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I had 4 months relationship and commitment of marriage. Due to my nature (over possessiveness and dominating) she broken up with me before 3 months. In these 3 months We had too many fights and finally she finished relationship and said "We will never together in future and you are of not of my type" and blocked me from whats app before 1 month. After that I asked for second chance but she refused. last week Suddenly our conversation has been started, now we sitting together and doing gossiping everyday and Now I have changed my nature and doing everything according to her wishes and sharing each and everything like before relationship. She is from rich family and more beautiful. Now what can I do to get back her with new and healthy relationship ?? Plz help me??

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Sunkyphil: Dis ur grammer self e get as e b,ur write up is not comprehensible at all

I have a very beautiful relationship with her. We are studying in same university. in last year on end of November we indulge in relationship and at that time she was ready for marriage. but after some time we have some problems because i am very much possessive. I did too many mistakes and stopping her to do the activities that she likes. we have a commitment for marriage. After 6 months, i did one more joke but she taken it serious then she called me and said everything is over from my side. after that i did too much efforts to gain but everything failed. now she said that you have to change your habitats then i will think for marriage after 3-4 years if everything will fine but no commitment and promise. She said I have no feelings and some other factors are also, I can not say if you will improve then I will come. Now we have a break from more than 8 days said by her. Now she is not talking to me and I also not contacted her from last 8 days and I will wait for her col and message and I will never start communication from my side. Whatever instructions she imposed on me, i have followed strictly. My GF dumped me before 2 months, bcz i was over possessive and dominating. Her frnd also supported her decision. We have commitment for marriage but now everything has finished. After that we talked causally as a friend. But after one month there were fight between us without reason. She said I need break, after the no contact of 15 days, I just called and did her work and asked again indirectly, she said no time for this, then after some days she said don't contact me too much and showing attitude on me, then i left her for 2 weeks, in these two weeks, she called me, text me but not reacted that i am interested, after 2 weeks I contacted her but she is in aggressive mode, don't want to talk to me because she think i am showing attitude.....

But before some days she said we will think about 7-8 months, suddenly toady she said we will think about 5 months if everything will fine, she said I don’t have time right now and I want to alone and she also if we will not meet in future then I will also unhappy. She is meeting and talking to me daily. Really I need help how to handle out this situation? I want her back


Thank you so much for your kind help

missyhorlah: Can't understand this super story explain in a way i would understand nd i ll advise u

I have a very beautiful relationship with her. We are studying in same university. in last year on end of November we indulge in relationship and at that time she was ready for marriage. but after some time we have some problems because i am very much possessive. I did too many mistakes and stopping her to do the activities that she likes. we have a commitment for marriage. After 6 months, i did one more joke but she taken it serious then she called me and said everything is over from my side. after that i did too much efforts to gain but everything failed. now she said that you have to change your habitats then i will think for marriage after 3-4 years if everything will fine but no commitment and promise. She said I have no feelings and some other factors are also, I can not say if you will improve then I will come. Now we have a break from more than 8 days said by her. Now she is not talking to me and I also not contacted her from last 8 days and I will wait for her col and message and I will never start communication from my side. Whatever instructions she imposed on me, i have followed strictly. My GF dumped me before 2 months, bcz i was over possessive and dominating. Her frnd also supported her decision. We have commitment for marriage but now everything has finished. After that we talked causally as a friend. But after one month there were fight between us without reason. She said I need break, after the no contact of 15 days, I just called and did her work and asked again indirectly, she said no time for this, then after some days she said don't contact me too much and showing attitude on me, then i left her for 2 weeks, in these two weeks, she called me, text me but not reacted that i am interested, after 2 weeks I contacted her but she is in aggressive mode, don't want to talk to me because she think i am showing attitude.....

But before some days she said we will think about 7-8 months, suddenly toady she said we will think about 5 months if everything will fine, she said I don’t have time right now and I want to alone and she also if we will not meet in future then I will also unhappy. She is meeting and talking to me daily. Really I need help how to handle out this situation? I want her back

Thank you so much for your kind help

We have 6 months relationship and commitment, but due to my nature as over possessive, dominating our relationship has been spoiled then she said no commitment and we will think about our marriage after 3-4 years then she said we will think about 7-8 months, suddenly she said we will think about 5 months if everything will fine, she said I don’t have time right now and I want to alone and she also if we will not meet in future then I will also unhappy. She is meeting and talking daily. Really I need help how to handle out this situation? I want her back