm On Aug 16, 2025 |
Dem talk say marriage get stages — sweet, bitter, sweet, bitter, zigzag. One time love full everywhere, next time you dey ask yourself why you even jam this person marry.
Na which stage you think this couple dey for this picture?
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Family › Should A Married Man Take His Plate To The Kitchen After Eating?:lady Asks by Chilipepper(op): 5:36pm On Aug 14, 2025 |
Should a married man take his plate to the kitchen after eating?:Lady asks
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Celebrities › Re: Phyna Calls Out Dangote After Company Truck Allegedly Crushed Her Sister by Chilipepper: 9:59am On Aug 14, 2025 |
In every African country I’ve visited, heavy trucks usually move at night. Even here in Jos, you rarely see trailers on the road during the day.
The rate of bloodshed is alarming. Dangote needs to call his drivers to order and stop hiring these young, inexperienced almajiri drivers . They drive as if they’re competing to see who can kill the most |
Health › Man Shares Transformation Photo As He Marks 4 Years Of Quitting Weed by Chilipepper(op): 12:16pm On Aug 13, 2025 |
Man shares transformation photo as he marks 4 years of quitting weed and drugs. I’ll be 4 years weed-free in 3 weeks. I didn’t quit because it wasn’t fun. I quit because I was becoming a shadow of myself. For the next 14 days, I’m dropping real talk on weed, its effects, reasons to quit, and how recovery changed me. Weed didn’t just slow my mind. It dimmed my face. The first picture was me a few days before quitting. I thought I was “chilling,” but I was just tired, in my body, my skin, my eyes.
Weed doesn’t just cloud your brain, it dulls your drive. You start missing deadlines, calling laziness “vibes,” and watching your ambition fade in silence. I’ve been there. Escaping that fog was the first step to getting my life back. The second is me today. No magic filter, no fancy skincare, just 4 years weed-free, better sleep, more water, and a clear head.
When I quit, I didn’t expect my face to change. But when you stop poisoning yourself daily, your body thanks you in ways you can see in the mirror.
Sometimes the transformation isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about finally looking like the person you were always meant to be. https://x.com/meloadebanks_/status/1955530610669240415?t=gCyWxdBjlRR0NN6o9i4Jfw&s=19
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Family › Netizens Share Their Terrifying Experiences With Street Beggars. by Chilipepper(op): 9:41pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
Netizens share their terrifying experiences with street beggars.
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Forum Games › For $100 Million,which Of These Animal Could You Survive Against For 20 Minutes? by Chilipepper(op): 3:55pm On Aug 11, 2025 |
For $100 million,which of these animal could you survive against for 20 minutes?
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Family › Man Lists 8 Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin by Chilipepper(op): 3:19pm On Aug 11, 2025 |
Nigerian Man Lists 8 Benefits of Marrying a Virgin 1. Your penis will fit because bigger prick never stretch her vagina before you
2. She won't mistakenly call her Ex's name when you're having sex
3. You won't need to drink sexual enhancements & the likes to satisfy her
4. You won't have concern about her Ex activating okafor's law on her
5. You'll get brand new womb that postinor haven't injured
6. You won't stumble across her nude or sex tape anywhere
7. You will get pride as her man cause nobody go fit brag they've knacked her before
8. She'll pair bond with you. Her mind go relax inside your house cause she never too explore & her eye never tear for street
With these few points of mine, I hope I've been able to convince & not confuse you that virgins are more beneficial to marry as wives.
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Health › Mentally Challenged Lady’s Rehab Transformation (Before & After Photos) by Chilipepper(op): 12:38pm On Aug 11, 2025 |
See the Before-and-After Transformation of a Mentally Disabled Lady Following Rehabilitation Today been 10 of August, we went to NDLEA Abia state, to check on one of our own Miss Gloria.
The good news is that she is responding to treatment and hopefully will be discharged very soon.
I want to specially thank the Governor of Abia State Dr. Alex Otti and his beloved wife for their support towards Gloria. And to the State PRO NDLEA Abia State Command, Ikechukwu Akunne. Thank you for your unwavering support sir. Chukwu gozie unu🙌
To lord Zeus family, ekene unu kasi, if not for your support miss Gloria might still be in the street, Dalunu.
We are hoping for her full recovery very soon 🤞
It can only get better ❤️🩹. https://www.instagram.com/p/DNLm4ePMrly/?img_index=10&igsh=MTZoOHV6eHNhODJyaA==
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Family › See The Viral Pictures From A Man’s Double-wife Wedding In Isiala-ngwa, Abia by Chilipepper(op): 12:02pm On Aug 11, 2025 |
See the Viral Pictures from a Man’s Double-Wife Wedding in Isiala-Ngwa, Abia
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Properties › Man Shares How A Tenant Stylishly Defrauded His Uncle Of Four Years’ Rent by Chilipepper(op): 9:15am On Aug 11, 2025 |
Man shares how a tenant stylishly defrauded his uncle of four years’ rent. My uncle barely disturbs his tenants for rent, cos of the guilt of making people homeless.
A tenant that owes him about 4 years rent suddenly moved out, his excuse was "he was feeling guilty cos he's too broke to pay up". We just realized that he actually moved to his own house he has been building.
