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Rest in peace ✌️

kepstone:
Bro... U better stop those drugs of rapzole they are killer. I was there last year too ... I created ed my eyes out my erection was affected, could not feel myself anymore as a man. Penis shrank and zero libido only to discover that the drug I was using was what was causing it. I stopped started cleaning my system not with medication from pharmacy but I went natural.
For ulcer or gastritis or even hpylori I took spinach lettuce boiled the water or cooked the leaf and eat early in the morning. I also added lemon to it I did this routine for 21 days morning and evening.

For your erection you have to do this
Get
Lemon
Garlic
Tumeric
Beetroot
Onions
Cloves
Ginger
Bay leaf
Cinnamon

Boil all together except the lemon the bitter one .
Strain your mixture properly but I normally pour everything into a ragolis water bottle including the content allow everything to soak for 24-48 hours after 48 hours squeeze your lemon bitter lemon Into your bottle water and start taking one shot morning and evening.
Pls don't take much ooo just half a glass cup on empty stomach in the morning is ok. Wait for like 1-2 hours before eating anything.

With this your body system begins to recalibrate itself, your blood vessels begin to dialiate to allow more flow of oxygen into your blood for stronger erection and restoration.

God help.
Stop any drug with zole at them end
🙏

Bro please is this spinach lettuce a lasting solution for ulcer ...and where can I find it please ..I'm tired of ulcer here pls

Oloriburku woman

Kastonkastroll:
Why will he dissolve the union? See you guys should tell Dangote to obey our labour laws. The man is not bigger than Nigeria. If not for corrupt Emefiele that gave him a whopping $20billion for the refinery, which sane CBN governor will do that

Dangote is trying to deliver petrol to any filling station free of charge that will reduce the price of cost too for Nigerians ..so how is he wrong .. Just tell me one way the PEngassan has been impactful to your life .. as you dey defend them so

Righteousness2:
Super Destiny Destroyers and company limited.
Run for your life.

It's a lie

Na wetting davido suppose dey do be this instead na loud mouth about spending 3.7million dollars on wedding

Show us proof on national dailies or News channels ... God why did u create me into Nigeria this is very unfair

3kay945:
Are you seriously serious with this? Can you elaborate?.

I can arrest to that I currently been using Huawei since 2020 mehn u won't want to use any other .. Huawei phone are crazy .. strong and never lag ..

Chubhie:
If the root cause of why you hit her and she left ain't sorted, no amount of cosmetic pancake can save you. It's self evident that poverty is the root cause.

Time to make an economic decision. Sit down with her and let her know it's either she's with you 100% fighting side by side as you both navigate this stage or you would fly solo.

You earn 70k and she earns 22k that's 92k no rent. With stoic discipline, you both should stabilise and ready to fly in 12 months. You can then marry your warrior queen afterwards in a deserving manner.

I love happy endings so rooting for you guys.

Thank you very much and Amen .. I will send pictures here when it's done ✅

Onegai:
Omo, bros...I don't even know where to start.

Firstly, you didn't start well.

(UNA SEE WHY I SAY COHABITION IS ALWAYS A BAD IDEA?!!)

Okay, let us try to sort this out.

Her family want to secure her and her future, which is why they're asking for commitment from you, aka Marriage. Not a bad thing.

But abeg, you need to get your mind right: PLEASE MAKE UP YOUR MIND TO BE COMMITTED TO HER.

Now, once you do that, you have to start thinking of her as your responsibility. So get her to start thinking of herself as your Wife, she must leave her family and cleave unto you. And you MUST cleave unto her. NO MORE BEATING.

Once you get on the same page, sit down with her. You cannot afford a proper wedding right now, but you can afford taking drinks to her family and signifying your intentions. You can afford going to the local govt office with her and marrying her legally. Which is enough in the eyes of Federal Government of Nigeria and the World. So go do those 2. Infact, that is more valid than Traditional wedding and dancing in white gown in church.

After a Court wedding, she's officially your wife. Let her move back home and sit down and both of you plan your finances carefully, abeg no more children for now. Just wait. Plus you need to win her trust and she needs to win yours back, let the marriage be stable first because kids add more chaos.

Be patient, sit her down and calmly explain this. She needs to agree with you.

I sent this your message to her and she concur with it .. I'm so grateful bro .. You no fall I'm a bit relieved now

Onegai:
Omo, bros...I don't even know where to start.

Firstly, you didn't start well.

(UNA SEE WHY I SAY COHABITION IS ALWAYS A BAD IDEA?!!)

Okay, let us try to sort this out.

Her family want to secure her and her future, which is why they're asking for commitment from you, aka Marriage. Not a bad thing.

But abeg, you need to get your mind right: PLEASE MAKE UP YOUR MIND TO BE COMMITTED TO HER.

Now, once you do that, you have to start thinking of her as your responsibility. So get her to start thinking of herself as your Wife, she must leave her family and cleave unto you. And you MUST cleave unto her. NO MORE BEATING.

