It is the dream of every parent to see their children excel in their daily endeavours and career at large. Parents always want the best for their children and are very proud of their children that are on the right track in life, little wonder you will you see parents introduce their children to their friends in this manner “This is my first son his name is Donald, he studied medicine in the prestigious University of Nigeria Nsukka (UNN). He is now a certified and competent Doctor. ” others introduce this way “This is my daughter Cynthia, she is a first class graduate of Accountancy, throughout her education she attended same sex schools and at the tertiary level she attended Convenant University I am so proud of her because during her schooling I made sure she kept herself intact as a woman. ”.


Parents always want little or no distraction for their children while at school, so they see these same sex schools as a perfect “haven” for their children to attend to stay clear of the vagaries, corruption and social vices embodied in the society.

However these are seven reasons why the choice of same sex school would prove to be detrimental in the long run for your children:


1. It denies parents lack of complete control of their children

Most of these same sex schools are boarding schools, so parents don’t get to see their children till its visiting week or most commonly at the end of the term.

At a same sex boarding school these children pick up habits easily from fellow students they feel are superior to them in one way or the other. Judging from the current day situation where emphasis in schools has shifted from how intelligent a students is to how fashionable, sleek, good looking, rich and sociable a person is, it can be easily seen that the habits students pick from each other most of the time are negative ones and in the absence of the parent figure to control and curb that on the daily, these habits slowly contribute to their attitudes and you see such children engaging in smoking, drinking, cultism.


2. It doesn’t capture the full picture of the society

Students who attended same sex schools for the majority of their schooling struggle when finally exposed to the society at large. Thus they tend to be reserved and clueless when the opposite sex is within range. They seems lost when the opposite sex behaves in certain ways because most of the females have been taught in same sex schools to avoid contact with males once they are outside the school vicinity, that such things may lead them into unwanted pregnancy hence bringing disgrace to their families.

So, when these girls encounter the society, they are always miles behind other children who attended conventional schools and learnt first hand on a daily basis how to interact, cooperate and get tasks done together with the opposite sex.


3. Lack of sexuality? Then we will create one within

Most same sex students at senior secondary level are well aware of the opposite sex and what they bring to the table in terms of sexuality all thanks to Mr Technology and his many concubines of social media like facebook, twitter, whatsapp, BBM, instagram and of course the web browser etc.

Although some students still remain naïve at senior secondary school level, the few spoilt ones introduce them to vices like pornography via videos, magazines and personal stories they encountered while at home.

When their level of exposure to pornography becomes extreme, they get innovative and try out the practises on themselves.


4. They make the greatest mistakes

When these students advance in their schooling, they eventually find out that their parents basically put them in same sex schools to intentionally deny them exposure with the opposite sex.

So when they now attend conventional tertiary institution, they feel as if a chain has practically been broken in their lives, they are now strange to this new found freedom so they try to maximise the opportunity of the few months they have at school before returning home at semester closure.

Hence they act recklessly, they try to mix up and feel among with the crowd. They party to the extreme, gamble and do lots of silly things in the name of catching fun. The girls might get pregnant, some carryout abortion and some die in the abortion process. The boys become radicals and arrogant and they might take to vices like stealing, raping and cultism.


5. Social imbalance

This applies mostly to males, on the average male graduates from same sex schools finds it very difficult to approach a female and start up a conversation, be it in a church or any other social gathering. They even find it difficult to respond and keep conversation floating when approached by females.

It gets even worse when some of them find it difficult to express their selves in public or even make new friends males and females alike. They always avoid face to face contact when interacting with people.


6. They don’t make good life partners

Men that are end results of same sex schools are usually traditional and orthodox in their behaviours. They generally believe that there is an assigned place for their wives which is to prepare them food and produce babies, and to them they feel making money available to the wife should be enough for her worries. They never consider being romantic to their wives, listening more to her and spending quality time with her.

In contrast, they spend time with friends they have bonded very well with because they see this as a comfort zone.


