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Ladyhippolyta88:
What pre nup? What is his is mine what is mine is his.I didn't struggle with him to make his money but I can't support a pre nuptial agreement.Trust is key in a relationship and if he can't trust me no marriage let him have all I want but you can't put me through such stress

There's nothing stressful about signing a document.

Exclusivebae:
I am feeling so lonely. I need a matured friend to hang out with....Lagos base only

I'm game but only on one condition.

ReinaFarine:
For him to claim to love me enough to want to marry me, he has to know the kind of woman I am and trust that I won't hurt him.

Eventhough this comment may convey the most genuine of feeling and intentions, we all know we humans can be as unpredictable as the weather so can't be 100% certain that somebody will stick it through with you.

Besides fulfilling his friends and families wishes, a guy something might just have his excesses or through through a phase that even you as a lady will find it difficult to live with.

Note, its not about you paying for the mistake of his exes, he is only being pragmatic and practical about his life and maybe seeing ahead of time.

Notwithstanding, you gave a smart and intelligent perspective.

RuthDaniels:
Wao.... I need to think about this

Yes , its a hard question and I doubt if most ladies would be honest about their reply.

Truth is, you'd probably love to settle down with a tall, rich, handsome and charming man but don't really care about how he built himself up to the object of desire he is today. So talk about reaping where you did not sow.

So he gives you the condition. Would you go ahead and sign the agreement knowing that you can't just walk away without any legal implications and if you decide to, you'd probably get nothing or just enough for the upkeep of the kids if any .

You meet a rich and handsome guy who fits in the bill for a perfect husband who would meet all your physical and emotional needs but he is a little bit cold feeted about popping the big question so you guys have a little talk and he expresses his fear about not trusting you would
go through thick and thin with him, especially for the fact that you only got to know him after he's made the big bucks and you never contributed much to his success.

He's had his fair share of betrayal and backstabbing from the female folk and he generally doesn't trust women anymore. Would you still go ahead if he proposes that you sign a pre-nupital agreement before he takes you down the isle?

Mind you, this guy is everything you dream of in a man he just doesn't want to trust anybody yet.

Okoroawusa:
I remember the Charles Taylor's case at ICC

That's right. The old woman is no good. I'm sure she came all the way to service either Bubu or Tinubu.

People don't know this girl is an international Olosho who specialize in African presidents.

Shugarlord213, this one strong o.
What if you're now driving a Benz, what will you do?

Work.

I don't know if girls with this kind of quality exists but from my experience, I only come across a girl who perfectly suits my taste 1 out of maybe 10 times.

This means out of ten times I see a girl I admire. Only one of them would make the cut that suits me perfectly .

Mind you, I am only talking about the physical features here . judging character wise would be a different ball game.

Here goes my perfect kind of girl.

At least 5ft 10 tall.

Dark or fair complexion don't really matter, just have a healthy skin devoid of blemishes.

Well made natural hair, weaves and all that stuff puts me off especially when its not well made.

Athletic and curvy at the right places. I noticed most ladies don't exercise and this to me is a big flaw.

Articulate, well spoken and intelligent. I have a thing for ladies in glasses but not the geeky ones like Anto spotting thick lenses...lol!

I could go on and on but hey, I wouldn't hesitate to shoot my shot the day I find a lady who has all these features.

I forgot to add.

A girl with a good head on her shoulder who is not so demanding and is financially independent. Gosh! This is where most girls usually kill the vibe when they come up with their money issues. Damn!

What's your take on this guys?

wurabecca:
Babymamaing is a taboo Here in Nigeria

But, really... I want to have the child now, before I clock 45 the child will be getting close to 20....

That's Blissful;!!!


Buh Nigeria... Smh

How tall are you and do you in or around Lagos?