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Kingrshd3:
Upon all you wrote I still couldn't figure out the problem yet 😕😔 because there is no evidence of the man not being your father or not 🚫..


So what's the problem exactly ❓

hakeemhakeem:
Op you need to response to @kobojunkie question to determine whether your parents are poor mentality as you said. Thank God you will be a parent one day

Kobojunkie:
1 . This reads like you are attempting to speak in riddles to me. Are you saying you wish to impose upon and control the lives of your parents? Or are you trying to tell us you are struggling and letting no acknowledgement from them? Which is it? 😐😐

gerizzim:
Dear lost one as you addressed yourself,

wat your going tru is a rage ravaging ur mind. the trajectory it took for ur mind to be led astray dt association wit the opposite gender is d same trajectory it will take you to unload dt wrong notion.

It is not a difficult thing to do. It's good admitting you need help. DTS the beginning of ur start.

Practical steps to do.

1. be open minded.

2 start staring at women.the kind of ur spec Not in a stupid or lustful way.

3 show interest. wen your frnds talk Abt women mata, gfrnd talk, join dem and listen.not necessary you talk. na frm one or two persons experience you go learn.

4. get urself engaged once in a while wit movies wit good story love line. I recommend a foreign movie . It's just for u to see and understand the chemistry wen a guy is chatting a gal. Nollywood own get as e be.

5 do some imaginary drama in ur head. cud be wen ur alone in ur room or walking down a road. As if you dey talk to the gal and she dey ur front even nobody dey there.call it soliloquy.

6 compliment dem. wen you see a gal dt is attractive around you. compliment her. dem no dey pay money to talk am

7 start online if starting physical will be hard for you. Reg and join some online dating site. ur confidence level builds up wit tym as you chat wit random gals online.

8 Hope no be soldier face you get. relax ur facial muscle. smile more. Confidence comes from within. majority of gals likes a smiling face esp wen you dey around one.

9 come out of ur cocoon. stop lying down on ur bed 24/7. Once in a while , dress up. jst take a stroll around ur area. As you dey waka , be observant of people passing ur pathway esp d females. greet d one ur eye like. make sure shey she hear you.She go reply you. na so confidence dey grow.

10 Be observant of single ladies in ur compound. Know dem by name and start drawing close to dem. know d kind of gist dt appeals for each female. some go like compound amebo, some go like boyfriend and gfrnd talk. Just know wc one fit which female for ur yard.

11 Reduce to dey enter motor for short distances you fit trek once in a while. the intention na to dey use eye dey find one wen you like. if you like her, walk up to her side and shoot ur shot.

12. Most females dnt like to start up a convo. try to initiate a conversation wen ur in the midst of females.

I'm actually right behind and before you,all of your pieces is all noted and I consider them also

Cleties:
.. fellow that's the same question now', I keep getting along from persons like you

Fiscus105:
Have you arrived as successful man now? Since that was reason you stopped talking to women in the past.