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Doveheart:
Hello Nairalanders,

This is what I just noticed in my friend's house each time I visit. His mother in law actually came to do omugwo, taking care and staying with the baby when his mum has gone to work. but to my surprise, I discovered she is the one doing the house chores, sweeping, watching both the husband's (my friend) clothes and the wife's clothes together with the baby's clothes.

She cooks and serves everybody's food while the wife only give the food to the husband. The wife seldom enter the kitchen even on weekends when everyone is around. I told my friend about my observation and he said he feels it strange to him too.

Please nairalanders how do you understand this scenario whether is normal or abnormal. The mother in-law is yoruba and my friend also is Yoruba.

Is she complaining? Some of our mothers that visit their children once in a while always take it upon themselves to assist in the best possible way they can without being force to do so. They see it as part of bonding.

Anuoluwa12345:
Good evening, pls I need help on something
I don't even know how to put it well, but I will try my best to explain a little..and I seek sincere advice from matured and experienced ppl on the forum.

I am a type that when I love ppl, I love them wholeheartedly..to the extent that I will give in all my best to them.. be it family members or non. When I tell you I gat your back, then I truly mean it. But the problem now is, when these ppl hurt me. I don't know how to handle it, I don't even know if I will call it unforgiving spirit or maybe cause I remember things alot, I will surely not forget.

It's not as if I won't forgive them o, I will but, to make that relationship between me and that person smooth back.. it's not possible.. the distance will always be there.. tho before I get angry or pick offence it takes long, but once it happens like this! I know I have lost relationship with that soul.

Some of my relatives (extended fam) offended me, and since about 3 yrs now, these ppl have been sending different ppl just to beg me and talk to me etc.. in order to make things back, but it's just not working!. Cuz I know myself.

And I am a type that, once I vex, I don't look back..even if the person has done a lot of things etc.. I have tried my best but it's just not working. And I understand the fact that there is no how there won't be argument among humans, it's not possible.

My greatest fear now is, what if I marry, is this how It will be towards my husband, someone I claim I love? Pls how do I tackle this problem before I reach that stage, pls I need sincere word of wisdom from elders, else why I come to a faceless forum to pour out my mind.

Hmmmm, this post finally made front page after 4 years!😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁

Who dey take Reno omokri serious these days. Him na anywhere belle face! Currently, his stomach infrastructure is assured by Tinobu. So you cannot expect less from him!

Col Umar (rtd). Has always been my role model. It's a pity there's not much of his like in Nigeria of today, the very reason we are where we are as a country! (Spit on sycophant people)

Chia! All this verbal missiles on top somebody child?!🙍 O mehn, this one loud! Renu ntooh! No be only you get mouth! 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁[quote author=Jatuski post=135750363]Paul Ibe is Atiku's Media aide & Spokesman

Reno Omokri, you are a classic case study in psychological projection — an insecure man so desperate to escape his own failures that he accuses others of the very flaws that define him.

Credibility and Reno Omokri in the same grammatical environment? Oh, what a mockery. That’s… pic.twitter.com/PUq4SiElbm

— Paul Ibe (@omonlakiki) June 14, 2025

]

Hmmmm I just dey laugh at this man called wike! It's very clear that Nigerian politicians no dey learn from history. But one thing I assured wike is that sooner or later he account for every Kobo he squandered in this administration!

fergie001:
Nyesom Wike during the commissioning of roads at Apo, Abuja

So you panel beat your wife to death with sex enhancer?! Oboy it has do!🙆

Her cup of tea! Her headache!



NONE OF MY BUSINESS 😎

Their dangerousness is their doom!




IT NONE OF MY BUSINESS! 😎

[color=#990000][/color] His doing! Their mistake!



NONE OF MY BUSINESS😎

God1000:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w9vk96eEVN4?si=56R0MgM6gMu9nkN8




https://www.facebook.com/ReportYourself/videos/1000890218054136/?app=fbl

Their soldier! Their palava! Their nightmares!

NONE OF MY BUSINESS![color😎

[quote author=mohbadliveson post=134598292][/quote]Smwsh! Their emergency! their headache! Their wahala!

IT KNOWN OF MY BUSINESS

LUAN:
akpabio dey find fresh and old layers

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

post=134073287:
Source: https://dailytrust.com/police-officer-kills-self-in-niger/

Chai! Wahala dey o! 🙆

[quote author=Sonnobax15 post=133852156][/quote]Similar issue with me right now. In my own case have paid 6 different agents with nothing to show for. The one that even showed me a better accomodations asked me to pay times 2
of the main amount for rent as an agent and agreement fees! The thing weak me.
Me ma I've decided to stay put where I am. My mumu don do abeg!

[quote author=fergie001 post=133785815]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7X7d0tpI5-w
“If you allow state policing today, nobody will oppose any Governor; it’s either you die for murder or for armed robbery.”