7 They don’t make good fathers

Due to their traditional nature, men that graduated from same sex schools don’t usually accept the change that occurs in the society easily. So when their children start exhibiting tendencies like talking about the opposite sex, or other sensitive topics these men usually make the wrong decision by shutting the topic off instead of reasoning and enlightening the child so they don’t get the wrong information elsewhere.

Consequently the children tend to be more secretive and privy about events on going in their lives and this increases the chances of such children making numerous mistakes in lives and they learn life lessons the hard way.


So, parents send their children o same sex schools to get the best out of them and prevent them from mixing up and getting corrupt at an early age. However some of these kids pick up one or more of these vices which makes their modus operandi questionable.

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Nigerians celebrated, its citizens both home and abroad were joyous that alas change has come to stay, Gen Muhammad Buhari is now President elect. I practically saw videos of Nigerians abroad dancing on the streets because of this same victory of the Rtd General. That was not even the end of it, even countries like the United States of America commended Nigeria for having carried out a credible and accurate election.

I am also overwhelmed by such encomium that Nigeria my country has amassed for itself by strategically and dutifully shown that elections indeed can be free and fair. I say this not only because I am a Nigerian but also because I, like thousands of other Nigerians participated in this election exercise as INEC ELECTORAL OFFICIALS.
And if by any means the just concluded election was deemed total, comprehensive and conclusive I believe that shows to a great extent how we the electoral officials were industrious and unbiased in discharging our duties. However after spending six days outside the comfort of our homes without bathing and sometimes managing only to brush our teeth and always devoid of sleep yet for some reasons best known to INEC, we the electoral officials are not yet worthy of our pay.

It should be noted that I for one discharged my duty in Alor Anambra state and as fate would have it I was assigned to the polling unit of the serving senator, Senator Chris Nwabueze Ngige. The villagers and polling agents in my unit commended my electoral team for having been effective and efficient in discharging our duties, some went as far as getting us refreshment twice that day.

Alas sitting in my house now writing this piece I gloom and I wonder because I believe the truth still lingers in the dark. I remember coming back at night with those sensitive materials, I had a very tight grip on my electoral bag. I was always seated in front seat on the bus and beside me was a police officer with gun corked and pointed at the street anticipating to fire at any form of violence or obstacle that intends to impede us from getting to our local government area at Ojoto on the same night of the election. With all these events occurring either side of the other I and my ward electoral officials could not afford to sleep because of fear of the unknown.

Eventually when we got to the Local Government Area unscathed we still sorted other miscellaneous materials and aided collation officers by issuing them our result sheets. As election process is over and winners have been announced, why has INEC not yet deem it fit to pay us here at Anambra state especially those of us that served at Idemili South LGA, because news making the round have it that some other states officials like those in Benue state have been fully paid.

If it is recorded in the Bible that the work man is worthy of his pay, I believe this question deserves an answer..... Mr Jega where did the funds meant to settle Idemili South LGA Electoral Officials go missing?

What should be the topic and section?

It might sound funny to you but they are definitely
some few positives to pick out from this epic story
you are about to read.
And the story goes thus: A marketer
named John was once asked by his firm to travel
to a particular country in order to publicise and
advertise their designer’s shoes there. But
unfortunately for John on his arrival, he saw lots of
children, fathers and mothers walking about with
their bare feet. And so this precarious sight
discouraged John and he called his firm and asked
to be extracted from that country that the citizens
there did not appreciate shoes.
A week later a different firm also sent a
marketer named Charles to market their shoes in
the same country. Upon Charles arrival he also
found out that nobody there used a shoe and so
he called his firm and told them to send in more
thousands of shoes that the people there have not
been introduced to foot wears.
He started convincing them of the benefits
of using shoes and he sold tremendously that at a
point his firm could not keep up with the amount
of shoes needed, so the firm resolved to producing
the epic traditional rubber sandal popularly
referred to as “BATA” in order to meet up with the
rising demand of foot wears.
In conclusion, the difference between the
two marketers John and Charles is that what John
saw as a barrier, Charles saw as a stepping stone
to a much higher ground and this made him
generate immense wealth for his firm and himself
respectively.
So in your studies and in life, the way you
look at a situation determines if you will be able to
solve it or if you will fall by the way. Always keep
a positive mindset, be optimistic and see the best
even in a pathetic situation the way Charles did
and surely the sky will be your limit.

