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Romance / That Lecturer Under Skirt by corkshell9090: 8:46am On Aug 03, 2018
That Lecturer under the skirt!

Moral decadence is on the increase especially in our higher institutions but one question we need to argue about is who is to be blamed:the students or the lecturer?

As a young lady,how do you dress for lectures?
As a lecturer,what's your driving force towards your students:to impact knowledge or to molest the naïve once?

Dear ladies,do you know Australian Senator Larissa Waters was spotted breastfeeding her baby but had to cover her cleavage.A woman who is already
married still has sense of dignity,tell me why her male colleagues won't listen to her.

As a lady,you attend lectures with dresses that will expose your body most especially your cleavage(showing your breasts part) and you want your lecturer who is not disciplined to take his eyes off you?

The way you are dressed to lectures matters a lot,men are moved by What they see,don't be a distraction;allow that man do his job well.Otherwise,you could be seducing your lecturer unknowingly and when he decides to have you or fail you when you refuse,you will begin to cry foul.

Hello,Mr. lecturer,not everything you see under skirts are 'flesh',some are snakes under cover.You don't take advantage of Your students because of their indecent dressing.Develop a healthy mindset and inculcate discipline to them.

Your daughters are growing up and they will dance to the music tune you set in,you can't afford to hold her results because she decides not to mess with you.If you feel Hot when you are in the school environment,call your wife,go home and get a handful of 'gumbody'.Fear God Mr. Lecturer!

Ladies,cover those stuff,hide it from us,that is how you earn a real Man's respect.Men respect ladies who are modestly dressed.God bless all the Ladies in the world.

-------williams Opara

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Education / Applying For An MSC Course by corkshell9090: 1:12am On Dec 30, 2017
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Romance / Love Me When Am Alive-www.newslove.com.ng by corkshell9090: 10:06am On Oct 25, 2017
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My house was about to be locked, just because I was not able to raise rent. I posted it on Facebook seeking for help, but all I got was 2likes and 0comments.
So I sent 120 messages to friends on my contact list, requesting for a loan of N400,000. Sadly, only 10people replied. 6 out of the 10 claimed they couldn't help. Only 1 out of the 4 who said they could help actually gave me some money but the rest only gave me excuses and never picked my calls. Eventually, my house was locked. I had no where to sleep. I walked in the dark, seeking options and suddenly, a heavy storm carried me away and I died.

*Fast forward*

The next day, news quickly spread around that I had died. 2220 people posted on my wall how they knew me. How great I was. A committee is formed by my "loyal" friends who quickly raised N1,200,000 via donations, to feed guests at my funeral. My colleagues at work teamed-up and brought another N300,000 for coffin, tents and chairs. I am buried in a coffin worth N100,000.

My relatives who rarely met, met, for my send-off and contributed an extra N150,000.

Everyone wants to volunteer in order to appear they are helping out. The Youth also, printed T-shirts with my image, each T-Shirt costing N1,500. About 600 youths paid, so the T-shirt man makes N150,000 profit from my death. Everyone wants to speak at my funeral.

There was drama all over from people who never knew how I survived. There was rumour that I was murdered by my friends. Also people falsely accused my successful relatives of sacrificing me. Wonderful speeches were made on how talented I was even those who never attended my events. The few friends who supported me in life didn't get the chance to speak during my funeral although they knew the Truth. Infact, they were the prime suspects in my death.

*Moral;*

Don't show people love when they are gone. Show love to people while they are alive, so that they can appreciate you...

Call people when they can pick your call not when they are gone and you pretend by shedding crocodile tears when infact they can not hear you...

#DeepTruth That Hurts.

-Choose to be different:
Show love to the living.
Love your neighbour and be your brother's keeper.
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Romance / A Must Read Landers! by corkshell9090: 4:07pm On Oct 13, 2017
GIVE BACK LOVE TO OTHERS(PHOTO)-www.Newslove.com.ng

LEND A HELPING HAND WHEN YOU GET THERE FIRST!

