I once dated a girl for 5 years no sex.... She put me through the worse time of my life. My friends used to hail me saying my relationship was dope. meanwhile i was suffering in the relationship. On the other hand she tells her gfs we make love and she talks dirty with people. I adviced her to do the same time as advised by the OP.Why would you wanna keep me when you know you weren't ready for anything. Her ex had left her for the same reason doe.Well after 2 years. i started doing my thing. she was in a relationship in her head but someone else was doing everything that made me happier.my take on this is that girls shouldnt put a guy tru the rubbish stress

Like I would always say God and time dats all... there is hope in the house .just got my offer on subsea.I am nt working @ d moment. Studied Mech ENG.For those of u that haven't been called, just be hopeful. Cementing and subsea is calling @ d moment .plus someone told me he over heard the HR asking how many people r remaining in the talent pool n dat dey shdnt exhaust dem as oda psls havnt called. So I will say there's plenty of hope. I wish you all the best.hope to see you all. Amen.