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RomanceRe: I Have Feelings For My House Help. by Choilila: 12:29pm On Feb 12, 2022
ikennamadu1:
Nigerian girls are useless and senseless including you
Nigerian men are cheap and useless..
but they are sensible because they harvest heads and organs for nothing but money.
RomanceRe: The Shock Of My Life by Choilila: 12:27pm On Feb 12, 2022
Nigerian men are cheap and useless.
RomanceRe: Man Proposes To A Lady On Wheelchair by Choilila: 12:26pm On Feb 12, 2022
Nigerian men are cheap and useless.
RomanceRe: Men At Increased Risk Of Mental Illness Post Breakup: Study by Choilila(op): 12:21pm On Feb 12, 2022
Males are typically at fault for the breakdown of their relationships; and were awful/lazy/petulant/rude/abusive, etc. until their woman finally had enough and left. Or they believed the grass was greener elsewhere; only to find out the aforementioned, much like their struggle hairlines and patchy beards, were spray painted with Bigen.



bunch of weirdos.
RomanceRe: Men At Increased Risk Of Mental Illness Post Breakup: Study by Choilila(op): 12:19pm On Feb 12, 2022
if by chance, the relationship ended due to physical/sexual abuse, infidelity or just being a piss-poor partner ... oh, well. His family will figure something out for him.


grin
RomanceRe: Men At Increased Risk Of Mental Illness Post Breakup: Study by Choilila(op): 12:12pm On Feb 12, 2022
upon the redpill pinkpill shits you guys are still suffering from mental health issues..

AoIfeNightFall.
cool
RomanceMen At Increased Risk Of Mental Illness Post Breakup: Study by Choilila(op): 12:11pm On Feb 12, 2022
A new study has revealed that post breakup, men are at an increased risk of mental illness, including anxiety, depression and suicide.
Breakups are difficult. Getting over the fact that things won't ever be the same between you and your partner is a painful process, and it may take years for someone to be at peace again. A new study has revealed that post breakup, men are at an increased risk of mental illness, including anxiety, depression and suicide.
The study was published in 'Social Science and Medicine - Qualitative Research in Health'.
"Most men experienced the onset or worsening of mental illness symptoms during a distressed relationship or following the breakdown of a relationship," said the study's lead author Dr John Oliffe, a Canada Research Chair and UBC professor of nursing whose work focuses on men's mental health.

He noted that marital separation quadrupled the risk of male suicide and suggested that distressed relationships as well as separation and divorce contributed to men's mental health challenges.
Dr Oliffe and the team at UBC's Men's Health Research Program interviewed 47 men about their experiences with the breakdown of an intimate partner relationship. When faced with conflict in their relationships, men tended to downplay issues, causing the relationship to fracture even further.


"Stereotyped masculinity plays a role in how men react to a broken relationship," said Dr Oliffe, who also leads UBC's Reducing Male Suicide research excellence cluster. "For example, men's uncertainty for how to articulate and problem-solve in the relationship context resulted in many men isolating rather than reaching out for help. Most men in the study were battling with transitions in the partnership--like bereavement, parenting or infidelity--and their primary goal was to avoid conflict."
The study also found that men who were in distress following their breakup used substances, including alcohol, to cope with feelings such as anger, regret, sadness, shame and guilt. This is in addition to the immense uncertainty of what life could look like with less access to children, financial challenges and the loss of social connections.

Complicating these findings is the isolation and disruption caused by COVID-19 public health restrictions, which can lead to increased alcohol and substance use at home, and exacerbate conflict, leading to worsening mental health, Oliffe added.
On the positive side, the study revealed that following the breakdown of a relationship, men did engage a variety of resources to address their mental health needs.
"Help-seeking efforts among these men were wide-ranging and included individual or solitary efforts like exercise, reading and self-care while other men tapped existing networks or extended their efforts to connect with support groups, or attend


in thinking about the implication for services, she explained that while men tend to wait until crisis happens before seeking help, they did invest considerable time and effort to move on from, as well as understand their role in the break-up. "We need to re-conceptualize men's mental health promotion as legitimately including self-help, informal resources and male peer group services in addition to professional services."
Dr Oliffe added: "For the longest time we have treated separation and divorce as demographic data for examining risk factor potential in men's mental illness and suicide. The current study findings provide important contexts and direction for getting upstream to assist men to build better relationships, and that is the focus of our current work with Movember."


https://www.hindustantimes.com/lifestyle/relationships/men-at-increased-risk-of-mental-illness-post-breakup-study-101643625234295.html
RomanceRe: Men, Do Not Lose A Good Woman!!! by Choilila: 12:05pm On Feb 12, 2022
tiswell:
baby girl,they must have done a number on you cheesy cheesy
I have never been on adventure with them because they're useless and cheap.

boring lack taste.
imagine last week I was listening to the hills by weeknd and one was asking me "what type of church song are you playing " I just ignored the goat.
RomanceRe: (my Story)before You Help Anybody,think Am Twice Bro/sis..e Get Why! by Choilila: 10:00am On Feb 12, 2022
cry
RomanceRe: I Have Feelings For My House Help. by Choilila: 9:50am On Feb 12, 2022
SatanicSatanist:
obamamessi gang. Na them
cheesygrin
RomanceRe: I Have Feelings For My House Help. by Choilila: 9:49am On Feb 12, 2022
Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.
I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.
Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.
Nigerian men are cheap and useless.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Make I Try My Luck. by Choilila: 9:47am On Feb 12, 2022
mascot345:
.