Many people have turned themselves into demi gods as soon as they get to the place of power or affluence,forgetting the once who stood by them when the going was tough and rough.
Are you a successful pastor,politician, business man,footballer, Doctor,bank Executive, Actor,musician, farmer, entrepreneur etc,? i’m very sure there was a time or there were times you could not not pay up your bills or have a comfortable three square mill,you had a friend or friends/association/group/cartel/foundation/NGO who stood up to light the match stick for you to see the light way and pass.
Am sure,someone or some persons sacrificed all to keep you where you are today,you promised them heaven on earth as soon as you get the needed result.You were there always with them at their sight while they hustle to give your life a meaning.
This person/these people discovered your talents,skills,gifts,calling,passion aspirations, dreams,and decided to lay the foundation for you which is germane to the development of that your career.
You are now there,you have arrived,your candlelight is beaming,your light is shinning, the grace came through them,they need you more,they are happy they put you up there through a collective cooperate efforts, you have become a wonder,they now even imagine if they actually worked it out to that expected height of your life.
Now, they need you,someone else has been discovered, you now a huge and massive capacity to extend love,build hope,develop human capacity, you have reserves on every sides,just your lighting up another’s candle won’t dim yours.You are now giving excuses,you club hard,you ball hard,you will not give out 100,000 naira to your Friend/friends but one naughty dirty smelling girl you meet in one day will get their effort on you just for one night.
You didn’t have a girl friend, or perhaps you had one/you are married,now you have girlfriends all over the city,across the world,you are now their SPOILT-ATM-MACHINE,you spin out cash unnecessary when your hood needs you for just a little proposal budget that will change the cause of their destiny,just a little lighting of another man’s candle won’t dim your light.
AN OPEN ADVICE MY LOVELY YOUTH
Remember,while you were climbing up,you were on the ground with that person/those people,he/she/they placed the ladder of success for you to climb.

If you get to the top and forget them,they are still very much on ground waiting/at most times praying for your downfall,when you fall,they will make a mesh meat out of you.

But if you get to the pinnacle of success and carry them along and empower them through lighting their own candle sticks,they will become your shield, you have created a hovering of ARMY, you have become their products, they will keep marketing you to the world,you will never fall,and if you ever do,you will be highly supported by your empowered friends even though some may forget you but it has always been a win win situations for those who lights other people’s candle.

My great and wonderful Imo Students/Youths/Men/Women,I believe I have inspired someone out there this morning.
Have a blesses day,you all shall succeed in all you do,amen.Don’t forget to pray for our leaders,God bless you all.
    —Williams Opara
Romance / Work Out Your Relationship- Www.newslove.com.ng by corkshell9090: 6:48am On Oct 11, 2017
EVERY RELATIONSHIP THAT IS WORKING HAS BEEN WORKED UPON

I have discovered that love doesn't
guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all year round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner.

In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else. Relationships work out mostly because of our heads not our hearts.

It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline; because, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with.

In those times, love will not help you. Self control will help you. Emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going.

With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life.

You think happily married people don't see better people than the ones they married to? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do!

But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings and it is the great arsenal that destroys those unhelpful impulses.

You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.

We are too fond of loving when it's convenient and sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there; but that can only last for just the first 3 - 6 months of the relationship in many cases.

After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped and it's now your responsibility to make the relationship work, not love's responsibility.

Relationships cannot be readymade. You have to build it and it's never always about love, it requires commitment and intelligence.

On the long run in marriages, it's not just love that keeps them together forever, it's determination and commitment.

Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort to do that. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that.

That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.

Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream.

It's always tough. At some point it will be so bitter but you can make it work by putting your heads together. You can scale through the trying times by staying focused and committed.

The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong, be self disciplined and above all, have the God factor that will give you the grace needed to reign you in.

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Romance / Dating In Isolation-www.newslove.com.ng by corkshell9090: 11:25am On Oct 04, 2017


Dating the right person could be romantic and fun..
It eliminate fear and restores happiness.

But do you know that most people are dating in isolation?
How?
* Because they are separated from the mutual feelings, as a result of this some are CONFUSED while many are LONELY.
HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN YOU'RE DATING IN ISOLATION?
~ You're dating but you don't know what you people are doing...
~ You feel insecure even though you're dating..
~ You maybe the one calling, while you receive excuses in return...
~ There maybe communication and attention, but you still feel empty inside, because it does not reflect how you people started...
~ The feeling of dating is just dying..
~ You're forgotten and remembered at his / her usual time...
~ You wish to take a walk but the past keep holding you back. ( no inner peace)
~ When the triple "C" is lacking in your relationship ( Commitment, Communication and Care)
~ No feelings and expression of love..
   ( I love you, I miss you, You're the best, You're my happiness, etc)

~  You're not optimistic about your future with him/ her...
NOTE: its better to be Single than to date in Isolation, because one person MUST be hurt.
SOLUTION:
You need to talk to a counsellor..
Tell yourself the truth and act on it..

