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DoctorOlasDesk:
I don't manipulate. Not everyone do

You can deceive others. But don't deceive yourself. I believe you are too old for that. Unless, of course you do not understand the full scope of manipulations

I dash in here from time to time to read relationship issues but I've been met with a lot of shock with the growing level of hate towards women. Some even go as far as bashing their own mothers to please some unknown online alpha god who they've never set eyes on.

To start with, there's no being (human and non human beings) that's not manipulative. I'm talking humans, animals, spirits, children, adult males and adult females. Focusing on women manipulative tendencies is pure hypocrisy and null at best.

Which one of you males can swear with the glory in you that you have never manipulated or still do not manipulated your friends, parents, siblings and even children (for those who have)? Yet all you do is focus and complain of women manipulations. Maybe I should start a thread on men manipulative tendencies too.

Don't get it wrong. I'm an adult male but not an hypocrite. I manipulate and recognize manipulation when I see one. And from what I've experienced over the years, I can only agree to the the fact that women manipulate more (because that's their only source of strength, unlike men who can choose to go physical or manipulative).

Women need manipulations to handle the kids, make her husband feel so good and protect the image of the home. When you meet a women who manipulates for good tendencies, you have met gold and silver. Bad women manipulate for bad tendencies.

So however you choose to see it, you cannot do without them. Nature didn't establish it that way and no matter how many times you tell yourself in the head that you don't need them, you know your biological always tells you otherwise.

So free yourself up man and stop acting all out and start living life. Don't forget, there's no alpha or beta man in the grave.