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Family › Re: Matured "MINDS", I Need Your Piece Of Advice by Confiture: 11:58am On Aug 31, 2025 |
This is a very good decision. I'm also looking into something like this. Better still, you can freeze your sperm, or contact surrogacy agencies around you. Just that it's very expensive.
Or if you have any willing person who can agree to get her pregnant, that will be fine. |
Health › Re: AI Was Used To Find Sperm In A Man Who Had Been Infertile For 18 Yrs by Confiture: 10:51am On Jun 28, 2025 |
Yankee101: Thank you Jesus We bless God Almighty for the good dividends of technology and not to be using it to face-recognize and destroy lives and properties What's Jesus business in this? Thank you AI should be right words. |
Politics › Re: How Sanwo-Olu Celebrated 60th With Mercy Chinwo, Alaseyori, Ogunsan, Others by Confiture: 10:45am On Jun 28, 2025 |
"Don't yoke with unbelievers" dey play, when Not when Sanwoolu is involved. |
Politics › Re: Aminu Dantata Donated ₦10 Million At The Launching Of Kano Foundation In 1986 by Confiture: 10:32am On Jun 28, 2025 |
See money. That money is like 1 billion now o. RIP man |
Jobs/Vacancies › Smart Nairalanders, What Should I Do? by Confiture(op): 10:10pm On Jun 23, 2025 |
Hello. In 2024, after I finished my NYSC, and for like 6 months I couldn't get a job. While I was searching I found an online job (a publishing job) which has made me close to #10M. On this job there are days I make 200k, some 500, 1m or even more depending on how hard I work or how luck smiles on me.
The issue now is that I got a 9-5 government job that pays around 150k. Tfare alone takes 40%. I'm a single man, 30, PWD. Tbh this money is too small. And talking of managing the two to three jobs ain't easy. It's taking a toll on my health. And too much focus on the govt job is causing a neglect/decline on my online job. I'm being pressured by my parent to go for this 9-5. They don't understand this online job. They think it's a scam. Imagine when will 80 k buy me my Lexus RX 350? When will I begin my own family?
Apart from this publishing job, I've found two other online jobs I've started focusing on. I save well, I don't spend unnecessarily, and I invest well too.
Please advice me what should I do. Should I leave the govt job and continue to lock in?
Mods, kindly put it on frontpage. Thank you. |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Why Was King David Called A Man After God's Own Heart by Confiture: 11:31am On Jun 01, 2025 |
David, a man after God's heart indeed. A murderer, adulterer like David was not punished for his sins. His unborn child was punished instead. Praise the Lord. |
Car Talk › Re: The Official Car Comparison/Recommendation Thread by Confiture: 7:55pm On May 29, 2025 |
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Car Talk › Re: The Official Car Comparison/Recommendation Thread by Confiture: 1:43pm On May 27, 2025 |
My first car. Mazda CX9 or Lexus RX 330/350? Which one is okay? Or can you recommend any SUX for a starter? |
Career › Re: This Is Not For Civil Servants: A Mockery Masquerading As Marketing by Confiture: 12:52pm On May 27, 2025 |
This is just sad. Civil servants have suffered. Useless society. |
Crime › Re: Catholic Priest, Passenger Die In Niger Flood by Confiture: 8:20am On May 27, 2025 |
Didn't you call on God to save you? RIP |
Health › Re: How Can I Be Strong And Energetic I 'm Always Weak And Slow by Confiture: 12:24pm On May 06, 2025 |
Birdbyrde440: Forget about what anyone has told you, here lies your problem. I know this because I was in the same position earlier in life in my 100 level period.
Your problem is either: 1. You have nor been in a conducive environment for a long time. Once you find yourself in the right environment you will be happy being yourself.
2. Lack of motivation and happiness... let me tell you a story, there was a time I was so broke that I had on 10naira on me.. I was in my room for 2 days no food , only drinking water. I was lying down weak and felt dejected and depressed. I was so hungry that I couldn't stand up to go to have my bath. But as soon as I received alert from my parents and strength came out from nowhere. I got up, took my bath and trekked to the bank. When you are happy you feel strong and ginger.
3. Family upbringing.... children from most families where there is no real love usually experience depression. Some families like to instill fear in kids and as a result the children turn out to be timid, anxious and/or fearful.
4. Finally I think you are just missing something that makes you happy. What is that thing that you love doing? For some people it's sex, others love to gym, some love to go shopping, etc find a way to engage in something you love or be around people that genuinely love you and allow you to be your real self.