At this point, SEX and ROMANCE should be deleted..

Be futuristic in your judgement...

Have Control over your emotions..

Love with your whole heart but use your brain.

Jerry Iwu

In God We Trust..

Read more@www.Newslove.com
Romance / You Promised To Love Me-www.newslove.com.ng by corkshell9090: 9:04am On Oct 02, 2017
You Promised To Love Me....

Any healthy relationship, Courtship or marriage is as a result of promises kept by a honest partner.

However, disappointment and heartbreak have become the order of the day...

As a result of this, someone is saying...

" Is This What We Planned?

NOTE: When you fell in love as a result of promises or plans without action or evidence, you're likely to end as a dustbin.

IS THIS WHAT WE PLANNED?

Whenever this question comes up in your heart,
Is either....

~ You're at the edge of losing it...
~ You're dating but ignorantly single...
~ Or Someone is cheating.....

What Should I DO??

~ Call your partner and remind him/her your initial plans..

~ Find out the cause of distraction..

~ If he/she refused to discuss, give him a break,( We make out time for what we cherish)

~ If he/ she refused to pick your calls, or reply your messages, don't act desperate. Allow time to justify his/her actions...

~ Don't rush into another date, but you can start a good friendship.

Jerry Iwu...
In God We Trust...
Romance / Should I Continue In This Relationship? by corkshell9090: 6:00am On Oct 01, 2017
Should I Continue?

In every relationship, there is a stage to ask yourself " Should I Continue?

Because to fall in love is free but to sustain love requires "discipline and dedication".

In a relationship or courtship there is a stage..

√ To Accept what is...
√ To let go what is not meant to be..
√ To have faith in what will be ....

SHOULD I CONTINUE?

∆ If you can't have free conversation or dialogue, there is no need to continue..

∆ when family background, class or social status is used against one another, then you need to watch it...

∆ If you don't trust each other, you can't plant the seed of love, because love is like a ''seed'' planted on a soil( Trust)..

∆ If you're not compatible, especially in reasoning and understanding, then there is no need..

∆ If two lovers can't seat down and sort out there issues together, then what are you doing?

∆ In a relationship were you can't express yourself, opinions and visions are not respected, you need to have a rethink weather to continue..

∆ If your relationship have not affected your life positively, in character, spiritual consciousness, social domain and success in life..
There is no need to continue..


To love is a choice.
Your happiness is in your hands..

Jerry Iwu
In God We Trust.
Read more here: www.Newslove.com.ng

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Romance / Why You Easily Get Hurt In A Relationship-www.newslove.com.ng by corkshell9090: 6:37am On Sep 29, 2017
Why Do People Hurt You?

The desire of Most Singles is to have a healthy relationship..

But the question is " Why do people hurt you?

There are three major reasons why people misbehave in every relationship:
∆ Lust....
∆ Dishonesty
∆ Selfishness...

Let's consider some questions that comes as a result of these negative attitude.

∆ Why do you see sex denial as love denial?( LUST)

∆ Why do you keep your phone on Silence,when you're together? ( DISHONESTY)

∆ Why do you busy your call and promised to call that person back? ( DISHONESTY)

∆ When you're dating on social media, ls like Tom & Jerry, butter & bread, but as soon as you meet in person, it becomes cat and dog,Why?( LUST)

∆ Why do you remember your partner, only when you're in need of money or financial assistant,Why? ( SELFISHNESS)

∆ Why do we reduced " attention and Communication, after sex? ( LUST)

∆ Why do we say " We are not the calling type but we have feelings, romance and even have sex, Why? ( LUST)

∆ Why do we use work as an excuse against communication, even when we knew the nature of our job before falling in love?( DISHONESTY)

∆ You always check his/her phone but you don't allow him/ her to check your phone.. ( DISHONESTY)

∆ Why do you remember communication and care,when you have sexual urger?( SELFISHNESS)

∆ Why do you claim Single on social media, while you're dating outside social media? ( DISHONESTY)

These are some of the things we encounter in our relationship, as a result of LUST, DISHONESTY and SELFISHNESS..

