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eddie7:
3 goals, 3 points loading

Up bluesss

Your prediction was accurate ...blues for life.

kamikaz1:
Its better to have a single Nigerian there..all votes will be splitted on them, thereby making single SA artiste win big all the time. Its lost already

You are the only that has spoken the plain truth, if only they understood your point.

Men,

We’re now living in the age of the smartphone, loaded with countless social apps. Most of our interaction happens through these devices — and we call it texting. Listen up, Kings. I'm going to break down the DOs and DON'Ts when it comes to texting women. Pay attention.

DON'T ALWAYS TEXT FIRST:
If you’re always the one texting first, then you’re chasing her. And the one who chases is the one who’s owned. If she was into you, you wouldn’t need to chase. You’d already have her. Pursue women, don’t chase them like some desperate fool. If you’re the one always initiating, she’s not chatting with you — she’s just replying to shut you up.

Most of you are forcing interactions. Cut it out. Stop texting first and see how many worthless, dead conversations you’ve been trying to revive. Don’t be the guy who only gets a message when she needs a favor. If she never texts first to hang out or even talk, delete her number. You’re just being used.

DOUBLE TEXTING:
She saw your message. She either doesn’t care or doesn’t want to reply. Stop being a needy little punk by double texting. This is what most of you do — you send “good morning beautiful” and get no response. Then you follow up like a pathetic beggar with “Hey, I hope you’re ok. Are we cool?”

That’s weakness. And nothing kills attraction faster than weakness. You text a woman and she doesn’t reply? Delete the chat. Delete her number. She’s not into you. Accept it. Most of you clowns believe in the “soulmate” nonsense — you’re stuck in a scarcity mindset. Get rid of it. Expand your options. Talk to more women. You won't be hung up on one when you have ten more waiting.

DON'T REPLY IMMEDIATELY:
Stop being so damn available. Replying immediately makes you look like a loser who has nothing going on. Women don’t respect that. They’ll respond with more energy if your reply takes time. Why? Because it shows you have a life. It shows you're not desperate.

You’re a man. You should be busy. And even if you’re not, act like you are. Never let a woman come before your purpose. Texting a woman 24/7 makes you nothing more than a chat buddy. And that’s how you end up in the friendzone — like a fool. Stop making yourself accessible like a damn doormat.

I MISS YOU:
Don’t ever text this garbage. It’s soft. It’s needy. It’s feminine. That’s not your role. She should be the one missing you. You’re the conqueror, not some lovesick weakling. Your world is supposed to dominate, hers is supposed to submit.

She should be begging to be in your world — not the other way around. Your focus should be on goals, success, and getting paid. That’s what real men do. Not sit around typing “I miss you” like some beta clown hoping for attention.

TEXT WITH PURPOSE:
Any time you text a woman first, it better be for a reason — to set something up, to link up, to invite her over. Not this pointless small talk. That’s for weak men with no ambition who spend their lives putting women on a pedestal. Stop wasting your time. Every message should have intent or don’t bother sending it.

"IT’S OKAY":
When you set up a meet or invite her over and she cancels last minute, don’t respond with “It’s okay.” It’s not okay. She disrespected your time and wasted it. And if you accept that nonsense apology without question, you’re telling her you’re fine being treated like a damn backup plan.

If she’s truly sorry, she’ll ask how to make it up to you. Nine times out of ten, her excuse was a lie anyway. She didn’t flake because something came up — she flaked because she didn’t want to see you. You weren’t a priority. You were just an option. And by saying “it’s okay,” you’re saying you accept that.

SENDING HER PICS:
Stop sending women pictures of your six-pack, your expensive clothes, or you holding drinks in some fancy place. What the hell are you doing? Looking for her approval? You look like a clown. Seeking validation from a woman is pathetic. You’re a man — act like one. Keep your value to yourself and stop giving her free entertainment.

“I’M LOOKING FOR SOMETHING SERIOUS”:
This is the dumb answer you give when she asks what you're looking for. And it’s the wrong one. She’s not looking for truth — she’s trying to decide if she can get sex from you or box you into boyfriend mode.

Women are just as Hot as men — probably more. They’re out here having sex left, right, and center. When she asks what you’re looking for, she’s calculating whether she can play innocent or let loose. There’s no such thing as a “good girl.” She’s just the one who hasn’t been exposed yet. That angel you think is saving herself for marriage? She's probably getting railed by someone else behind your back.

If she’s not giving it to you, she’s giving it to someone else. That’s reality. Women don’t admit it because of body count shaming. But make no mistake — they’re getting it in. And if you tell her the truth and she’s not into it? Move on. Don’t waste a second crying over it. Go to the next one.

ROMANTIC TEXTS:
Stop sending romantic texts. That crap belongs in movies. All it gets you is a half-hearted “aww thanks” text and nothing more. You’re not winning her over — you’re just showing her how desperate you are. That’s not attraction. That’s worship. And no woman respects a man she can walk all over.

Put a woman on a pedestal and she’ll step all over you. Treat her like a celebrity and she’ll treat you like a fan. She doesn’t want that. A woman craves a man above her, not a man beneath her licking her boots.

CONCLUSION:
Society and Hollywood have brainwashed men into thinking that being sweet and caring over text will make a woman fall in love. It’s a damn lie. That dream only works in fairy tales. In the real world, women are drawn to strength, purpose, and dominance — not weakness, desperation, and clingy.

lightwind:
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First to drop a comment in almost a decade on nairaland.