Solution: Do what you love. Since I was born I have never worked at a job. I hate being around people. During my nysc I didn't go to camp, I didn't attend PPA for one day, I only went for that stuff they did once a month abi week. Make sure you do what makes you happy and be in an environment that motivates you. For example even if I'm given a bank job with high pay I will reject it because I hate such environments. In the western world, people that encounter such issues as yours are sometimes put on anti depression/anxiety medications, these medications is like replacing a dead battery with a new one. They make you agile and active and at the same time you feel relaxed and strong mentally. Just that they can become addictive. If you watch prison break there is a guy called Alex Mahone, the drugs he was taking made him so smart. I personally know some drugs that could help you but you really need to think long and hard before you partake in it bcs it gives you an entirely new personality and can be addictive. Please what are these drugs. You can drop your contact. Help a life |
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Your Church On Rented Or Permanent Structure? by Confiture: 12:17pm On May 04, 2025 |
LoL. Rented church. Business must surely pay. |
Travel › Re: 6 Killed As Small U.S Airplane Crashes In Upstate New York (Photos) by Confiture: 12:30am On Apr 15, 2025 |
US failed these people. Smh |
Business › Re: Boost Your Pi Mining Rate by Confiture: 3:05pm On Mar 09, 2025*. Modified: 2:22am On Jun 24, 2025 |
I'm coming back to send mine. I can't add more people. |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: 2026!! Marriages For Working Class: Drop Your Contact And Get Your Spouse Now. by Confiture: 9:24pm On Jan 06, 2025 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: 2026!! Marriages For Working Class: Drop Your Contact And Get Your Spouse Now. by Confiture: 12:08am On Jan 06, 2025*. Modified: 1:45pm On May 27, 2025 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Meet Matured Christian Singles For Hookup. by Confiture: 12:06am On Jan 06, 2025*. Modified: 2:22am On Jun 24, 2025 |
Paul. I need a God fearing lady for a serious relationship. Must be caring, 25-30, AA
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Guys Drop Ur Number And Let The Ladies Call (hook Up Someone Pls) by Confiture: 12:03am On Jan 06, 2025*. Modified: 2:22am On Jun 24, 2025 |
Any God fearing lady, ready for a serious relationship |
Foreign Affairs › Re: France Bans Israeli Firms From Arms Show Amid Growing Tensions Over Middle East by Confiture: 9:22pm On Oct 16, 2024 |
Righteousness2: When Rahab the harlot saw the spies in Jericho, “she came up to them on the roof, and said to the men: “I know that the Lord has given you the land, that the terror of you has fallen on us, and that all the inhabitants of the land are fainthearted because of you.
For we have heard how the Lord dried up the water of the Red Sea for you when you came out of Egypt, and what you did to the two kings of the Amorites who were on the other side of the Jordan, Sihon and Og, whom you utterly destroyed. And as soon as we heard these things,our hearts melted; neither did there remain any more courage in anyone because of you, for the Lord your God, He is God in heaven above and on earth beneath.” (Joshua 2:8-11)
The COVENANT that guides and Controls the Earth and Everything and Everyone in it is CLEAR.. I will BLESS those who BLESS YOU and CURSE those who Curse You.
When a nation, People or indivdual turn their back GOD'S Ordained Order, you open yourself and Nation to TERRORISTS, Terrorism, Disaster, Destructions, and all manners of degradations.
Be careful when you come against God’s chosen people!
It’s not about the nation of ISRAEL!
It’s about the GOD OF ISRAEL! Why are the Israelis fighting with advanced weapons and not with the bible verses you are quoting up and down? Your mumu is too classic. |
Sports › Re: Ahmed Musa Scores Two Goals In NFPL Debut For Kano Pillars by Confiture: 9:27am On Oct 07, 2024 |
Back to his root. Well done Ahmed Musa |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Online English Teaching Job ($7-8 Per Hour) by Confiture: 5:01pm On Sep 21, 2024 |
Please I'm interested in this. I also need your contact. johnpaulog123@gmail.com |
Sports › Re: Nigeria Female National Teams' Thread by Confiture: 8:53pm On Sep 02, 2024 |
daveP: She looks like a doppelganger of Ordega. Yeah |
Sports › Re: Nigeria Female National Teams' Thread by Confiture: 11:43pm On Aug 31, 2024 |
Where can we watch the match? |
Christianity Etc › Re: The Love Of Money Is The Root Of All Evils by Confiture: 10:36am On Aug 11, 2024 |
Robertgreene1: Whether you are poor or rich...just try and be happy and have peace of mind...you see all those so-called rich people...if they tell you what they're battling inside eh...l know a multi-billionaire...who's dating a female senator that once told me that he doesn't sleep for more than two hours every night!...the man is always rapping to me how everyone thinks he doesn't have any problems...while he has his own huge personal problems... Besides, most of all those rich people you see are battling mental issues and addictions especially those so-called celebrities...and it is mostly the hard substances that they can afford to take cus of their money that causes those mental issues and addictions...l even heard that that ugly one that her name starts with "J" and end with "a" that calls herself a sex therapist or something like that was recently admitted to a psychiatric hospital to undergo drug rehab..and while there...she was raving mad and always demanding for sex! Do you think that even if she spends months there and gets rehabilated that she won't come out tommorow and delve right back to those hard substances again cus she has the money to afford them? It is much easier for a broke person than a rich person to successfully break an addiction especially substance addiction! I'm talking out of experience! And you see...any substance addiction is pure hell! It is somewhere you don't wanna be! In fact, only your God will deliver you from that place like he delivered me...if he still has a future unfulfilled destiny for you l swear...So my point is this...never envy any so-called rich person...cus you don't know what that person is really passing through inside! Just work smart...be happy and have peace of mind! Shalom! Even the poor have problems they are battling with. So? |
Christianity Etc › Re: A Man Died In My Place After Arguing With Me In The Bus. by Confiture: 9:53am On Jul 07, 2024 |
Let me grab my popcorn and read some comments.  |
Celebrities › Re: Why I Returned To Nollywood After Many Years Of Being Away – Bukky Wright by Confiture: 4:52pm On May 28, 2024 |
martolux: Family over anything and you've made the right decision... Sadly, you cannot be the same 'Shade Blade' we used to know.  I remember this movie. She made any food appear, especially meat pie. |