To show compassion dey hard sometimes Lol https://x.com/Yemihazan/status/1954614046889484795?t=BlCjCWwqtAOfPHpRKsLPFQ&s=19
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Family › See These Viral Couple Pictures:is This What True Love Looks Like? Men, Can You? by Chilipepper(op): 8:50pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
"They say love is blind"
Have you ever experienced real, authentic love in your own life?
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Health › Lady Left Heartbroken After All Her Frozen Eggs Fail Thawing Process After 10yrs by Chilipepper(op): 6:09pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
A woman who froze her eggs at age 30 so she could have kids later has shared her disappointment after none of the eggs survived the thawing process.
According to an X user, the woman is now 41, finally found love, and was ready to start a family — only to discover all the eggs she’d stored for over a decade didn’t make it.
“Lo and behold, NONE of her frozen eggs survived the thawing process. NONE! After paying for storage for over 10 years!” the post read.
Another X user reacted saying the clinic should refund her for all the years of storage, but the original poster clarified, “No one did anything wrong. Her eggs just didn’t survive thawing.”
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Family › What Are You Paying For? Reno Omokri Asks Men Who Pay Bride Price For Non-Virgin by Chilipepper(op): 12:04pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
The Difference Between Dowry and Bride Price and Bride and Wife
There is a huge difference between a dowry and a bride price. But in this part of the world (Sub-Saharan Africa), we use them interchangeably. But they are not interchangeable.
A dowry is the money and property given to a female child on her wedding day, by her parents, to take to her husband's home to become the joint property of both her and her husband.
It is practised in Europe, Asia, and the Middle East.
This is in line with the Biblical injunction that a wife is a helper to her husband, not a burden-Genesis 2:18.
A bride price, however, is different. In African culture, and Jewish traditions and law, it is the property or money demanded by a bride's family to give her away in marriage to her intended husband, on the grounds that she is a virgin. Please see Exodus 22:17, and the aso asa Ibale custom of the Lukumi Yoruba.
Exodus 22:17 says:
If her father absolutely refuses to give her to him, he must still pay the bride-price for virgins.
And according to the Lukumi Yoruba, if the bride's virginity is not proven by the aso funfun (white cloth on which the marriage is consummated on the bridal night), being stained, the marriage is not valid and the bride price will be returned.
The exorbitant demand for property and money by some Sub-Saharan African ethnicities, who I will not identify, for a woman who is not a virgin is not legally and technically a bride price. It is extortion!
If you read Scripture, the term 'bride' is never used for a woman who is not a virgin.
For example, Isaiah 62:5 is very clear on the matter. That verse says:
"For as a young man marries a virgin, so your sons shall marry you; and as the bridegroom rejoices over the bride, so your God will rejoice over you."
Also, Jeremiah 2:32 says:
"Can a virgin forget her ornaments, or a bride her attire?"
These verses prove that bridehood is synonymous with virginity.
Song of Solomon 4:12 is even more explicit. That verse says:
"A locked up garden is my sister, my bride; a locked up spring, a sealed fountain."
As a man, by African tradition and Scriptural law, you can marry a woman who is not a virgin. But such a woman is not a bride. And you should not pay any bride price for her.
For example, you will notice that David paid a bride price for King Saul's daughter in 1 Samuel 18:20-27. However, he did not pay a bride price for Abigail-1 Samuel 25:40-42.
If we in Africa do not return to these traditions and continue the moral decadence in our society, where sex and sensuality are not curtailed, we will continue to be the dregs of the world, with high rates of sexually transmitted diseases.
Finally, a White wedding is not our culture in Africa, and it is not a Christian wedding. It is purely a European traditional wedding.
If we must adopt that culture, we must appropriate it accurately.
In Europe, from where we got the practice, it is NOT the man or his family that pays for a White wedding. Customarily, it is the bride's father who foots the bill.,
Industrial Money Obtainers, I hope you have heard?
Reno Omokri
Gospeller. Deep Thinker. #TableShaker. Ruffler of the Feathers of Obidents. #1 Bestselling author of Facts Versus Fiction: The True Story of the Jonathan Years. Hodophile. Hollywood Magazine Humanitarian of the Year, 2019. Business Insider Influencer of the Year 2022. 21st Most Talked About Person in Africa, 2024. https://www.facebook.com/share/p/19g626jYVb/It amounts to punishment if a woman allows a man who is not her husband to sleep with her and take her virginity for free, only for her parents to demand a bride price from the man who wants to marry her. Think about it. What are you paying for? The woman is not a property that you are buying. No. If not, it would have been called 'Woman price'. What you are paying for is a bride. And for you to be a bride, you must be chaste.
Many people do not realise that if a man has intercourse with a woman, he has automatically married her. You doubt me? Okay, read the following verse of Scripture:
"Then Isaac brought her into the tent of Sarah his mother and took Rebekah, and she became his wife."-Genesis 24:67.
Isaac and Rebekah did not have a wedding ceremony. The act of marriage occurred when Isaac brought Rebekah into his mother's tent and "took" her.
What do you think took her means?
I don't care who insults me. God put me on Earth to live up to His expectations, not yours.
Let me warn our people that we have a problem as Black people. Please fact-check me: Black people are the only race who have communities where more babies are aborted than are born.
If virginity was not important, why did God choose Mary? It was for one reason only. Her virginity. As a society, we must reward virginity, rather than promiscuity. More than half of Black Africa's challenges, from high HIV/AIDS rate to overpopulation, will be solved if we returned to our traditional values of restricting sexual intercourse ONLY to married couples. https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1GTRHnp9ni/
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