When your relationship involves these things, you're already on a wrong foundation.

There is need for a round table dialogue.

Jerry Iwu
In God We Trust:
Romance / Ladies! How To Know When It's Over(www.newslove.com.ng by corkshell9090: 7:13pm On Sep 28, 2017
When it's over....

Dating is fun, especially when you're dating the right person on a right track.

But dating someone ' when it's over ' is like watering a dead flower...

Trying to force yourself ' when its over ' is like planting a cooked seed....

Reasons Why People Quit Their Relationship:

~ Cheating and lies...
~ Nonchalance or unconcerned partner.
~ Still having intimate conversations with Ex.
~ Taking your partner for granted.
~ Repeating bad habit despite apology..
~ Unable to accept ones weakness and fault.
~ Making a partner to feel single despite dating.
~ Relationship without intimacy.
~ Lack of compatibility, which brings unhealthy fight...

NOTE: There is no relationship without imperfection, but you can't water a dead flower in the name love.

When its over...( Signs)

~ Using his/ her past against her.
~ Relationship without communication.
~ Double dating.
~ Official conversation.
~ When a friend is referred as Ex..
~ No care..
~ No Attention
~ No Appreciation..

What Should I Do?

Stop watering a dead flower.
Stop planting a cooked seed..
What gives you sleepless night is not your own..
Find reasons to love someone...
Don't date because everyone is dating..
Peaceful separation is better than fight.

Jerry Iwu
In God We Trust.
Read more@www.Newslove.com.ng

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Romance / Ladies! How To Know When It's Over by corkshell9090: 7:07pm On Sep 28, 2017
When it's over....

Dating is fun, especially when you're dating the right person on a right track.

But dating someone ' when it's over ' is like watering a dead flower...

Trying to force yourself ' when its over ' is like planting a cooked seed....

Reasons Why People Quit Their Relationship:

~ Cheating and lies...
~ Nonchalance or unconcerned partner.
~ Still having intimate conversations with Ex.
~ Taking your partner for granted.
~ Repeating bad habit despite apology..
~ Unable to accept ones weakness and fault.
~ Making a partner to feel single despite dating.
~ Relationship without intimacy.
~ Lack of compatibility, which brings unhealthy fight...

NOTE: There is no relationship without imperfection, but you can't water a dead flower in the name love.

When its over...( Signs)

~ Using his/ her past against her.
~ Relationship without communication.
~ Double dating.
~ Official conversation.
~ When a friend is referred as Ex..
~ No care..
~ No Attention
~ No Appreciation..

What Should I Do?

Stop watering a dead flower.
Stop planting a cooked seed..
What gives you sleepless night is not your own..
Find reasons to love someone...
Don't date because everyone is dating..
Peaceful separation is better than fight.

Jerry Iwu
In God We Trust.
Romance / How To Find A Life Partner by corkshell9090: 1:18pm On Sep 27, 2017
My Life Partner...

When you walk in the spirit of a girlfriend, boys will play with you...

A young man who walks in the spirit of a Playboy,makes himself available for girls.

WHAT SHOULD I DO TO BE FOUND? ( LADIES)

√ Be a peaceful Lady ( Is a romantic gift to a man)

√ Don't act or behave like single,rather behave like you have been taken.( Real and true men value such attitude)

√ Every " perfect man " Is a gift from God.
( Marry God first)

√ Be humble, respectful and neat...

√ Don't be " anything can go lady' No! Have a choice.

√ Be a lady that a man go run to for advice.
( Real men don't joke with them)

√ Be mindful of your activities on social media.( Most men do not like public show)

√ Do not dress like a girl, try and project womanhood in your dressing..

√ Never you talk back at a man, but with respect make your opinion known..

√ Try to be more close to 'good' married ladies than singles.

√ Be Unique in your little way.( Don't be like others)

WHAT SHOULD I DO TO BE ACCEPTED? ( MEN)

∆ Just as the three wise men presented three gifts to Jesus..
The three gifts you must present to a woman are:
Communication, Care and Attention..

