Good afternoon,

I am about 6month pregnant, but I have been experiencing itching on the upper parts of my vulva and tip of my clitoris. No discharge or bad smell. But it is getting uncomfortable because it's being on for about a week now. Kindly advice and proffer solution.

Secondly, I feel my baby kick but it's not so much. For a day, I will at least feel my baby move .....but not sure how much I am suppose to be feeling my baby kick. Kindly advice on this too.
Thank you.

Thank you very much for your response.

It's normal to have irritation to the prenatal routine meds after times of use in the beginning of pregnancy especially for first timers. You should not really get bothered about that.

If smells of your routine were your only problem, you could severe your breath for awhile until you have them taken, and move a certain distance away quite sure of having none of them at sight before freeing your breath.

If dosage were the problem, take the least dosage for each, maintain this for awhile before going back to normal use.

Or, spread normal prescribed dose intake over hours of day so that even if you do not have them taken all out once, you would eventually have them taken on different time daily.

It is understandable the need for supplements, however the necessity is not 100% as most of every nutrients is accountable in a well nourished balance diet and fruit and veggies.

You are certainly not wrong supplementing with Pregnacare. You may want to try the other listed choices earlier on to continue use routines.

All the best. [/quote]

Good evening Doctor

Thanks a lot for this group.

I would like to ask.......I had not taken the prenatal drugs before I got pregnant but since i did, i started taking the regular folic acid and minerals.....after sometimes....the drugs nauseas me very badly....I cannot stand the smell neither can I take them. Pregnacare was suggested which I started taking.

Do you think I am on the right track? Kindly advice.....I am about 9wks......I believe it's not too late to get on track

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EdoBoy90:
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Hello, please kindly forward me a practice question. chidinmadavid9966@gmail.com

Hey guys, exam should be on Friday and Saturday but no test or mail has been sent about it. Does anyone have an idea about what's going on?

Thanks so much timileyin.....av got your message

tommy05:
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PucciGuru:




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We applied in 2013 when graduate trainee position was advertised online. I applied online and got invited for aptitude test in june, 2013. We were called 3months afterwards for interviews and now for documentation.

tommy05:
@Chipeculiar,mayb u shld wait til monday morning b4 calling.Also,U can jst drop a mail 4 dem,some can assess d mail 4m thre ipad,android or blackberry.

ok.....thanks alot dear

timilehyin01:
sent to ur mail

Thanks alot dear...but have checked my mail, i cant find it . Can send it to ....

tommy05:
@chipeculiar, check d details of d sender of d invitation for documentation nd call him or send him a mail if he can assist U 2 scan d form.Mine s already filled. Pls,do dt asap so dt it won't affect because FBN doesn't lik anythng tipex or falsification.

okay dear.....just that none of the number is going through

Pls I need help from here....my guarantor made a little mistake on the form and i had to use correction pen to make the correction. I want to know if its extremely wrong to use tipex on an official form? if it is, can someone scan a plain copy to my mail pls,. Thanks alot

pak:


Though it's hard to give advice about lifestyle and personality to people you haven't met but I daresay, I don't think you have a problem here, not a serious problem anyway. I think it's all about temperament and balance.

The only issue I sense is that considering your background, you might just have some inhibitions that sort of makes you antagonistic towards relationships especially considering your possibly puritanical background. I was there too, the first time, a lady I was eyeing came to try help me clean my house, I almost had a fit. and I was already in my late twenties then. Maybe just maybe that might be the issue

Thanks alot dear. Life is about learning, learning and learning again

Floodgater:
Good you have followed the advice of letting him know so that he can understand, be patient and help too. Your personality though friendly is not the type that goes beyound friendship surface ie caring and your environment of growth did not encourage it either. You will have to learn from him by doing those caring acts he shows you back to him, ask him to tell you the ways he wants you to care for him, do them as fit and always show appreciation to his caring acts as that itself is care. Also pay attension to acts of care displayed by others to you or others, appreciate them and apply them where necessary to him and others but note that your acts of care may be taken for granted sometimes by some then remember you once did with others and dont stop, moreso, you would be mastering your caring acts and always be in returned served with care cup when needed. This also applies to Xiones3.

Thanks alot dear

babyosisi:


Knowing your mistake and your shortcomings is half the problem solved
I remember the igbotic sumtin you said earlier and from the way you described him then it didn't look like you had any amorous feelings for him but now that you have spoken in some details about yourself,it makes more sense,the issue is more with you than him.
It doesn't make you a bad person
I will hate for you to lose a good man because you're judging him too harshly.
Can you confide in him and tell him you love him dearly but have a problem with showing affection and that he should bear with you while you work through this.if he knows you truly love and care about him he will be patient with you.

There is no other way to show affection and care but to show it
Be nice to him
Compliment him when you think he dressed well
Ask his opinion about stuff
When you call or see him,ask how he is doing and how his day is going
Listen attentively when he is speaking
Show him you care about him
On his birthday,do something special ,get a cake, a small gift like a good tie, a good card ,cook his favorite meal and celebrate that with him
When he is hurting,show him you care by speaking words of comfort
Ask about those most dear to him like his mom and dad
When he takes you to go visit his mom,occasionally get her a small gift e.g perfume,a set of handkerchiefs etc and sit and talk with her
If he has nieces and nephews ,when you visit there with him,buy them a packet of biscuits.
Don't be judgmental,allow him to be himself and when you err be quick to apologize

There are little things you can do to show him you love him and care about him

You completely nailed it. I need to copy and paste this somewhere. Thanks so much babyosisi. I apologised to him yesterday and honestly I have being the problem in this relationship. Thanks alot dear and God bless you

pak:






The fact that you have expressed concern is a good indicator that your supposed 'uncaring' nature is not pathological.

