₦airaland Forum

Liazz:
Am I being unreasonable being mad at my wife?
We relocated abroad 3 years ago but she isn't helping to settle any of the bills.

We both are gainfully employed though I earn much than she does. Our monthly expenditure is about £2000 and she doesn't care to help in any way. I foot all bills making me struggle to save while she keeps all she earns to herself. We also had a loan of over 10 thousand pounds to settle when we relocated, she didn't help with a dime till I paid all bits by bits which took me almost 2 years.

Despite this, I still help with house chores like taking care of our kids, home cleaning and even washing dishes though she does all the cooking.
I've expressed my displeasure several times but she keeps insisting I can't force her to financially assist, it's my job as I'm the husband. She seems convinced she isn't doing any wrong and no sign of remorse whatsoever.

I financed our relocation 100% without her contributing a dime.

This is causing a strain in the marriage and I am thinking if I am unreasonable in my demand, am I?
Your comments are highly welcome.

yarimo:
After this picture nothing again, peter obi is a scammer this is the third time promising the boy

psalmsjob:
So a man can force his way against God's will? Maybe that's possible with the God Odumeje worships but no man living or dead can force his own will against the will of the living God who created the heavens and earth. God nominated and appointed Tinubu to lead Nigeria and no weapon fashioned against Tinubu shall prevail as he must accomplish all that God wants to accomplish through him and this same God is a good father who gives good gifts much better than our earthly father.

Odumeje should say that to keep his congregation after all Peter Obi is his brother and his Church is full of them and keep entertaining us with his skits termed healing sessions

Salewa97:
God used Jagaban to liberate Nigeria.

All the prophets that saw his presidency coming, are they all fake? Odumeje just wan catch cruise.

Bovis:
This woman is definitely acting up

helinues:
What issue do you have with my comments?

tundegan:
I love Onanuga.

He is a man of class and dignity.

Willy2025:
Is that all the Agulu packaged fraud has to say? Well, whether you like it or not, President Bola Ahmed Tinubu GCFR has come to stay till 2031. . If you do anyhow, you go collect anyhow

PandoraObi:
So Jonathan expected the Tinubu to fold his hands and watch the rivers State degenerated in chaos, when threats and attacks are already flying around if the governor is impeached, it would have been a great disaster, Tinubu is his wisdom decided to stop impending doom

yarimo:
Jonathan you lack integrity to speak in any national issue, just keep quiet

DomPerignon:
cry harder. You have six more years of crying

Kennyswag:
because we hate him with passion

galserv:
Southern votes and northern christian(North Central) votes are locked down for Tinubu.
Take that to the bank

You

JASONjnr:
Egbon, you're a Biafran..... You're definitely not in the South....

The little dot that you are wants to feel recognised at all times.....

South unite in love and not the children of hate......

kunyeo:
Where are the people that rejected him. May be those that are blind and cannot see the transformations in every part of the country.

Adeyinka123:
Fubara's inability to face reality and his constant sentiment-whipping make him unfit for office. He's lost focus, and it's clear people didn't vote for him, but rather Wike's candidate. His actions now seem treacherous, pretending to be for the people when it was Wike who campaigned for him.

At the time of the election, Fubara lacked any notable pedigree for people to support. His inexperience and immaturity make him ill-equipped to govern. It's essential he realigns with his sponsor and campaigner, as his current vulnerability is exposed.

Fubara's daily mistakes are alarming, and he must be bold enough to face the truth and humble himself to reconcile. His arrogance and recalcitrance are shameful, especially considering those who don't support him are benefiting from his simplicity.

Auspicious2018:
Sorry ooo... Why do some people from a particular tribe want Fubara out so badly even when it’s obvious that the Rivers people love him...

Very sad folks.... Always very bitter when people stand against oppression. Smh

How on earth can a people so badly want a sitting governor to take orders from an Ex...
Youruba people you mean.....

Cowards always like to see others bend. . Very shameless people

Tjra:
2 years into his tenure, na fight Fubara dey fight. Nothing to show for it.

That guy worse pass Zelensky.

Fubara, you are not the first governor of Rivers State.

Don't destroy the peace of the state.

yarimo:
keep remembering that is your business na

wifeesnatcher:
The electorates can, coalition of parties can


You're not inec or electorates, winning PDP ticket is not enough criteria to win reelection


This man need to calm down, go to field 2027 and prove your ruggedity

TimeManager:
His mother is Igbo. His election doesn't affect full blooded Ikwerre people.


-Kiss the truth!

emkz:
This was an Obidient telling me I'd not last because I cruticized their master.

He was applauded by his fellow Obidients.

I challenged another one to sweat on his life to back up his claim that Tinubu was using foreign hospitals. He couldn't and instead told me I'd die this year.

These people want no opposition. They want to be the only voices.

They lied to have won the election. They threatened judges, judges children, and anyone who dared criticize their master. They threatened Reno Omokri, threatened his daughter.

They insulted Femi Kuti, Seun Kuti, Fela, Wole Soyinka and even recently, one of their own, Afe Babalola.

They are even issuing threats on Nairaland.

Their master lies daily. He lied he won the election. He lied he'd prove it. He lied that Tinubu was implementing a budget different from what was passed on 2024, he fabricated news that Tinubu must allocate funds to a non-existent North Central Development Commission. His latest lie was that his family and him were threatened. He lied that Felix Morka threatened him. His followers have been swearing that if anything happens to him, there'd be chaos. Actually, something is happening to him. He is in a morass of self-imposed delusions. He is hallucinating and seeing and hearing things that don't exist.

No one would touch him. Despite calling election religious war, no one touched him. Despite his followers trying to forment trouble following his election loss, no one touched him. No one would touch him because he is a candidate easy to defeat. He is easy to defeat because he cannot keep relationships. When was the last time he attended church programmes he frequented? Would Afe Babalola support him again after the way the mob insulted him?

Your man is traumatized from the wallowing defeat he received last year. He is hallucinating from the trauma that was why he cowardly complained that his friends and associates had abandoned him. He thinks they abandoned him because he is in the opposition. Every right thinking person would start avoiding someone who talks too much and talks little sense.

Would he agree?

His followers would launch lame attacks to betray their mediocrity.

Bet on it.

YeyeGbami:
When someone talks too much, they begin to say stupid things. No be only you lost election, just stfu when not really necessary.

Feel free to come and cry in my mention

Richtaiwo:
God bless the president
God bless the Federal Republic of Nigeria
God bless SW SS NW NE and NC

Some lunatics said Simon Ekpa is working for Tinubu and that is why Tinubu refused to get him arrested.

The Fed govt recently initiated the arrest of the Simon Ekpa, same lunatics are now saying Tinubu arrested the him because he is agitating for biafuro. Indeed, they said another leader of ipob terrorist group will soon emerge.

Any further proof that ipob miscreants are terrorists?

Richtaiwo:
The more reason Peter Obi will never be president.

Richtaiwo:
There are indications Atiku will retain his second position. But I doubt if the third position holder screaming of stolen manhood will go anywhere close to that position in 2027. If he manage to get 5th, he should thank God.