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How about all the contract staff that are the main workers?

Some of you in Nigeria can be so funny. because someone is abroad and you think all is well with the person. You are even lucky that you can get help once once from people around but it's never the same abroad, there's no help here, what you earn is what you have, nothing extra from anybody. Some of you when you finally travel will see how difficult it is and you might not want to dash anybody shishi after working one shift in cold weather.

ChizzyBuna:
He told me he has been working on some big deals.. even if it is $30 bro os that too much for someone earning abroad

I thought that we all agreed that "phones" are our only privacy in marriage? Or is it only the man's phone that is a no go area?

We'll all surrender to faithfulness someday, after we've all realised that everybody is polygamous in nature and not just men. The worst is that you'll hardly know when a woman is cheating.

This one shock me

God remembered lawyers this year. They're really cashing out. More cash out to them.

The contributions of men and women in marriages can never be the same. The most a man can do is take all the financial contributions.
He doesn't give birth, he doesn't "care" for the home, just financial contributions.
On the other hand, while a woman might not be contributing financially, she's birthing the kids and taking care of everything apart from financial.
Read that story well, the woman does everything. Financially and otherwise, nowhere did she state that the man contributes anything at all and that is what happens in some homes where the woman is the breadwinner. The men do absolutely nothing, not even lending a voice of encouragement and that is where the problems and frustrations lie.

The woman should leave because the man WILL NEVER CHANGE, THEY DON'T CHANGE.

oz4real83:
This is exactly what most married men go through, they carry all family responsibilities, whether the women are working or not, and yet they don't threaten to leave the marriage all because the wives are not making financial contributions to the marriage. . A woman is doing what most men have always done, she complains and wants to leave the marriage . May God bless our men.

It might not be because of money. The only maid of honour that I ever did was for my cousin, we don't even relate like that again since after that wedding, we're not quarrelling though.

Meanwhile, my best friend since js2 used another person, their family friend as her maid of honour and it was never a problem for me. She baked my wedding cake and that was her first ever wedding cake as a baker.
She's the only female friend remaining in my life today. Her first daughter is my first goddaughter.

Though in some cases, the people you call friends might not see you the same way.

It is never too late.
But if you feel that full time wouldn't work for you, try part time.

Lies.

Innocence? Where Nigerian forces are? Are you sure that you're in Nigeria?

Metordman:
Why run if u are innocent. Its quite unfortunate that students in AAU are now 90% into ritualism. Education has now been thrown under d carpet. Lecturers are being lured into blocking because of unpaid salaries. Shame! 100% of female students are now OLoshos. Abeg before u marry any graduate from AAU. Go do test if her womb still dey. The love of Benz GLE,iphone and sharwama has put them into evalasting dungeon. The Efcc are doing a great job. Good timing. The best way to get them was the eve of valentine after spending,showing off,and cumming. Most of thier parents are selling Garri and tomatoes in d market, but they are driving Gle in skol to oppress and to impress. The only way to catch dem is to come unawares.
Shame on the institution. If u dey support yahoo yahoo and ritualism for this thread inside ur mind, or openly, as dem take use people daughters buy benz, na so dem go use ur own too. U nor fit spoil person own make ur own arrange.Karma is a bitch

Imagine getting arrested because you wear afro hair, or you have an iPhone or you are carrying a laptop or even driving a certain kind of car. And then you read in the news that police arrested IPOB members with ammunitions that they themselves placed in front of you.

Look at what is happening in anambra today with their new security outfit, kidnapping and killing innocent youths from their places of work and labelling them IPOB.

Killerofpigs:
Thank You for this clarifying this obvious event bedeviling the SE

That is why Youths attack them without mercy and THEIR usual Noisemakers from SW and the North will be screaming that IGBOs are killing IGBOs to cover the bad activities of the compromised Police and Army force in the region.

Why do you think the Canadian Government denied the Chief of Defence Staff VISA? They know that these individuals are very complicit in the killings in the region.


We sincerely beed BIAFRA so that all the Police officers of especially Igbo extraction involved in this scenario will be exposed and wasted for the deaths of IGBO children.

Shalom

It has always been the police and military Killing innocent people and labelling them IPOB.

During the time that MNK agitated for biafra, there were no killings until the government went after him with police and military, the next thing was python dance in Abia. They have been the ones killing people, nothing like IPOB.

I remember in Imo state during buhari's tenure, it was the military slaughtering the youths of Oguta LGA and the useless governor always defending them. They burnt houses, people flew from their homes, it was as if the killings intensifies whenever the useless governor came back from visiting buhari.

All those unknown gun men are villagers attacking back, they started killing and destroying everything that had to do with the useless governor and the government. There was nothing like IPOB.

I also remember one inland road in owerri that people were warned never to use the road at a certain time of the night because the police would stop, harass, extort, arrest and probably kill you and label it IPOB.

The police and the military have been the ones killing people, nothing like IPOB.

because na president pay their school fees nah, na wetin make una go "force" them.

That's how you stupid fans start war. What in this video showed that he was mocking Davido?

Stupid chief priest after calling the award bend down collect, they're still hustling every year to win it.