"The mere fact that you believed or I believed yesterday doesn't make it right."[/quote

Shebi una dey see Nigerian politicians....?! Thwueeee! I spit on them! 😡😡😡😡

If you don't fix the moribund refineries after removing subsidy on fuel and increase taxes to an abysmal level, what would you then tell the world you did with all the billions of dollars you made out of it?

Leadership is about taking responsibilities and working for the common good of the people.

It's not yet time to bragged and beat your chest until the impact of these reform is felt by every citizens!

GistMedia0:
In a heart-wrenching social media post, a Nigerian lady has shared the devastating loss of her mother at the hands of cultists. According to the lady, the cult group, believed to be members of the notorious Viking confraternity, came to their home with the intention of killing her older brother. However, when they could not find him, they tragically shot her mother instead.

In her emotional post, the lady expressed her sorrow and regret, stating, "Mommy was not sick, mommy was shot by Viking men that came to kill my big bro. Viking took away my mom... Just lost my mom, am so sorry that I couldn’t save your life. Rest on, mom."

E don red be that! Blood go spill plenty in reprisal! Say no to cultism❌🚫⚰️☠️

Kobicove:
Lies everywhere!

Where is the lies there bro? I had similar experience with my ex who was getting married as well. Only that in my own case my conscience couldn't allow me to do it. This thing do happened!

Obyangel:
You're lucky brother, I picked periwinkles at OJO Sea/water side beach. The owners (Marine people) came to me around 2am (midnight) next morning and seriously warned me to return the periwinkles and never come back to pick it again. I humbly return it to them with apologies.

This world is very deep and mysterious.

Tah! You can lie! 🙄

Wike, the drunk and utaba man!... I know say he no go hear this one😁😁😁😁😁

The funniest thing be say nah short men deh like women with fat/big yansh pass😁

1. Know that what is not your own can never be your own!

2. Never kill your self trying to make somebody come, if you come the person no come, I beg come and go your way! 🥸

These Northerners always think everything must start and end with them... Imagine banning revenue generating commodity like alcoholic drinks in their region but still shared from the same proceeds generated by other regions. For how long will the north remain a toddler to continually fed by the south? 😠

iykofias:
Wanted to get the cyber truck last week, but I was having a running stomach; had to cancel the deal so I can rush to the toilet

Bade007:
Wike looking at his best friend

Lolz! Wike and alcohol is like 5&6! Guy man is like saying " omehn see my brand"😁

Smart man!😁😁😁😁😁😁
I was expecting to hear him say ' in Jesus name' but he tactically avoided that! 😀😀😀

Hmmn, Army arrested a journalist for oil theft.... Who are the real oil thieves in Nigeria these days? 🙄

Toh! 🤷

I sense frustration inside her complain.

Kyrx:
Why is this woman inciting an unnecessary gender conflict just to evoke emotions?

I'm an immigration officer, and much of what she wrote is inaccurate. The NIS does not require your husband's identity while processing a standard renewal. Such is only requested for in a situation whereby you're changing your surname either due to marriage, divorce or death.

So asking for such in the above circumstances aren't out of place, you can't just decide to change your surname without providing additional documents to back it up aside the birth certificate & local government identity.

This is an unjustified victimization of the service.

Ausval:
Yes ooooo

My aunty carry me go church for family prayers ...Na so the pastor accused me say I be witch and that I used to fly at night ..I was shocked can I be a witch and I don't know ??

Na so the man begin dey fire prayer ,they press my neck they blow my chest say i must confess

Before I knew it my aunty don join am before I open my eyes all of them don hold broom

The pastor Begin they tell my aunty to flog her way to breakthrough ..na so beating start for me ooo..see flog see broom

Omo I jejely confessed ooo say I be witch and na me be the cause of all the problem ,before these people go use broom end my young life

I come even begin to dey make cat sound mew mew mew mew ooo so that them go believe and leave me as all my back don already dey bleed

Na so dem free me ..I run for my life go back go meet my mama for village

But guessed what ?...the witch is a big boy now and all his family is extremely proud of him

Also my aunty now want her first son to come live with the witch so that the witch can send him to school .

ehn! na iceprince visit palmchat na em dem copy note full nairaland, if Buhari come visit nko?

broseme:
I don't how true is this story but according to Victor who lives in Nnewi that shared the story,a pastor was killed in Anambra on Feb 3 by unknown men after he finished night vigil.Below is what he wrote....

'WAT KIND OF WORLD ARE WE LIVING INTO. Jus today ,around  5am . This pastor was killed in front of his church along fidelity bank nnewi .
He jus finish night vigil yesterday and was  stoned to death (killed) by unknowned people.
May his soul rest in peace'.

Please our readers in Nnewi should confirm the authenticity of the story.Thanks


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2017/02/pastor-killed-by-unknown-men-after.html?m=1

the story is true sir! I know the deceased in person!
The pastor name is Imeh Etim, an indigene of AkwaIbom State.