But before any reasonable advice can be given, I think a little info is needed.

How was your family background ? did you grow up in a broken home. Were your parent's marriage abusive ?
Were you abused as a kid ? (either physically, mentally, emotionally or sexually)
Truth is, Most people from balanced homes were love is expressed hardly ever have problems showing care when they grow up. Being uncaring is more often than not a defence mechanism from harm based on trauma experienced in early childhood.


Again, to your present life (please this is not an attempt to condemn or be hypocritical). Do you keep multiple relationships ? have you had multiple sexual partners. Situations like this also hinder normal behaviour in interpersonal relationships because the opposite sex subconsciously becomes a thing/ something to be used for a purpose. An object for which care does not apply.

So maybe you might need to answer these questions first.

I was never abused. I'm from a stable family, raised up in a christian way(deeper life for that matter). Tho we arnt financially stable....u knw d idea of your friends having textbooks in class and u dont have it.....i just didnt care to avoid intimidations....datz just an example. I have never really released my heart to anyone....even my female friends....u get to enjoy me when am around but immediately distance set in...i don forget person be dat.....tho i always have friends around cos of my temperament...dat alone wont make me miss the previous friends. Tho am really learning and trying to express affection. I dont have multiple partners.....in short....av neva had sex.....i think av answerd your questions

OnyeEgo1:


open up to him, av an heart 2 heart discussion with him abt ur history... Den change buh don't force it oh

thanks alot dear.....i just did and it really went well. I just really need to learn how to make sacrifices myself...not leaving him to do it alone

Happy easter to you wonderful friends and counsellors on this trend. I've being a quite follower here and i dont have a choice now than to seek for help.
I'm 23, finishd serving and working(tho underemployed). I met dz guy around july last yr tho av posted here before on how igbotic the guy is and i was adviced to just leave cos i didnt see any good in him. But honestly, he is a great guy and he has tried in every way to prove to me that he is serious about me. Due to ego, pride, non-challant attitude, av not treated him like a lover at all...I blamed him for virtually every thing and i was d one doing all the corrections in him. I'm a very lovely person especially to my friends but wen a guy comes around with dat word marriage...i tend to frustrate his love and dat attitude av made me loss 2 other great guys maybe its cos of age, i dont knw. Now am on d Virge of losing dz guy too, he threatened to quit and dat made me realise all my mistakes, my shakara was too much. I've begged him hoping that he will change his mind and i promise to be nice and lovely wen he comes back. But the help I need now is how do I express love with my heart. Though i'm a strong-minded person and cos of d harsh way i grew up, d major way to avoid intimidation was not to care about anyone else. Though dat attitude has changed but nt totally yet. Remember I knw my mistakes now, I just need help. Thank you

Yes i just got mine......am feeling all waowed

thorpido:
There are people who say they can't marry someone with a deep accent and they walk from such relationships.
You will have to ask yourself if it is something you can live with.
Apart from the constant arguments,how is his character?
I think you both need to know how to have discussions and listen more rather than just reacting.

datz true........he is good tho but i dont see him as one that gives.....he doesnt see giving as a priority....maybe its me that is over-reacting....its nt as if i'm demanding for anything but a man gives to smone he loves

thorpido:
Are you Igbo too?Is your communication still mostly on the phone?

mostly yes..bt we see on weekends mostly. am an igbo but grew up in yoruba land

GlorifiedTunde:

Is the bolded still so? How much physical contacts have you made and how frequently?

we see mostly on weekends...its just abt few hrs to talk....datz an issue 'cos i dnt knw hw he can physically react to issues....and because of our denomination, we are nt allowd to be too close(even to hold eachothers hands is nt allowd)

Goodevening everyone here, i av bin following up on this thread and i find it particularly interesting and expository. I need help on this issue....I'm in a relationship with a guy i met around august last yr....we've bin friends for a while now but communications have mostly being on phone. At first, I enjoyed the chats and calls but i later noticed some little things about him that i dont really like.....am more of an exposed person than him....from his igbotic voice to how he walks nd how he comments on some issues, i really dont appreciate. I understand that there's alot to give up for a rlship or marriage but now i feel that am going to have to teach him or complain abt many things abt him and he is already seeing me as one who is hard on him even tho he claims he is open to learning.....as at now....we quarel over little statements and all dat..my question is that, are all these normal when two persons are getting to know eachoda? ofcos he plans on getting marrid

83%...........i was surprise

pls can smone send me the past question too. i will really apreciate. chidinmadavid9966@gmail.com

obviously the first

AM DOING MY TEST PRESENTLY, BUT UNFORTUNATELY THE SYSTEM SHOT DOWN AND NOW I CANT LOG IN AGAIN. IT SAYS THIS CANDIDATE DETAILS IS PRESENTLY IN USE ON ANOTHER SYSTEM WHAT DO I DO? MY TIME IS ALMOST UP.

stolenstone:
@OP, pls show some respect for the dead, that first picture is the pix of the late Pst Mrs Biodun Kumuyi.

datz not true. You dont knw her at all

UNN dont off pre-degree programmes except if they just started.

alienware:
What of the previous recruitment they did for medical delegates few months ago ?

dey've concluded that naw. The first batch for training have even being paid.