∆ Be a gentle man..

∆ Dress very neat..

∆ Don't call her names..

∆ Don't show yourself ( Allow her to discover for herself)

∆ Let your words be your bound..

∆ Don't shout on her..

∆ Avoid double dating..

∆ Avoid Comparison..

∆ Never you ask her friend out..

∆ Be a solution giver..

∆ You may not be a prayer warrior, but be a God fearing man...

Love is a beautiful thing but TRUE LOVE is the greatest and the Ultimate.

Jerry Nnamdi
In God We Trust..
Read more@www.Newslove.com.ng
Romance / Celebrity Marriage Crash,chris Attoh And Dami by corkshell9090: 9:23am On Sep 26, 2017
Chris Attoh confirms his marriage to Damilola Adegbite is over


Ghanaian actor, Chris Attoh, has finally confirmed the end of his 2-year marriage to Damilola Adegbite, after months of speculations and denial. Chris made this known during an interview with Bella Naija.

When asked how he and his ex-wife Damilola Adegbite balanced their marriage, son and work, he said:

“I believe throughout our marriage, It has probably been one of the most challenging things we have ever done, however, the key word is balance.


At times when we both had to work, our parents would be there to hold the fort. God bless family because they were and still are very supportive.
However, since the divorce, we are obviously now reworking things to create a new balance between work, spending time with and raising our son. Dami is a wonderful woman and an amazing mother.
Despite our differences, she and I will always be friends. So more than anything, we will find ways to continue to make sure that Brian can still have a balance Upbringing filled with love and support.
Both our families have been and are still very supportive in helping us take care of our son Brian when we can’t be there due to work.”
#LailasBlog
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Romance / Celebrity Marriage Crash,chris Attoh And Dami by corkshell9090: 9:15am On Sep 26, 2017
Chris Attoh confirms his marriage to Damilola Adegbite is over


Ghanaian actor, Chris Attoh, has finally confirmed the end of his 2-year marriage to Damilola Adegbite, after months of speculations and denial. Chris made this known during an interview with Bella Naija.

When asked how he and his ex-wife Damilola Adegbite balanced their marriage, son and work, he said:

“I believe throughout our marriage, It has probably been one of the most challenging things we have ever done, however, the key word is balance.


At times when we both had to work, our parents would be there to hold the fort. God bless family because they were and still are very supportive.
However, since the divorce, we are obviously now reworking things to create a new balance between work, spending time with and raising our son. Dami is a wonderful woman and an amazing mother.
Despite our differences, she and I will always be friends. So more than anything, we will find ways to continue to make sure that Brian can still have a balance Upbringing filled with love and support.
Both our families have been and are still very supportive in helping us take care of our son Brian when we can’t be there due to work.”
#LailasBlog
Romance / Men !is That A Sign Of Despiration? by corkshell9090: 8:14am On Sep 26, 2017
She Is Not desperate...

What people don't understand, they call it names...

What is desperation?

~ Is the state of feeling or showing that you have little hope and ready to do anything without worrying about its danger to yourself.

NOTE: To ask if you're a choice..
To ask his/her plans
To ask if you're an opinion....
Is never desperation.

Evidence To Prove:

~ When you asked for SEX and she opened her legs, she is not desperate. But when she ask" "what is your plans for us" she is desperate.

When you noticed her smartness, you misinterpret it for nagging...

Ladies Listen:

~You must stand for your right in every relationship, is not desperation..

~Say no to use and dump, is not desperation..

~Don't accept to be an option, is not desperation..

~Asking for attention, is not nagging..

~ Every relationship must not end in marriage, if is not working out, take a walk..

~ Do not love in a vacuum, is not desperation.

~ Do not accept love without commitment, is not desperation..

~ Do not accept pregnancy before marriage..

~ True love is shown through commitment, not when you open your legs..

What will be will be, Just wait for the appointed time.

Jerry Iwu..
In God We Trust..
Romance / True Lovers:does He Still Love Me? by corkshell9090: 9:32am On Sep 25, 2017
Do You Still Love Me?

Ladies and Gentlemen, I want you to understand that nobody will hurt your feelings without a sign.

