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I had to create a new account for this.

I have found it difficult to fall in love with any woman despite having tons of 'em and meeting tons of 'em. When I say having tons of 'em, I am not talking about double or multiple dating. I am in my late 20s, have a great career and women are really not a problem. The problem I have is I have found it difficult to love any of them and I have absolutely no idea why. I have explored sexually with women, been in tons of relationships with some of the best behaved & gorgeous women but I just haven't really fallen for any.

I have been in love before and know what it feels like...reason I find it strange that it hasn't happened to me again. A little background to give context...I had a relationship back at the uni (6 years ago) and loved her deeply. The best times of my life was spent with her and I have moved on from her, but recreating those same feelings have been extremely difficult.

I fear that I have become dead emotionally and will not be able to fall in love again. All my relationships these days has been very bland with me having zero emotions for these women who usually are madly in love with me. I struggle to reciprocate the love but it's just a struggle.

Has anyone been through this before? How did you find love again? I have stopped relationships and focused more on flings and point & kill type of relationships where there is zero emotions attached from my end...But I still feel an empty void.

I will appreciate input of nairalanders and will not mind moving this to front page...Thanks