To be really honest with u,in as much as it might seem difficult,if u find urself in another relationship again,self discipline should be ur goal...nd u didn't say if u were actually in a relationship with d guys that has slept with u or if it's a *LIKE* nd f**k scenario or a toaster who just had his way through nd left..... you didn't specify that,sex isn't love sweetheart, u probably had it with d wrong people,work on ur self too cus u alone know ur flaws,nd if u still think it's a spiritual case,den do not hesitate to do d right thing....