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steppin:
@Op,
You don't wanna bore us with the long epistle and you wrote that?
What's your epistle like?
No offense, you and your brother are douchebags. He kept a sidechick and you gave your full support. Now you wanna use the same girl and then dump her.
Thunder wey go punish una dey do press up.

He isn't a kid, so I have no say about him keeping side chick or not and for your info bro, I don't intend to use and dump her and I emphatically told her that I don't care about her past or where she's coming from.

firstking01:
Well...if u must go the drill with her, ensure ur brother is aware o, dats if she agrees to date u.

Yeah she will agree, But she's confused coz she said it herself that if she was my friend's ex, it wouldn't have been an issue for her

quiverfull:
@OP, I have two questions for before offering my counsel:
1. Did your brother sleep with her while they were together?
2. How do you think your brother will react to this?

Yh, He did and I am sure he will feel bad @ first....

Top of the day to you fellas, I decided to create a new moniker coz I want to be as anonymous as possible. I am a very discreet person who doesn't like bringing personal matters to social media but this seems to be beyond me.
I wouldn't want to bore you with a long epistle, so I will be as concise as possible.
I met her through my brother sometimes ago, I really liked her @ the 1st sight and she happened to be the 1st lady he will introduce to me that I will like so much without knowing much about her. Lest I forget, She was his side chick, He had a main GF but after a short while, They started having issues in which she had to call me to report him and I stepped in (Though I don't like meddling into people's relationship). I deliberately interferred coz this is a lady I like so much and I don't want her far from me @ all, So I called my brother and asked him to make peace with her and he did. (The cause of their issue was my brother's main chick) I advised him on how to make sure that neither of the parties affected eachother and he tried his possible best according to him but it wasn't really working.
She called me a couple of weeks again to report my bro on this same issue and I still had to call my brother but he said he was tired of her blah blah that he couldn't forfiet his main chick for her, instead he was ready to let go of her. So that was how their relationship ended, meanwhile I lost my own relationship during this period too.
I forgot to mention that due to the love I had for this lady, I asked if she could link me up with any of her friends who has almost every thing like her (Character,Morals etc so I could just use that person to replace her in my heart) and she said she would link me up, she later linked me up with someone but it didn't work out.
Despite her break up with my brother, we still talk a lot coz I so much treasure her and due to my single status I just realised that am falling deeply in love with her that I can't stop thinking about her as the day goes by, This feeling has been lingering inside me for long but I was always burying it coz I keep telling myself that it's an abomination but it got to a point that I couldn't hide it any longer..... I had to profess my love to her, She was shocked coz I think she never saw it coming coz she likes me so much too but am sure she can never come out to tell me....
Now the problem is that I haven't been able to tell any living creature, I need advice from my fellow romancelanders, U can scold, Lambaste and constructively criticise me if you want but I want you to know that this is actually true and happening right now.
NB: She doesn't love my brother any longer though she really loved him then and it was obvious.
Cc: Lalasticlala