victorian:
Some guys are wired differently. He may truly be in love.

Op seat her down talk to her and make moves to take her out of that brothel. Ask her if she can truly be faithful to u and stop fucking other men. If she says yes she can.. Then ask about other necessary questions and see how it goes.

Prostitutes are human beings, they are not lepers.
But if she can change? And be a good girl? Then bravo! She can't change, op run for your life and go for deliverance.

thankyou victorian, i tell you if love had asked me who to choose, i wouldnt have gone for such an angry/easily ofended lady who wouldnt look out to forgive me when i make mistakes. but here am i today inlove with a lady whos got all i want in a woman, prayerful and good in bed but she can be harsh at times , not tender, .

now shes not even giving me any oppourtunity for a conversation with her

and i go to that brothel, i see other guys sexing the lady i love but i am left with no room for any conversation.

is it a crime to love our Nigerian ladies?

i have tried to initiate a conversation for both of us but shesnever interested in any talk, i been considering to write her a letter and send her a card[i](im sorry card)[/i] and maybe buy her flowers. i dont know if that will work

resurgent4oodua:
Olosho/Ashewo sef na human being.

I know many who are now respectably married.

But I sure do think the OP is infatuated. He needs to sit down and talk with the lady. That's what any mature man will do.

gabinogem:
I also learnt that sex is the easiest act women use to charm men...my advice for u is for u to go meet a strong spiritualist & narrate this ur story to him/her & seek their counsel...cuz as it stands u don't know if u are charmed.

No i dont think i am Jazzed. what is happening to me is not common. even the so called innocent/ religious girls can be in her stead. i think its common among women to use love as a tool against men.

gabinogem:
((yawns))...I learnt brothel girls are very diabolic. Are you sure you are not in a spiritual love web

Brother i dont know, you judge my situation for me

[size=8pt][size=8pt] Relationship Gurus, please take your time to read my messages and give me advice on what to do.

my english is not very good , please bear with me, i ll try to pass my message accross .

i am currently inlove with a Love peddle who works at a Brothel , i have been with her for over 6years but i never spake to her of having any relationship but just to knack each other , pay her and go, we have been doing this for the past 6 years.

Truely she caught my attention because shes good in bed and i dont know whether that is what made me fall inlove with her, i perceive that i m in Love with her but dont know if she feels thesame for me too.

i cheated on her with her neighbour next door , her freind or friends told her about it and she querried me of it , i admitted and she sent me out of her room, i tried to apologise to her but she wouldnt listen, she was very angry that i feared she could harm me while angry. so i fled.

thinking that i can do without her, so i continued with sexing the nieghbour , the lady next door , opposite to her's . now when ever i m sexing her(the lady i m in-love with) neighbor her thoughts do come to me. whenever i think of her i grow weak, could this be Love?
if its love , why did it come to me without my consent? why did it come to me unawares?

one day i d visit the brothel where she works or Husstle , i met her and apologise that we continue our sexcapade but she refused, she says she has forgiven me but will never sex me again. she says that i downgraded her that while she was calling for me i didnt answer her. i never meant to downgrade her , i was only scared of looking at her direction after she shouted at me in her room, since after that her shout at me, i became scared of her and avoided her, i thought i wouldn't need her anymore, i didnt know i was inlove with her.

now these days whenever she sees me she hates me, i tried to talk to her she wouldn't grant me audience or listen to me , no oppourtunity to speak with her, she feels sad whenever i m around

oneday i prayed that i should never see her again that God should remove her from that Brothel where i do see her, so that my Love for her would die but it seems Satan answered my prayer by bringing her closer to where i work(treckable , closeby brothel), as i write to you now my heart is feeling the pain that the person i m inlove with is bittered about me.

please guys advise me i dont know what to do next.

how can you be inlove with someone and be sleeping with another person?

i end up loving this lady of which i never planed for.

she prays for me secretly , she affirmed it onetime, and another time i saw her in my dreams defending me against my enemies who attacked me, shes like an angel to me and at the same time good in bed. i find it difficult to let her go.

ever since i discovered that i love her , i stopped sleeping with that her former neighbor i cheated with. i have said that i will never do anything again to hurt her. but she never knows that these are my thoughts .

No Lady i know is as this one i m inlove with. i have dated a lady who happens to be more religious than her and who claims to be of good morals. but this my Olosho Lady is a blessing to me. the other religious lady i one dated brings me set backs (please this is not to discredit any religion)

please guys how do i get her back, help me, my heart has been bleeding for almost a year now ever since we had this misunderstandings

please advise me on what best to do

where is the video?