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The person who needs the other the least in a relationship has the most power.

You give someone power and decision-making authority when you desperately crave for that person.

Make sure, as a Man, that you have more authority over the woman you are dating or marrying. This is very important.

Your woman must crave for you, not the other way round.

When she doesn't crave for you, withdraw attention.

Be sure to:

+ Always be ahead of her.

+ Have a deeper voice than her ( Don't go around sounding like a woman to a woman ).

+ Have a smarter brain than her.

+ Be fitter than her.

+ Read more.

+ Be richer than her.

+ Stronger than her.

There is a reason women mostly crave, want and go for their best options.

The relationship would turn out disastrous in the long run if you are anything less than her.

It's not their fault, they were naturally wired that way.

Be a Man.

Act a Man!

That's woman is not a soulmate, The word soulmates is only a flux.

Tell that man and other men here to join this seminar thread for men.

https://www.nairaland.com/7817844/successful-relationship-seminar-men-come

A woman will undervalue you if you overvalue her.

You want to appear interested, yes, but not be overly eager, desperate, or show needy.

Don't increase your level of pursuit on a woman when she shows signs of disinterest in you.

Rather, reply by withdrawing your attention, tease her and display your own lack of interest.

When a woman has complete social control over a connection, she raise her defense level and Becoming disgusted in the man.

Seduction tips 101.

When it comes to relationships, most Men make mistakes.

Most a'time, these mistakes are quite expensive, resulting in regrets and confusion in the long term.

I would begin this seminar with a few lessons from "How to Win Friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie.

I recommend you to read this book.

Lesson 1.

"If you want to gather honey, don't kick over the beehive".

This may seem to many of us to be an unattainable feat. When someone makes a mistake, they should be made to feel terrible about it right?

You may even ask, "How else will they know not to repeat the mistake?"

But Dale Carnegie was right.

Instead of constantly condemning people, try to understand them. Try to understand why they did what they did. That is far more profitable and engaging because it fosters sympathy, tolerance, and kindness.

Don't constantly condemn, criticize, or complain.

Know when to do otherwise.


Lesson 2.

"Be sincere about your interest in other people."

Individuals who are uninterested in his fellow men face the most challenges in life and cause the most harm to others.
All human failures begin among such people.

You may capture the attention of even the most sought-after persons by showing genuine interest in them.


Lesson 3.

Avoid being sarcastic or give flattery to people.

Mean what you say, Say what you mean.

Be cautious while praising or appreciating others.

Sincerity is the key difference between flattery and appreciation; the flattery is insincere.

It is better to be quiet than throwing flattery.

Be sincere in your compliments and praises; this will make others value and treasure your words.

People would tend to repeat your statements even if you had forgotten them because of the sincerity in it.

This lesson would be broken in to series and posted daily.

As men, our ability to develop and maintain relationships is what creates our phycho-social framework.


In the current world of distractions, noise, chaos, media madness and clutter, you must stand out as a captivating MAN who values relationships and friendships.

How do you maintain and value them?

Your network is your network!

Most men are the problems of failures in most romantic relationships.

Because most of this men have nobody to mentor or teach them The ways and laws governing their masculinity.

Therefore men have become quite, there is no one to share with, the problems they are facing in life or in relationships.

When men sit together, they hardly talk talk about themselves or the problems they are facing and how to resolve it.

When was the last time you asked a man; how are you?

This thread would serve as a discussion space to discuss and solve problems affecting men in today's life's and relationships.

You're welcome.

Women are welcome, but remain quietly and learn.

Unlike any other masculine teachings or groups,

Pettiness and chaos would not be tolerated on this thread!

I encourage us to act as responsible men we are here, drop responsible and reasonable comments.


We're here to learn from each other and get better together.

#SAVE A MAN.

He should have added,

"No pun intended" at the end

You sound like a joke to us!

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