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emotions1:
sincerely I don't understand your question

my question- should I tell him the whole truth and not hide it. And by doing that am I nt risking d future? Do u thnk he will break up or forgive me and forge ahead?

WebSurfer:
Did you kill someone? Or how many guys did you sleep with during the relationship? After confessing the truth, we can now help you suggest or air our opinions

I slept with only one man and I had 2abortions for him

Harwehroh1:
it will be beta if U can tell him d truth... in fact everything dat happened nd d reasons for ur actions. U cannot build a home (good) on a wrong foundation. whether U lyk it or not.... he's still gonna find abt it sundae. so, my dear, it's better U tell him everything nd let him make his decision. I av a feeling he's not gonna breakup wit U.... since uve stopped dese acts. IT IS WELL

thanks and Amen

Strahovski1:
Did you copy and paste or is this you? Let me know so I can make my comment

it's no copy and paste bro. The truth! I need help. Pls help out

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We have dated for 5years now and have plans to tie the knot this year. Right from the very start I felt threatned by a girl he won't let go because according to him,she helped him back in school and she expects he marries her because of how far they've come.cuz of how bad I felt as to why he won't let the girl know what we have, me too I sought to cool off in the arms of other dudes. (while we were still dating) Even if u won't believe me, I've had quite a numba of good intimate relationships BUT without SEX. Then I met this guy who gave me everything love, sex , money et al...now it's all coming back to me. His mum went to do enquires about me in a spiritual house and was told about all of all this shady deals in the past eventhough I av stoped them. And. He was asked to ask me all about my life since we began dating. But I am scared he could use them against me in the future. He says he could forgive me and move ahead if I tell him the. Whole truth, but if I lie, that might just end it as he was already told about all of it but wants to hear it from me. He even told me f some of d tins I knew I did alone which made me biliv him. nd I am telling him the truth and he has bveen so dissapointed( yea I didn't expect him to do any less and it makes me. Even the more scared. But do I av an option? Do you think it's wise to do so? I honestly love him. I don't imagine ma sef witout him buh he waasnt there when I needed him, I know ignorance ain't An excuse. Yes, u can crucify me but I know it wasn't entirely my fault and besides ve stopped doing any of those buh d past is hunting moi now. Pls I need ur candid advice. God bless u

happy birthday Swts.

SmellingAnus:
Queen Kashybaby Boo... You are a darling... I am looking forward to the day I will open a thread just for you

just passing...

[quote author=Adimine post=44952967][/quote]really. Thanks Bday mate

Congratulations ya'all.

alobright17 and ZeeAfrica. The OP passes accross a beautiful message for people to learn and correct themselves. please call yourselves to order. you both are derailing this thread. thence, stoping others who wants to learn from not learning.

Two people no dey mad the same time. thank yu as una co-operate in advance

SmellingAnus:
check again... I have followed you back

ve seen it. check

SmellingAnus:
no dear..

no then. i didnt get a message

SmellingAnus:
I have replied your PM

u r "oneluvs"?

Dec 7th

Smellymouth:
What about runs guys?

Cutehector, when will you share your story?

u can be troublesome eh. loling@runsguyz

SmellingAnus:
Op you are partially right... But people should also fall in love with beautiful girls but they shouldn't loose their self esteem... As much as possible don't feel intimidated at her beauty.. see her as also privileged to have you just as you are also privileged to have her...

Well Said!!

Fkforyou:
Anywhere this dare2differ dey na to dey pick fight, I think it makes her feel special. ....you no dey tire? or maybe this is the closest to reality as you can get.







Note: before you say ode am going to say it first.

ODE....

thank God say u don notice am. him stupidity don over smell sote pple notice. his entitled to his opinion just like evry1 else. aw my opinion cum take bcum him headache na im tire me.

dare2differ:
Liability!

jobless e-goat

dare2differ:
Liability!

jobless e-goat.

dare2differ:
Liability!

thats wah u and ur family are. jobless e-goat

dare2differ:
Liability!

liability like ur 50year old sista. at least i beta pass am. with all una family foreign cert .put togeda she wont b married. so who is the liability? make sure u take d right dosage of those pills given to u @yabaleft. kill yasef . 22 years old is strong enough to handle a home-kill urself if e too pain u

dare2differ:
Here is the thing babe, you are highly likely to be better off with a foreign certificate than with a Nigerian certificate. Almost all top officials have got foreign certificates. You see all this big big companies all over the world, their top top personnels get foreign certificates even their Nigerian bred officials sef go go abroad to meet up. Naija education na shit. You are an example of how shitty it is, I no tok say she dey too young to marry, no be the question be dat. The question be say, can op wait for 1-2 years for hin future wife to get a quality education that go help hin family join

