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[quote author=chizzyoo1 post=132613853]My girlfriend’s ex recently sent her around 200k. When I asked when she last spoke with him, she said it was about three years ago and that they hadn’t been in touch since then. Suddenly, though, this money showed up. I asked if she was planning to send it back, and she said she would. When I followed up to confirm she had, she said yes, but when I asked for a receipt, she explained that her ex had actually asked her to use the money to buy items for him from various vendors. According to her, she sent the payments to three different vendors and kept 30k for herself.

A few weeks ago, she came over, and someone called her. She ignored the call, and when I asked why, she told me I should just trust her and that it was nothing. After a long conversation, she finally opened the chat, and it turned out she’d been talking to her last ex. Their messages seemed like they were still dating. When I asked why they broke up, she had previously told me he was too controlling, but otherwise, he was a good person. I told her that didn’t seem like a strong enough reason to break up, but she insisted it was and apologized, saying she wouldn’t talk to him again. Last month, I asked her to block him on Instagram, but now I found out they were actually chatting on WhatsApp. I forgave her then, but now there’s this new situation.

My main question is this: does it seem reasonable for her ex to suddenly send her a large sum of money, even though they hadn’t spoken in three years? I’ve been with her for ten months, and I provide for her financially, so it’s not a matter of her needing the money. This whole situation feels strange to me. Should I trust this girl Please honesty we have had a few issues some my fault hers, but we have moved on but all this is bursting my brain

My girlfriend’s ex recently sent her around 200k. When I asked when she last spoke with him, she said it was about three years ago and that they hadn’t been in touch since then. Suddenly, though, this money showed up. I asked if she was planning to send it back, and she said she would. When I followed up to confirm she had, she said yes, but when I asked for a receipt, she explained that her ex had actually asked her to use the money to buy items for him from various vendors. According to her, she sent the payments to three different vendors and kept 30k for herself.

A few weeks ago, she came over, and someone called her. She ignored the call, and when I asked why, she told me I should just trust her and that it was nothing. After a long conversation, she finally opened the chat, and it turned out she’d been talking to her last ex. Their messages seemed like they were still dating. When I asked why they broke up, she had previously told me he was too controlling, but otherwise, he was a good person. I told her that didn’t seem like a strong enough reason to break up, but she insisted it was and apologized, saying she wouldn’t talk to him again. Last month, I asked her to block him on Instagram, but now I found out they were actually chatting on WhatsApp. I forgave her then, but now there’s this new situation.

My main question is this: does it seem reasonable for her ex to suddenly send her a large sum of money, even though they hadn’t spoken in three years? I’ve been with her for ten months, and I provide for her financially, so it’s not a matter of her needing the money. This whole situation feels strange to me. Should I trust this girl Please honesty we have we have had a few issues so my fault so our thoughts as well over balance everything that was in the past,