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Hazardd:
thats a big turn off mehn

is that so?

it is not a turn off for me. ladies with big eyes look sexy to me. i always look at their eyes.
what about you?

i would like to taste her.

it is finished for buhari.

Jonathan till 2019.

iv4fb:
First of all, i was corrected that their database could be online.

Second of all, the word "impossible" doesnt exist in IT, so its really possible to hack any database, it becomes heavily difficult depending on the security.... Difficult - not- impossible

true. any website can be hacked.

Redoil:
there is no website that cannot be hacked. APC shildren of collective anger was hacked and delete a lot of data in nairaland due to the defeat and disgrace of fayemi recieved hence "you can erase our data but you can not earase our memory"

nice. well said.

we know who is responsible before.

Jonathan will complete what he has started. vote Jonathan for continuity.

no need to beg Obasanjo. Jonathan can do without him. Jonathan would still the election without sweat.

okiezman:
Dude hush abeg you sound childish n annoying

OK. It's your own headache.

Gamesmart:
Who are you to tell him who to fraternise with?

You feel free to change but who are you to demand he does?

What difference does it makes to you if he stayed at your place with his girl or another girl apart from hating?

You were jealous and hating jor. If I was him, you should know our relationship is just for socialising, I aint got your back.

We can smile and hang but when the chips are down, you would not even see me next to you. O-Y-O (On Your Own).

that was why i have the right to say no. It either he understands or back out.
I dnt want that. Simple.

Clemzy16:
The desperation to seem nice to Nairaland girls is getting alarming. Before it was Clevvermind, now you.. Hmmm.. Who's gonna be next?

Anyway, it's none of my business...

i dnt try to impress anyone. Take note.

Hedybee:
don't mind those talking about 'bro code'. U can't inconvenient yourself to please a 'bro'. Once u start, u might not be able to stop it. A guy in my neighbourhood got himself into trouble that cost him fortune simply because he didn't want to break BRO CODE. As usual, his friend came home with one of his numerous sidechicks. A little misunderstanding ensued btw d friend n his chick which escalated into a big fight. To cut d story short, d girl was left in the pool of her blood... The boyfriend escaped... Police came for the owner of the room. Don't worry your friend will understand when u talk to him. If u let him have his way today, he might want to be coming everyday.

u are right. In this world, crazy things happens. One must be careful.

Gamesmart:
No, you were not helping him. You were jealous.

You never mentioned trying to stop him or advising him to stop in your original post. I am sure you were just jealous.

Not allowing him to use your house does not stop him in anyway from doing it.

With your kind of help, who needs wickedness?



This is just an after-thought you came up with.

You know the possibility of that is low. You only brought it up after someone stated on this thread that it happened to him.

why would i be jealous? If i want to get a babe too, i would. But i have changed so much and i want him to know that. He can stay in my house as he want with his real babe but not with a strange babe.
I would nt encourage him to be changing girls like wrapper. I like sticking to one lady and i want him to do the same. It would help him.
I also thought of the possibility of my things missing if i allow him to use my house. Girls of nowadays can't be trusted.
I thought about many things that i did nt include in the original post. It would make the post too long to read and i dnt like typing much. Thanks.

okiezman:
See this one ooo, if ur my friend n do that to me the friendship ends, why will you be my friend when I can't come to your comfort didn't you go to uni? Whr u in d hostel in uni days? Come on! Stop acting like a saint

i dnt play such games. It can't happen in my house. He should look elsewhere. I dnt take babes to his house, so he should not take babes to my house also. He needs to understand me. This is not hostel matter.
This my house we are talking about here. I dnt think i did wrong.

fake news.

joseph1832:
Sir, I'll blame you for one thing: you didn't define your friendship with your friend! That's the simple truth. If you had defined it and let your friend know earlier on about your stance on such issues, he won't even think to call you. I believe in some way or another you might have shown or even given him an inkling that you don't mind about those type of things that's why he did such.

Anyway, "friendship no be by force", if he's avoiding you that's his own problem so far you know in your heart that he's not feeding you, paying your rent or responsible in anyway for your upkeep, let him jump inside Lagos Lagoon!.

i'm sure he knows my stands now. he would not ask such from me again.

okiezman:
You did d wrong tin jare....dont be deceived by psycophants

i dnt think i did the wrong thing. guys should not be taking babes to their friend's house. their friend's house is not a hotel or a motel.

Classicalmusic:
You did absolutely well. He should go to hotel. Last year, one of my friends wanted to do this shitt too in my apartment but I refused. Guys should be good and responsible because it's immoral.

true.

shokky24:
Op u did the right thing..do u know how the real girl would feel when she knows that the cheating took place in ur house,u won't even be able to face her..and someone was saying guys code
Guys code ko animal code ni

If ur guy refuses to come back to his senses, free him jare. is he feeding u?,clothing u?,paying ur house rent? No he is not, so what's d problem

If I were in ur shoes our friendship would av ended tete,who get time 4 rubbish

that was what i was thinking. what if his girlfriend finds out?

sule5727:
my guy u acted very very very wela forget about him dnt even go and see him, he should be the one to come ur place chai, dnt try it

i have to explain to him first.

ghetto101:
man this na guys thing,if na ur main man u Bleep up

i dnt think so.

Bridgetown:
He was never your friend because he is not your type, why will you refuse him shelter to shine Congo! U r not a guyman and I see no reason why you should have him as your friend. Pls give him my contact so that I can watch small adult raw video. All my friends stopped bringing babe to my house because they know that there is pin-hole on my door where I watch raw adult film. Wetin concern me. We call that payan!

my guy, we are not the same. taking babes to a friend's house to bleep looks odd and childish to me. i dnt do that at all. what about a hotel? my house is not a hotel. those playing such games should be able to afford a hotel. i dnt encourage cheating either. i have some little bits of decency.

mikporch:
Ar you sure

Just curious

what do u want to hear again?

tirex:
Big ups to you you jare..i have a friend who doesnt talk to me for the same reason,abeg free am jor..if i have to drop a friend so as to obey God..then so be it

they dnt understand.

Gamesmart:
You did not act as a good friend.

But that is not a problem, if I was the one, I would pick up you phone call. I would not say anything and I will hang out with you as usual.

But the day you need my help badly and I have nothing to gain from helping you, I would tell you 'No, I am not a charity. Go and meet Oxfam'.

Our friendship get level.

i don't think what i did was wrong. in short, i was helping him. he should stop that lifestyle and focus on one lady. and again, if my things got missing, i can't ask him to pay back. the lady may steal my things and i can't blame anybody.