You should have gotten the memo by now. You stink of mediocrity. The babe he wants to marry goes all the way, na strong, mature, smart babe. You be none

The mentality is different biko. if you were from a financially stable family, you no go think like a mo.ron

Na jealousy dey worry you. Liability!

eh ya! i so pity ur pity. if u had all d foreign certificates i dont think u will b on nairaland looking for who to quote and say trash to. who made u better as a person with foreign certificate? "it is nt of him that willeth but of God who shows mercy" yu shud b busy in all ur "big companies" with ur foreign certs. at least a u come from rich home. u sppose don posses like 1,000 foreign cert. you say jealousy dey worry me ova ma fellow girl, ova marraige abi ova dat ur 50 year old sister wey day waka from church to church dy curse una village witch whearas na she b d witch.? it baffles me to know dat a simple suggestion i gave to the OP is wah has become ur problem. it wont only b ur problem but will cause u more headache . danbanzza! take heart missta! meanwhile, u don drink ur medicine today? #proudlynaija! #Ilovemadeinnaija. kill yasef.

dare2differ:
"22 is not too young. However this issue is within a context of a woman who is willing to do an introduction and finally come back to Nigeria to marry. This is about a woman who favours quality, who knows that foreign certificate will give her an added advantage in the Nigerian job market. This is about a man who wants to get married because of outside influences. Don't be stvpid, woman!!! Learn to have a mind of your own and use the brain God dash you.

You do not have to tell me you are a liability. It is so obvious

Who Quality don help? whether yu bag a degree from nigeria, chad, U.S et all, If the Grace of God has Refused to favour u fogerit... u wey dey talk aw many foreign certificate u get? if u do, who e help? oloriburuku. u want the 22yeard old gurl to go get d certificate cum back so dat u go pursue am till yu marry am, thereby shinibg on her glory. learn not to b stupid mr man. here in Nigeria 22year old can handle a family....#caseyabaleft

dare2differ:
If you have money, opt for mediocre things over quality things

u needn't quote me. i undastnd ur pain. ur lineage has never produced someone with that degree bfor, so as u c say person wan get am and at a young age too u r feeling like thats wia the world strts from...listen up, in this part of Africa-Nigeria. 22 is old enof to handle a family. how about that ur aunty wey dey select husband till she reach 50?...i just pray u receive sense afta readn this. odawise ur case is Yaba Left

keyman0007:
the funny part is the way everyone keeps bashing me like i am a child abuser na wa o.


Her parents never mentioned for ones that their daughter is too young and they know their daughter better.


She is from a well to do family. I went to her house to see her parents, both mum and dad and they were very nice, and we talked . Told them am seeing their daughter, You need to see the drilling i got from her mum, all manner of questions, where do you work? where are your parents? how old are you? hw did you meet her? alot of question ohl!!!

she even gave me some books to read about courtship and preparing for marriage and went as far as reading some part of the book that talked abt requirement for marriage like financially emotionally and spiritually matured.

And since then I have been communicating with them and they have spoken to my folks as well.

She has met my parents too and they know her age and they never for ones said she is too young.

Maybe when i mention marriage to her folks the game may change.

lol.

We are now in athe Eastern partbof Nigeria. please also note that The Dress now sells for #3,000. thanks to all who has purchased from us.

Everyone needs to understand that he even suggested she did it here in Nigeria. buh she no gree. ya'll think 22 is early to marry huh? this i d same reason y at 30 no man don "price" any girl because she go dey feel say she don pursue degree. ur mother got married n reproduce u. y at 22 marraige dey fear u...later u go dey go all d church dey disturb all una village witch whereas na u hold ursef. i have an aunt who is 45 n cant marry. na di type tin she do sef.

na wa o. what you want odaz have...Ther is no girl who dosent pray to be married early. but its sad enough that @22 some ladies c it as "too early to marry". it all good. @OP, i u will listen, pls leave her n get someone else. its hard n difficult. buh please just do that. at this point, ahe seem nt to know wah she wants. mayb before she realises u would be HAPPILLY Married with Children. its painful buh face it. ask God to give u the heart to face it.

MissOyin:
Am +1 2day Thank God 4 his mercies

HBD to u swts. wish u a longer life than methuselah. ve fun!