Looks like the easiest thing to do now is kill. People now take lives just the way that we kill mosquitos

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Source: https://punchng.com/ogun-housewife-stabs-husband-to-death-for-alleged-infidelity/

You people should stop all these nonsense. You bought it with #9,000, shee na naira you use buy am? Abeg, make una grow up.

Moving on is always hard, except you never loved the person. I don't know how long your divorce is but i want you to know that you're only human, you'll feel the pain, why not? That was someone you once shared your life with. You'll move on eventually, and when that time comes, you'll no longer feel any pain, you'll just smile, shake your head and keep moving.

Odafe360:
I posted a previous topic about my divorce with my wife and i got alot of advice on this platform which really encouraged & have me strength.

I'm really grateful for the nairaland community. The only issue i'm still battling with right now is how to move on, i'm trying everyday to forget the past, but the more i try, the more it's becoming fresh in my heart and the pains too. I won't lie to you it's difficult. Sincerely sometimes i cry and the thoughts of ending my life comes and goes. I don't drink, I don't smoke, neither do i womannize and worst of all i don't have much friends cos I'm more of an introvert.

A snippet of the entire problem is that most times we have an issue and she leaves the house, i've always been the one going to speak to her mum, plead and bring them back home, that's why whenever there's problem and she goes back to her mom's place, nobody from her family would contact me to even hear my side because I've become like a fool to them cos they know i'll still come. This last one that she left, we just had a little issue and she packed a her things and left. So many people not to go to her family house and beg this time around since i didn't send them packing. I swear guys, i've forgiven and tolerated what 90% of men won't forgive nor tolerate from her.

Please guys help a brother with more advice, how do i move on?

It's difficult to achieve. However, you can set boundaries but not in a bad way. Know the situations where they'll come in; in all, it is in your hands to protect your immediate family. If your wife is sick, inform her family else they'll blame you if anything happened to her and viceversa.

parkervero:
I want to ask if there is any married men in here who have formed their own families without involving their family members (mother, father, and siblings).

Is there any consequences for not involving family members?

I don't want to involve any of my family members in any of my affairs including the time of difficulty, sickness, even to the point of my death.

I want to stay on my own till eternity

Una no go ever hear word.

Gistmedia10:
A viral post by social media user Blezzy Acha has stirred up a storm online, as he shared his sadness about a woman his brother helped through school, now preparing to marry another man. According to Blezzy's post on Facebook, the lady, whom his brother trained at the University of Agriculture (Uniagric), is set to wed on December 28, 2024.

"Some oju girls get mind shaaa! Person wey my brother trained for Uniagric won wed on the 28th Dec 2024," Blezzy wrote, expressing his dismay.

The post quickly garnered attention, with reactions pouring in from various social media users. Some have sided with Blezzy, questioning the lady’s intentions, while others have placed the blame on his brother, suggesting that the training was not enough to secure loyalty.

Lol

Pootle:
with huge cucumber

There's a high chance that she masturbates too. If you can't tolerate it, please leave because itll be very hard for her to stop it.

toboizilla:
Hi guys, My babe that i am making plans to settle with dey watch porn.

I have warned her on several occasions that this is not healthy for you, and she like to watch big d.ic.k and hard intimacy, which she is not new to.

I have adviced her decently but i still see it in her history, she even hides to watch it.

I don't think for a female to be addicted to this is activities is good, what do you guys think?

The story can't be legit. 10 abortions in 6 months is totally impossible.

Zonefree:
The story is legit.

Most Nigerian girls have done worse things than this.

It doesn't matter. This is how I cook sometimes, jollof rice, Plantain, fish sauce, and so on. This one gives me better taste than precooked, especially in fish sauce.

Next time collect list and go by yourself

SayAsSeen:
Did she try or what?

Is anybody asked her to return?
There are too many people in Nigeria, I don't anybody noticed that she left.

That is where his children come in!

Though the writeup is nice but this is not the best time for investment. Nobody invests survival funds. Everywhere tight.

How about the guys that wear earrings and keep hairs, what do you see them as? Saints?

Havesomesense:
Whenever I see women wearing leg chain I look at them as bisexual or lesbian, I know I’m not right.

What do you think about women wearing leg chains do you find them attractive?

I love chains and rings. I wear 2 rings on my right and left fingers and I wear leg chain whenever I want. I also love nose rings but I don't want to pierce my nose.
I am married and my husband bought them.

I have no issues with anybody wearing it and I've never thought about them as anything. It's fashion to me and that's what I've always seen them as.

Shey you go follow contribute the money for am?

festacman:
Love him or hate him, David Hundeyin is a proper coconut head. Strong as it comes.

Every progressive society needs more of David Hundeyin and VDM than it needs of conformists who would easily kowtow before oppressors or clowns who dance for daily meals at oppressor's palace.

The last time I checked, in marriage lists, it's only mama and papa that are included. Which one is brothers, sisters, grandparents and step fathers?

The lady is not serious, a lot of things can be reduced and removed from the mama and papa lists, that's what some families do. Them no dey marry wife finish, a lot of favours will still come from the couple.

Meanwhile, the way things are in Nigeria, I think the amount is only fair. He should forget white wedding and do court since he plans to take her along.

See as he resemble mad person with all the rubbish he wear for neck.