Once you get on the same page, sit down with her. You cannot afford a proper wedding right now, but you can afford taking drinks to her family and signifying your intentions. You can afford going to the local govt office with her and marrying her legally. Which is enough in the eyes of Federal Government of Nigeria and the World. So go do those 2. Infact, that is more valid than Traditional wedding and dancing in white gown in church.

After a Court wedding, she's officially your wife. Let her move back home and sit down and both of you plan your finances carefully, abeg no more children for now. Just wait. Plus you need to win her trust and she needs to win yours back, let the marriage be stable first because kids add more chaos.

Be patient, sit her down and calmly explain this. She needs to agree with you.

I'm forwarding this message to her .

Thanks so much honestly I'm so happy reading this ..but let's see if she go get sense

Mariangeles:
You want to marry wife on credit, abi?😏

Don't worry, just go to her family, and do something, no matter how small.
That is, if you're truly serious.

You want her to come live with you, so that you can impregnate and trap/saddle her with more kids?
By then, it'll be the case of why buy the cow, when you already have the milk for free.

That is what I'm planning .. I got the list already but her persistent of asking money everytime is not making money stay saved ..that's is my problem .
Because are immediate family lives in delta state .. transportation is costing a grip on me

Now here is what I told her tonight because bills are on the table .... I let her understand it's easier for me to get wedding money if she is with me running business and making money for the house . And I'm ready to take a loan of 300k to start Raw Food business .but seems she just want me to be sending money while she stays in her Aunty house ...and of course me to work and get wedding money too at the same time .but I sent her this to let her know ..please tell me if I thought it out well

Samantha125:
Mistake?🥱🥱🥱... She will be missed in advance.

Don't take it personal ok .. I have helped her all her life .. if you think the next man can't do such then we would see

Kobojunkie:
I didn't suggest that you take care of her, though. Tell her you want to break up with her and are able to take full custody of the child in the case she is not herself able to provide fully for herself and the child at this time.

The two of you are not good together; that much is clear. So, the only way is for you to either share custody with her --- the child stays with you for x days and then with her for x days -- or you can consider one of you getting full custody while the other gets visitation rights x number of days each month.

She is with her Aunty in Ibadan while I live in osun state

Samantha125:
She still wants to get back with you after you hit her? Well, RIP to her in advance.

Yes and it wasn't just intentional ...after all we all make mistake it's been 2 yrs .. we have been seeing after then .we have sex whenever .
I have done more good than hitting her in her life .. ok

Kobojunkie:
You assaulted the woman and she decided to put a distance between you and herself until maybe after you have paid her bride price. But you are considering breaking up with her instead?

2. It seems you think she is a drain on your finances at this point, forgetting she is taking care of your child and everything that is involved. money instead of helping at this point.

3. Tell her you would like to have full custody of the child so that you won't need to pay her any kobo ever again. That way, you can raise the child by yourself. If she would like to, maybe, visit the child every now and then, you can both work out the terms and conditions on that, too.

She no gree infact it was an outburst when I decided that the child goes to school around me and I take care of her . She said she carry her in her womb 9 months .. and she won't come stay with me either too ..now she keeps disturbing me for money everyday .. ..I think if I keep sending her she would feel relaxed over there and I can't afford wedding now coz things are not fine financially and this woman knows ..

dawnomike:
Hmmm... My brother, don't blame her too much. Her salary of 22k is too little and the 10k monthly allowance can not feed a child for 1 month in this present economy.

I support her on she saying you should do traditional wedding before she comes back... But, if you know you are not yet ready for marriage and the responsibilities that come with it; pls let her be in peace and be sending upkeep for your child while you work on improving your finances.

I pray fortune smiles on you and you get back on your feet financially in no time.

Thanks so much .
Noted !
My worry is just the transportation of people to delta state from osun state .

Good day everyone

Please I needsoke reasonable advice to anyone that has been in this shoe.

Ok I met this lady in Ibadan in 2019 we lived together and eventually had a kid together .. we have been staying together in Ibadan very fine because I was doing very good .but things take a turn on me financially in 2023 as my farm was flooded abd I lost a fortune . So I had to move to osun state where I built a 4 bedroom flat. I was the first person to move and she later came with my child .. but one thing let to another ..I hit her so she had to move out back to Ibadan with her mother's sister .. her mom and siblings live in delta state .
So now she is telling me before she can come back I have to do traditional marriage but knowing fully well I don't have that fund now in this economy .. my salary is only 70k . I told her to come so I can take a loan to open a shop for to start selling things while I hustle to save money for the wedding and take cae of my child's school stuffs but she is not having it .. now she calls me everytime to send money for feeding and all that .. after I place them on 10k monthly feeding allowance .. but now I just don't know what to do again . After giving money for feeding she will still be asking for 2k -1k randomly almost everytime ..her own salary is 22k ..

Please should I just free this woman because if she is with me we can do more together like saving money and taking car if the family ..then we can go do wedding when we have money but she want me to save money for wedding . Pay school fee , send 10k monthly and sti be sending urgent 1k2k every now and then

Please what can I do abeg I don tire .. m feeling I should block her off for 2months .maybe she can think ..because I don't think I can afford the weddinf next year coz I habe other things ..I want to start a business for mysekf ..buy car and use for Uber