I really like this girl very classy how come Rhema keep looking so unkept always. How can you be so damn rich and look unkept and dirty

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Same thought crossed my mind, his looks and dressing these days is nothing to go by, same can also be said about Asake

Toruibestate:
Yes Kolokuma.
I'm from the ancestral home of Kolokuma Kingdom that doubles as the ancestral home of all Ijaws.



Agadagba Igbedi.

My father that died last month September 5 was buried on the same land the first Ijaw man lived over 10,000 years ago because our family lands are part of the island .

Kolokuma Opokuma....I still savour the sweet memories of that place, likewise Odi.

Houseofglam7:
…. 🎶 You gotta know when to walk away, know when to run… 🎶

Busy signal .......I like you already

BAILMONEY:
LOL ONE ALHAJI IS ALREADY ON THE LINE




TOO MUCH SENSE NOR GO KILL ME

You get sense dieeee.....your brain kaaku

Tope Alabi, the woman with the signature voice

This is unbecoming of phyna , always in the news for Negative reasons.

Can you afford it? If not you, also don't have 2 heads

SlavaUkraini:
The common should hustle harder...

People that can afford it don't have 2 heads

Can you afford it? If not you also don't have 2 heads

What's the essence of this when the common man cannot afford it? It's still the common man that will suffer for this.

Great one from a pretty Amazon, keep up like this and you might just blossom to that point in your chosen career.

Birds of a feather

I just hope she is okay, she has lost a lot of weight.

Mrfixitt:
Disgusting piece of advice. Old age doesn't really come with wisdom

Is it your plate? You are neither the washer or the washee , may be you need to wash someone else's plate to know how it feels.

Glory,Glory, Glory, Glory, Glory, Glory, Glory, Glory

RollinTNDA:
Okafor's law of Retrogational Punatomy

"For every cheeks that has been clapped rigorously with force and steady rythmn must come back to the rightful owner"

Let me help you add this my bro "BUTT" Cheek, to enable a better understanding of that phrase

mecuries:
Extreme measures like not allowing people to do back-flips?

Like protecting our shorelines , like getting professional divers in all our beaches and so on, in advanced countries a beach can never be allowed to operate without the watchful eyes of professional divers.

Jennyclay:
You shouldn't even be standing close to a swimming pool not to talk of beach when you know you can't swim

RIP to the departed soul

Sometimes even the best of divers gets drowned ma'am , ocean tides or currents comes to mind...from the write up it stated he was standing at the shore line and for him to get that close he must be good at swimming not to talk of even attempting back flip that close. I gave a scenery in 2012 when a mathematics student got drowned at Elegushi while trying to save a drowning lady, he succeeded in rescuing the lady but couldn't rescue himself from the Currents,mind you he was very good at swimming. Nature calls

R.i.p to the young lad, this keeps reoccurring, same incident happened in 2012 at a general pool party where a fresher(100l mathematics) drowned at Elegushi while trying to save a drowning young lady, sadly he paid the ultimate price while the young lady survived , there needs to be extreme measures put in place at our beaches, we also need to be extremely cautious.

just don't seem to understand the craft of this young man called portable, he is got talent no doubt, but talent without proper management is a waste. He refused to be rebranded after all you can take a man out of the street but not the street in him.

I will like to view your opinions on this very Subject matter, here is my take, in my opinion the right thing to do in this scenario is for the lady as a courtesy for being the initiator of the Date to make an attempt at the Bill, then the man as a gentleman will step in to take care of it...by doing this, you have shown the man you are capable of taking care of your bills as well as also knowing if he is a gentleman or not while the man also knows that he has got an independent woman .....win win for both🙂...kindly share your views.

Natbrowny:
AI is presenting Taylor Swift to us as Eve

Ajeh....you too get sense, see Taylor swift in 3D

Happy birthday innocent "2face" idibia, a legend, age gracefully.

EmmySparky:
It is slavery… cause Americans don’t have to structure the way they express themselves to suit anyone…only slaves have to think and express modestly to suit their master…it’s a free world for a reason… and we are all supposed to be independent nations…not everyone is a sucker for the Yankees

Do I still need to spell it out that my write up isn't about America but a general view, I wonder why you keep mentioning America, once again please think broad.

EmmySparky:
This is not a good way to reason… Americans don’t think this way… why should you… are you a slave?

That is where you got it wrong bro, your future in context doesn't necessarily have to be Americans neither does it have to do with traveling alone, mind what you post and repost, take for example , what you just wrote up there instigating "Slavery" , just a little advise and you are already bringing Slavery mentality into it, have a broad mind man.

jehoha696:
Shebi naw My one time ex changed my name to Benita for her phone,so that her ward councilor husband no go reason anything, persn wey dey husband huz with two kids,during march after she comes out of "favour room" she juz run call me also send pikin pic to me....,This peller juz use una dey create contents ..,shey men still dey run toxic relationship with women,u wan dey chewing gum woman..no lele let him kwatinue

Wow this one deep ooo bro, guess your name is Ben, she just needed to add ita to make it BENITA....chai some ladies can be cruel ehn.

Mr May D is a typical example of the Biblical prodigal son, he went, saw, lived the life, exhausted all and came back to the streets. Well I pray he gets a surge in his career cause he is actually talented.

ClassicEvilSpir:
but for real though, why do people change their numbers randomly? I haven't had issues using my line. this is literally my first phone number, and I still use it till date, whereas some people keep changing and changing. I don't understand.

To be honest I can't seem to understand as well, I mean there are so many disadvantages of having to change numbers regularly, business wise comes to mind, but then there are also various factors that warrants a change of line(number).

Kobicove:
This is not a tattoo, someone just used a marker to write the name on his forehead

It's not a marker bro, it's a tattoo pen.