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Obviously, there is a challenge. And you must attack it from the root cause. From your side of the story (the only side available to us), it is clear that your wife does not enjoy sex. It has become burdensome rather than pleasurable. Why is that? You have to find out. If she enjoys it, she'd probably like and desire it.

The truth is, other aspects of our lives; our Jobs, eating pattern, choice of food, circle of friends, choice of life partner, sexual preferences of our partners, state of mind, financial status vis a vis our responsibilities, sensitivity of our partners to our emotional needs etc affect our sexual drive.

Was your wife's genital organ mutilated? Does she feel fulfilled as a person? Is she happy to be your wife? Does she love you sincerely? Is she having difficult times at the office? Besides the sex, what's your lives/relationship like? Do you consider it healthy? Does she have an emotional scar that has refused to heal? Do you guys really talk, about everything and nothing? Does she like your smells (body and mouth)?...

The principles of marriage are based on LOVE and SEX.

If your marriage must work, you must maintain a healthy love relationship and a healthy sex relationship.

My friend. Find out why your wife doesn't enjoy sex, get intimacy gadgets, get God involved, sharpen your skills if need be, be patient with her, suspend your pleasure for now, seek hers and above all, be genuinely interested in her.

You don't have issues with sex, she does. Bring her to speed.

Reporting her to whoever, might make you start getting the sex, but your wife, you will loose completely.

It is not enough to talk to your wife. Be present.

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