The phase is gone... I am gonna be a good dad soon.

Just doing comparison..

We are need the best in marriage.
good for you..


don't worry you will see ur match in OR out of NL.
bye
RomanceRe: Who Else Noticed Women No Longer Brokeshame Men These Days by Choilila: 9:38am On Feb 12, 2022
talk2hb1:
So it shall be!
tongue
Nigerian men are cheap and useless.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Make I Try My Luck. by Choilila: 9:37am On Feb 12, 2022
mascot345:
..


Hmmmm... I am even tired of the sex o.
Looking for a good woman.
after passing out of the bad guy stage and fuvked thousands of pussies.

good luck.
RomanceRe: Who Else Noticed Women No Longer Brokeshame Men These Days by Choilila: 9:28am On Feb 12, 2022
talk2hb1:
If You Don't want to be unfortunate stop quoting me
Nigerian men are cheap and useless.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Make I Try My Luck. by Choilila: 9:28am On Feb 12, 2022
mascot345:
I am an Engineer looking for a wife. I am an Igbo Guy... I live and work in Abuja. am looking for a wife. I have a good ride too.
My monthly savings is 100k after flexing...

Any good Igbo babe in Abuja should hit me up.
If u are not an Igbo babe... Don't text me o.
A working class o.
U should be able to take good care of yourself and have a monthly income of 30k at least.

Let's try something.

Let's know if marriage can work between us.

My what's app number: 08036161871
Nigerian men are cheap and useless..

ladies bewared..
most ppl here are only looking for sexmate.
FamilyRe: True Definition Of Love Between Mother And Child by Choilila: 9:26am On Feb 12, 2022
MufasaLion:
You have no point. Science don't stand on hearsays. Facts are the key. I can't take you serious. Goodbye.
Nigerian men are cheap and useless..
head harvesters.
RomanceRe: Who Else Noticed Women No Longer Brokeshame Men These Days by Choilila: 9:25am On Feb 12, 2022
talk2hb1:
Oh, I see.
You could have tagged Mosdi & Co.
Please exclude me from your bitterness campaign!
Nigerian men are cheap and useless

Your bitterness does no good to my bank account,
then you could have avoid me

I answer to my Daughter and Family.
i will only take your campaign serious if and only if I get a million dollar for every bitterness post you make
my guy, you Don dy do am since by replying to me
Nigerian men are cheap and useless.
FamilyRe: True Definition Of Love Between Mother And Child by Choilila: 8:54am On Feb 12, 2022
MufasaLion:
What statistics did you use to derive to your conclusion? Where's your data, and where did you collate the no be all this rift raft now. The love of money. their mother no fit visit them again, na to attack her from Behind. ?
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many, we don't need to make a statistic about that...

we read and see news everyday about the topic.
harvesting heads and organs for nothing but money.

Nigerian men are cheap and useless.
FamilyRe: True Definition Of Love Between Mother And Child by Choilila: 8:46am On Feb 12, 2022
no be all this rift raft now. The love of money. their mother no fit visit them again, na to attack her from Behind.
the reason why I said Nigerian men are cheap and useless.
RomanceRe: See Example Of True Love by Choilila: 8:45am On Feb 12, 2022
castro316:
We've been together for 8 years now. We live in Ireland, 30 miles from Dublin, in a rented and unemployed apartment.

I don't work because I spend all my time training. My dream has always been to be a champion.

She believed in me and despite the lack of money she made an effort to take care of my diet, I had to eat athlete's food, respect food and she took care of that. She encouraged me all the way.

When I came home from hard training, without energy, tired, she always told me: "Conor, I know you can do this."

And now I earn millions of dollars fighting. In my battles there are 50-70 thousand spectators. I can buy any car, any clothes and any house.

She didn't ask for anything, but she deserves what's most beautiful in this world. She is always by my side and keeps telling me that I can do anything!

If I got to where I am, it's all thanks to her who never let me down and never left me alone." - Conor Mcgregor.
- copied from Quora
I knew they are not Nigerians..
RomanceRe: Who Else Noticed Women No Longer Brokeshame Men These Days by Choilila: 8:32am On Feb 12, 2022
talk2hb1:
Okay, your bitterness is noted
cheesy
you refused to note their bitterness whenever they scream "NIGERIAN girls are useless "


Nigerian men are cheap and useless.
FashionRe: Skin Tone Appreciation Thread by Choilila(op): 8:23am On Feb 12, 2022
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FashionRe: Skin Tone Appreciation Thread by Choilila(op): 8:23am On Feb 12, 2022
caramel creamy

FashionRe: Skin Tone Appreciation Thread by Choilila(op): 8:22am On Feb 12, 2022
ghy

FashionRe: Skin Tone Appreciation Thread by Choilila(op): 8:21am On Feb 12, 2022
teddybarz:
Wonder what make those white human to be that way. . Fair complexion and black is normal. Buh white? Issa no no for me. . cry
melanin..



every tone is a yes for me.
FashionRe: Skin Tone Appreciation Thread by Choilila(op): 8:20am On Feb 12, 2022
bh

FashionRe: Skin Tone Appreciation Thread by Choilila(op): 8:18am On Feb 12, 2022
ton tangy

FashionRe: Skin Tone Appreciation Thread by Choilila(op): 8:17am On Feb 12, 2022
tan

FashionRe: Skin Tone Appreciation Thread by Choilila(op): 8:17am On Feb 12, 2022
Pretty albinoz

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