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The only problem with enduring the fulani cain is that .... Even if u stop at number 99 ... You won't be pitied and the girl remains with the Father

Lol ... My friend if you are not ready to pay up ... No wife for you oh

In my many years working at a cyber cafe in the
heart of Lagos, i have had many people from
different walks of life especially the elderly folks
walk into my Cafe in view of typing the
requirement their prospective son
in-laws is to pay for the hands of their daughter in
marriage.

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I probably shouldn't be telling you guys this, but
the stuff is this: this old folks Papas and Mamas
seems so friendly that they try to explain to me
why they charge each amount for each item and
they relate it to the history of their village.
i wont forget a memorable event there was this
particular daddy from Delta state, from his looks
he would be probably in his 70s dressed in a short
nicker and a polo and wearing a hat and holding a
walking stick with a shiny white boot and with a
smile.then he handed me a list still smiling and
while i was typing he was just telling me the origin
of the various items.
This is a look of the normal bride price list
ITU MMANYA IZIZE
1. 3 cartons of star beer
2. 2 cartons of Hi-malt
3. 2 gallons of up wine
4. 4 gallons of tombo wine
5. 1 carton of small stout
6. 1 bottle of seamans royal
ITUZU MMANYA
1. 5 cartons of beer : 3 gulder & 2 cartons of star
2. 5 crates of Hi-malt
3. 1 carton of small stout
4. 2 gallons of up wine
5. 8 gallons of tombo wine
6. 2 bottle of seamans royal
7. 4 packets of cigarette(benson&dorchester)
8. 2 bottle of sunff
9. N800.00 for tobacco leave
10. N5,000.00 Esisite
11. Ego Nnadi N500.00
12. Ego lhuonu N400.00
13. Ego Okenye N200.00
14. 4 cola & 4 alligator peper
15. A set of chieftaincy &staff.
KINS MEN (IGB NKWU)
1. 5 cartons of gulder beer
2. 5 cartons of star beer
3. 2 cartons of small stout
4. 8 cartons of Hi-malt
5. 4 gallons of up wine
6. 16 gallons of tombo wine
7. 8 packet of cigg benson/ dorchester
8. 4 bottles of snuff
9. N1,600.00 for tobacco leave
10. 16 fat yams
11. 1 gaint goat
12. Ego Nnadi N500.00
13. Goat buyers N400.00
14. Ego company N500.00
15. Elder man N200.00
16. Young boys N1, 000.00
17 2 bottle of seamans royal
18. 8 colanuts
19. 8 pepper.
FOR MOTHER ONLY
1. Holland's & big george, blouse (lace), fine shoe,
handbag neckles, ear-ring, head-tie &morining-
rose powder.
2. bag of rice, 4 lengths of stock fish &one bag of
salt
3. 20 liters of kerosene & 10 liters of red oil & 10
liter of groundnut oil 20 bar soap hf carton of lux
soap.
4. stainless basin & N5000
5. 1 carton of maltina.
FOR WOMEN
1. Opening of our book N400
2. The elder's right N500
3. The main money N4,000
4. 2 cartons of maltina
5. 20 bars of soap original
6. 2 bags of salt
7. halt carton of lux
8. two tins of powder.
FOR UMU-ADA
1. Opening of book N200
2. Elders money N2,000
3.1 bag of salt
4. 2 cartons of lux
5. 4 creates of can malt
6. cassh of N20,000
7. Sec.s money N500
Lol, Guys really have to look twice
Well to conclude this write-up in the many tribes i
have typed the most expensive and strictly for
those who want to throw out cash you probably
wanna marry an Mbaise Imo State
babe.........................................
but if you wanna economize to the barest
minimum then a Delta State babe is ideal

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