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Since there isn't any physical damage to the joystick itself, its clear the
problem is realted to;

-Blood flow
-autonomic nerve dysfuntion
-low nitric oxide levels
-Physchology

Does he have any issues with indecency or intimate over-indulgence ?

He can send his detailed complaint to

Totalhealthng21@gmail.com

i dont really know for sure buh i think he self services more than he indulge in sex, do u think that is the cause and what do u advice him to do that will cure him

i have this male friend of mine, he shud be btw 29-30yrs and he confided in me that his manhood doesnt erect no matter what you do to it, its not like he has it from birth, it just started recently tho he said he used to have pre mature ejaculation, he has been to the hospital, did some test and was given medication buh still no improvement, he is really worried and am also worried for him. Pls Doctors in the house what do u advice him to do. Thanks

waoh! me thinks i have done all xcept no. 6. always faithful to the ones i chose to date

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@ op i think the more reason why you are in love with the first guy is because he showered you with gifts, and more financially comfortable than the other guy but a bird at hand they...my 2 cent

i have a job that pays me well apart from that my family can take very good care of me.
i was 100% well taken care of by my parents before he came into the picture, i just listed all those items to show how far he went to show that he loved me, am not in the relationship because of the gifts

Na wa. I def believe the low JAMB scores. Comprehension is no longer common. My ex was like this too: I could gist him the entire Avengers movie and he would hear synopsis of yoruba film. Didn't you read where the OP wrote "she grew up with the guy, they were childhood neighbours?" Why are y'all accusing her of being bad? What part of her story isn't adding up?? Talk about projecting your insecurities, mehn...

Lol at the bolded, thought i was the only one that noticed.
I guess some people are just in a hurry to reply without really going thru the post.

well we didn't meet online or was it a matchmaking, we have known each other right from childhood cos we grew up in the same neighbourhood b4 he traveled, I never knew he was interested in me until last 3yrs, I trust him and am not materialistic, all those thins he bought I didn't ask him for them. Am just worried because of his change in attitude

thanks for ur responses so far i really appreciate.
The thing is dat i have tried talking to him but he is not opening up to me, the only thing he said that has meaning to me is that he is not leaving me for anybody and the mum also approves of me too, she calls me on phone once in a while.

But the issue here now is that there is this other guy that met my Parents for my hand in marriage in February and they approved of him based on the fact that they know the family. since then they have been pressurizing to accept this guy, that he is ready to do the necessary things once i say yes.

N.B. They also approve of my guy when i told them abt him, but right now they said he is not serious and that a lady is not supposed to wait for a guy, it shud be the way round.

I dont want to say am confused cos my heart is with my guy, its just that my ppl are putting scary thoughts into my mind like "what ifs"

Ariyebaba,he is 3yrs older than I am

Slimyen thanks for ur response; I can't visit him cos he doesn't stay in the country, why wud he be stringing me along, what does he hope to get frm doing that.

Hi Nlders, I was introduced to this forum by a friend, since then i have been an ardent follower though i was not a registered member.

Today i registered cos there is this issue that has been weighing me down and i don't know what to do;

Am 27yrs and has been in this long distance relationship for 3yrs, at the initial time it wasn't that serious cos i never imagined myself in this kind of relationship.
my guy told me from the onset that he wanted marriage, then i was in my final year and wasn't thinking much abt marriage so i told him i wasn't ready and that i will be when i graduate, serve and get a job and he said he will wait for me. i thank God everything happened as i planned, I've graduated, served and got a job. all these while the relationship was on and off until last year when i decided to get serious with him, i shunned every side attraction and distraction and focused all my attention on him. i don't regret doing this cos he is a wonderful guy and he cared so much abt me and my future, though he was not here with me, he made sure i didnt miss him much cos he was always calling me, even when i didn't have a job he encouraged me both morally and financially, he bought a laptop, modem and printer for me to have easy access to the internet.

to cut the long story short

he came back last December with a lot of goodies for me including a BB torch even though i didn't ask him for that, all through my Xmas and new year break i was with him, we went to weddings, parties and even church together. he introduced me to his family and friends as his wife to be, he even used me as his next of kin in one the transactions he made at that time, but one thing he didn't do was meet my parents.
i talked to him abt it and he said he wants to finish his building so that when we are married we will move into our own house, and that he wants to be well prepared before meeting them which i saw as a good idea

he went back to his base few months ago without coming to my house, since he went back things has not been the way they used to be, i only received a call that he got there safely and that was that, i called him, he didn't pick, i sent sms, he didn't reply,
most times i will call it will ring and enter voice mail, i will leave a message. after some weeks he called and said he was busy and that i know he just got, he is putting things in order after this call till now he doesn't call me until i call,then he will cut it and call me back i mean this is a guy that calls me at least once in day.

is he loosing interest in me or what?