₦airaland Forum

That year, i nor fit go backyard alone/

22o62021:
She is fuking Another dude anal

E no go better for you chairman

You have destroyed that girl by pushing her into anal

And having useless thoughts that will lead you to break up with her.


AR LEAST SHE GAINED SOMETHING FROM YOU.

Chai bro, why you dey swear for me na, am i the first person wey dun do anal before? Besides before I enter that place ehn, infact it was after I broke up with her based on one kind eff up, when she came back begging, i use that one take collect her back based on sey she nor want that stuff, plud even when we started sef, na only once a week she dey give me, she nor like am.

Saintmary:
Long distance relationship get as e be joor.

Plenty lies

Different thoughts just sometimes runs through my head. Like one a next door neighbor hammering her butt while am here being faithful.Omo this life no balance.

Saintmary:
Are you sure she's not getting anal sex somewhere?


Girls of nowadays sha

Oh well, na that one i now know oo, I once indirectly questioned her and she denied it, saying is it because she allowed me to do it with her that I feel she can now share her bum with anyone else.

rickleye:
Hmm - had to read it twice to understand.
I’ve never read someone describe himself as attractive ( usually in novels or at least with some humility ) in any case - some of my fellow NL have shared the answers and to surmise
1. You bought yourself a relationship . You lavished her with gifts and money. Moved her from hostel to a private place , bought her a car etc.
2. You never really had a relationship that flowed both ways. You gave and she did what ? Sex ??
3. Since the relationship was built falsely coupled with the snippet of her butt, she no longer finds you enticing and her feelings have dried up.
4. I really hope you were not planning anything serious with her cause dude SHE IS NOT THE ONE.
5. The Canada where you’re doing your MSC there are hundreds of single Nigerian Ladies available .
6. Get over the heartbreak 💔.
My 2 cents

Your post is misconstrued to your original intent of response.

sameoldguy:
Wait o’ OP, you sure she’s not rimming some oversized d!ldo up that ass? Na wa o.


If that’s not the case, then I’m sure she’s collecting the real nacking from another guy, and the most annoying part is that, the person could be her next door neighbor.

Stop wasting your money on a woman you are not married to.

She once owned a Love Machine that I bought for her. But she destroyed it saying the stuff is demonic. Truth be told, we used to do it anal once in a while, na me dey force her, she never liked it, and i'm not that big that the ramming will eventually affect her or change the way the opening looks, since we dun dey do am, never noticed any changes at all. But the case of someone else ramming her there is possible cos there are times when I call her on VC and my instinct just tells me someone is in our apt based on how she dey act.

Brandiebird:
You broke her trust and now she’s worried… it’s that simple. Also, calm down with the sex talk and videos and create a mental connection with her if you’re serious. Another thing is that you hooked her in with all the flash and now you’ve run out and that’s unsettling for her. She might be looking around for an upgrade too so everything you’ve thought of is possible.

Thats why I stated we have done it twice even after opening up to her.

DenreleDave:
Maybe she is not cool with the video sex stuff again... Or u not probably giving her money like b4 again..

Any of the two could be

Na why i wan know which one be which.

MySexyMoni:
U r so into her already... I expected of her to use part of the money You've invested in her already to get herself treated .

Which was the reason why I had to do research and see what the problem is so I can help her.

DenreleDave:
Maybe she is not cool with the video sex stuff again... Or u not probably giving her money like b4 again..

Any of the two could be

Yes true, but just wanting to know what it could be makes a whole lot of sense.

Nawaoo, most people get dirty secret for decent relationship na, just that this came to a public forum nor mean sey i cant get some cool feedbacks.

To be sincere, we had a wonderful relationship when we were together, ups and downs, and I was convinced to a level that she did truly love me, but one can never be too sure until some ish starts to emerge.

This is suppose to go ROMANCE, but site wont allow me. we have been together for 3 years now, so last year I decided to go for my MSC in Canada. First and foremost when I met her, my business was really booming, am an attractive 37 year old man with vibes, funny and every other thing most women would want in a man. But generally being a generous man,and because I liked her from day 1, I tend to shower her with gifts,attention and so much more than I moved her from her private hostel into an apartment 5months after we started dating and eventually bought her a nice car a year and the half after. Coupled with some weekly and monthly stipends that would make her life comfy. I know some people would think am a simp, either ways its life and we all do things differently anyways.

Throttling to last year when I traveled, before I did, I gave her a promise ring and made vows of what we would avoid to bring about stability while away from each other, infact she loved the move and almost did something that she usually would not allow me to do. I came back to Nija sometimes in March which was like after 5months apart. To me oo, I sensed her loyalty to me was up to date, and so did I. In as much as there was so many temptations I stayed true to myself and kept my own part of the vows and promise. I spent 10 days and came back here. Fast-forwarding to 2months ago, things started changing, I could sense she's cheating, my inner instinct told me something is not right. So when I sat down to analyze what could have gone wrong. I noticed it was probably because she was not getting much incentives as much as she was getting before. All these while being in Canada, when am horney, we do video sex, she shows me her buddy and all of that. Then months during trial period, we were talking and then asked for her to open buddy so I can do myself, she was like no oo she cant, I was like why, she said well she just dont know. I asked if there is a reason, she could not give me a reason, in which previously when we were video sexing, she opened up and I could see that she was having some sort of hemorrhoid sort of looking anus which I was aware of back then cos she does experience constipation once in a while. But the sight of what I saw looked more than that. So I had to take a snip of what it looked like so I can research if shes having a chronic hemorrhoid or maybe its the other way round. I opened up about my findings and told her she may need urgent medical attention, she was angry that I snipped her butt without her consent, I apologized and told her if I was gonna take permission to snip, she would not have allowed me and I would not have been able to determine whats wrong with her. After that time, we had done 3 or more sex video without denying me, but it was during the period that I she was now getting much from me that she decided not to do stuff with me again. So my question is, could it have been because I snipped her butt without her being told, although we have done more after I opened up to her, or could it be that its because shes not getting much from me?