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Maybe they think it would be easier/better with someone else, once thay reach a few years of marriage and realize it's not all fun and butterflies, The truth is, it would be more or less the same with anybody. Some of the things that are difficult in a marriage are due to marriage itself (it is not easy to share everything with one person, and all the responsibilities of marriage) or to the person herself , and not the partner (for instance, if it is a challenge for me to expose my feelings and talk to my husband about what bothers me I cannot blame it on him to "not understand me" but on myself, things would be the same with another man ).

Of course, there are some situations when a person really does marry the wrong man/woman (I'm thinking of the girls who would still marry their boyfriend after he beat them, or someone with alcohol problems etc.). But all in all, I believe marriage reveals more about ourselves than anything else, and changing partner will not change us, at some point, we have to look at ourselves and accept to change if we want to make the marriage work, not change the partner.[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000]
@MISS iFE,
You are rite d thing about marriage is an inward search of urself and an attitude of change from both inorder to build a peaceful home. ,as for me am blessed with my wify.

pls advice, on what the guy should do.

my husband is dating a married female collegue;now the husband of the lady has left home without letting her know his where about.

it happens here in niga but its really bad 2 humanity.may GOD help us 2 be kind hearthed.

[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]Re: Lecturer Wants To Sleep With My Wife
« #31 on: January 07, 2010, 06:32 PM »

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Ohhh What a sad story in our Nigeria University. However,the same problem confronted a young girl in my school a year ago but she was bold and intelligent enough to deal with this menace that has eaten deep in our society. She contacted some police officers secretly, she also accepted the deal with the lecturer to hire a hotel room for the evil act. However, the lecturer was happy that he even arrived the venue before the agreed time, both of them were inside the hotel room giggling and preparing for the action to take place. Before the action was about to start the police and security agents invaded the room and arrested the lecturer. What a big shame for the lecturer, his wife, his kids and his entire family, he was dismiss immediately from the university. @poster. You can adopt the same idea so that we can deal with all this useless lecturers .
"i support u"

u no wat just go on ur kneels & seek spiritual intervention 4rm GOD cos my hubbi dated his married collegues but wit prayer dey brokeup and nw d hubi of d collegue has packed out witout letting her no his where abut.pray pray pray 4 her.