₦airaland Forum

adanny01:
Simple trust issues blown out of proportion. This means she was innocent afterall. She saw it and you concluded. All you needed to do was to tell her you have and maintain your word.

The bank is not responsible for any, they just exposed your lack of trust.

You really f....d up.

PassingShot:
Check your dictionary for the meaning of criticism and hate speech.

PassingShot:
Calling him a "small bird" is love speech.

Sufisunni:
I didn't say crime either. He would be charged to court

Sufisunni:
He called for social disobedience

PassingShot:
Hate speech has consequences in sane societies. He should be made to face the law.

The personality of a Mercedes-Benz driver
The average Mercedes driver would describe themselves as organised, analytical and reckon they’re good company. That said, they can sometimes be arrogant, impatient and intolerant. Despite this, they’re happy with their standard of living and can cope with change.

greatstephenho:
2006 Volkswagen Passat FSI
2.0 Turbo engine
Very very okay
Buy and drive
Everything is working fine
Vin: WVWAK73C36P047844

This car is very very okay

08034783992

Price: 950k

donkoto:
Serious buyer calls

Conductor261:
250k

taskcompleteng:
Noooooh

sooperrescue:
Sorry bros. Na how we see am. They are all diesel and petrol engine oil. Castrol will display on their gallon the star bust logo of Gasoline engines only. If the logo is on the Total gallon, then it is good. Do you know that Toyota is one of the vehicles that are very selective of the oil you put in their cars? Check out the oil chamber cover of a Toyota and you will find gasoline engines only, energy or resource conserving. So with this information, you will never find it on any oil manufacturer in the country and not even the Castrol sold locally from SA except the oil from the US and some European countries. So if Toyota did not recommend these oils, na range rover go come say that make you use am on our high compression engines?

GAZZUZZ:
i smile, but my smile is velly dangelous

sooperrescue:
Welcome to the club and please ensure that you make all necessary changes when they are due. You will need the octane boosters for your Lr3. It's for all models of the land rover brand. Remember that maintenance is the key. Try and change the engine oil and use the recommended oil. There are many types of Castrol but avoid the ones that are petrol and diesel engine oil, those SN-CF spec, that will also eliminate Mobil, Total and Oando. They are all 5w30 but not all 5w30 are permitted on the range rover. The Castrol Edge 5w30 extended performance in gold color gallon is the best for the car. It has been proven to withstand high temperatures and cools down the engine and eliminates friction among the internal components of the engine. Good luck to you as you experience the wonders on wheels. The off road capability is second to none as we have tested it on the elegushi to eleko Beach route and it survived beautifully.

Nonnyautoconnec:
Trust me..
Nobody will pm you..

taskcompleteng:
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TPound:
Hospital go shalaye if you dem try am

LinLinGentle:
Disclaimer: I AM NOT A SAINT AND MY WIFE IS NOT THE DEVIL. I HAVE JUST BEEN UNFORTUNATE TO BECOME A VICTIM OF MATRIARCHY WHICH MANY MEN SUFFER ABROAD...

I have been hustling abroad for a few years while wifey was working in Nigeria and living with children. Marriage has always been turbulent and we even almost got divorced after I travelled out. We somehow worked on our issues with the help of pastors, family and friends, and after a few years of ''roughing'' it abroad to pave way for them, I finally succeeded and my family arrived a few months ago.

I used to be hot tempered, but I have had enough time to gain insight into my inadequacies and reflect on them. I am now significantly calmer due to the determination to make my marriage better and as per ''abroad levels''. My wife on the other hand is fully taking advantage of me and the environment we find ourselves in. First thing she did on getting here was to cut of my entire family. She said she doesn't want to have anything to do with any of them anymore. She has also not been too keen to kickstart her career, as all she does is endless picture taking and editing for social media hyping. I know this might be due to the initial ''euphoria'' phase cos she is coming abroad to a big house, big car and having no limits on most things we used to manage back in Nigeria, and she thinks things are bread and butter. You would never think for a second that she is a married woman if you check her profiles on social media!

She has become even more toxic person than she ever was in Naija. Now very bossy, never backs down, always the attacker, ever ready for a fight, lazier, always on social media, communicates with me as little as possible, embarrasses me in the neighbourhood with the constant noises from our house, and finally her threats have now tripled! Madam is now so fierce that I have become the house chicken. Just within a few months of being here o! She tells me that she will show me for all the ''gra gra'' I used to do back in Nigeria. Friends advised me against bringing this woman here but I no wan hear word as per responsible family man wey I dey claim to be.

The popular threat is usually ''I will end your career''. I wasn't taking this too seriously initially, but she then started following through with the threats by constant calls to the police and other services, making spooky and baseless career ending accusations and allegations against me.

I have never been the one to first lay my hands on her, but I have spilled drinks on her before when she attacked me. My wife now gets very physical without having any element of self control, fear or restraint after the simplest argument and sometimes, she damages things out of anger. She does this so often and never hesitates to dare me to do my worst.

I discovered that she has signed up on dating sites and when I even caught her chatting about sex to a particular guy in our area, she said that it was all my fault. She did not apologise for this. She even referred to it one time after an argument that if I am convulsing like this over just a sex chat, she's waiting to see what I'd do when I see a man on top of her.

My productivity at work has declined significantly and I am now on the verge of depression. Neighbours called the police on us one time after a lot of noise from out house. She accused me of domestic violence. The police had to separate us and I was stuck at home for an extended period and could not go to work due to this. I am now being investigated for domestic violence, which is a serious crime as madam wants it and I have had to report the situation to my company! The whole thing is so messy that I am scared that I have not seen the worst yet.

I am so afraid of losing it all and returning to Nigeria broke cos I spent my last card and even racked credit card debt to bring them here hoping to pay off gradually. I still have a few years to get my citizenship and if I lose my job now, that is the end for all of us!

For now, I don't know what is going to happen to us, as this woman is so determined to cause great and irreparable damage that could ruin our lives, just to get back at me and she is being cheered on by her family and friends.

THE SITUATION IS SO MESSED UP!

UPDATE:

Divorce has now been filed. I also recently got lucky as I was able to secure a restraining order when she messed up again and hit me daring me to do my worst. I called the police and made a proper case and she was arrested. She has been banned from the house for a month. The police advised me to talk to my lawyer and extend indefinitely if I want to. I hope to get this done ASAP. The law here does not only protect women but also protects innocent men. All you need is patience and wisdom. Thank you all for your ideas. Still several hurdles to cross but I am on the winning side for now.

TPound:
Try entering a pothole by mistake with just 80km and see what you mean by balance

nemadfsyahooc:
Pls which is better in terms of maintenance, Fuel consumption and reliability between Nissan Xterra 2003 and Honda pilot 2007. Considering buying the better one.

chiddyok:
Yeah. Half Yoruba, born and raised in the north: tribes are overrated, we are all not good people

Agboriotejoye:
Where's the disrespect? Did they insult him? I'm sure if they typed sai Baba he wouldn't have a problem with that.

MotorConnectz:
Ah bros! thats a rather meanness offer.

550 net . Buy and drive no fixes

vanida6:
Am so happy about that tweets s lemme too follow nd talk my own no be me go remain

merit455:
Na wah for this our afonja brothers..,haba. This is very bad