Why People Finds It Difficult To See The Sign:

Three Reasons:

1. Because we allow our feelings to control our sense of reasoning..

2. We sims to consider how "far" we have been together than how "well" we have dated..

3. Being too emotional in a relationship..

NOTE: Your relationship is subject to make your happy and not sad..

When You Are About Losing your relationship:

~ Always getting into unhealthy fight...
~ You heart sinks when your partner calls..
~ Unnecessary accusations..
~ Being Single again excite you..
~ Difficult to believe you...
~ There is less communication and intimacy.
~ One week one issue..
~ Waiting who to call first ..
~ Silence without cause...
~ Begging for care and attention..

Whenever you start noticing the above characteristics in your relationship is either:

(a) Someone is fed up ...
(b) Someone is cheating..OR
(c) Someone is pretending..

Solution:
~ Seat down and talk..
~ Is no more a phone thing..
~Your relationship needs urgent attention.
~ Stop appointing fingers..
~ If is not working out, please let go..
~ Stop waiting who will call first..
~ Talk to your counsellor..

Jerry Iwu
In God We Trust....read more@www.Newslove. com.ng
Romance / Becareful Of Asdumptions by corkshell9090: 10:09pm On Sep 24, 2017
Be Mindful Of Assumption....

Do not assume that everything is alright, love is no more blind but wise..

If you're not careful you may waste your time, waiting and loving someone who took you as an option...

WHO ARE YOU DATING?

A distraction or
A True partner..

WHO IS A DISTRACTION?

Is a friend who present his/ her intention as a soulmate or lover but nurtures lust and selfishness in his mind and behavior...

NOTE: Be smart like a Snake but calm like a dove.

HOW DO I KNOW A DISTRACTION?

√ Procrastination is their motto..

√ Lying is their way of life..

√ They profess love like a welcome Song but cheat like a dog..

√ Their national anthem is " Marriage "
(I want to settle down but there character says a different thing)

√ They can borrow for Africa..

√ Any attention given to you is for selfish interest.

√ They have thousands of excuse for not communicating..

√ They live a life of a parasite and turn you to a host..

√ A refusal to send nude or sex, to them is love denial..

√ Pretence is their word of meditation..

SOLUTION: Any tree that does not bear good fruit, the Bible told us to cute it off.

Love is beautiful thing but if you don't eliminate the weed, it will affect the seed, which in return will affect your harvest.

Jerry Iwu

Read more here: www.Newslove.com.ng

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Romance / All My Ladies:what Does He Take You For? by corkshell9090: 9:04pm On Sep 24, 2017
Who Do You Take Me for??

Be with someone who is proud of you, Someone that treats you well. It makes relationship more romantic.
Love is a beautiful thing but who are you in his life?
~ A Choice?
OR

~ An Option?

HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN YOU ARE A CHOICE?
√ You always plan together…
√ When your partner listens you..
√ He/she supports your dream,vision and aspirations..
√ He/she feels uncomfortable without your voice.
√ When there is no room for comparison..
√ When he is afraid to hurt your feelings.
√ Your choice will not keep secret from you..
√ He treats you well and makes you his priority..
√ When your partner involves you in his/her daily activities and decisions…
√ when he/she is proud of you in the public..
√ He trust you and believe in your strength..
HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN YOU AN OPTION?
~ When you don’t know your position in his life, you’re an option..
~ Your Calls or SMS can be overlooked for days, weeks, even months, yet he / she behaves as if nothing happened..
~ You’re mostly remembered when there is need..
~ You cry for attention and plead for communication..
~ You force yourself to know his/ her activities..
~ He doesn’t consult you for decision or plans..
( He/she “may” inform you after decision has been made)

~ He/ she can promise to call back, but will never
call back, of course it will always look like you’re forcing yourself on him..

~ Is unfortunate that most options becomes Sexmates…
~ Sometimes your actions maybe seen as desperation or nagging….
~ When you’re an option, your relationship is full of excuses and issues..
~ Always busy to have your time…

~ You can be replace anytime, anyday..
~ You will always hear comments like this”If You can’t cope, find your way”
~ There is always a reason to show you care..
( Selfish oriented)

Beloved reader, Love with your whole heart but use your brain. Be conscious of “heart safety”

Jerry Iwu…

In God We Trust…

08136335516..

(WhatsApp)….see more at www.Newslove.com.ng

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