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Since it has already happened why seek advice? If there's one thing i've noticed here on nairaland is that, most people seeking advice have already made a decision before posting. They just want to see how many people support their decision and trust me op, i do support u.....Go for her.

didicold: D statement about other girls makes him sound like a selfish and manipulative person. As for me, emphatic no. A man who wants a serious relationship will continue even wit d distance, most likely he will be looking for ways to help u get a transfer not ask u to quit d job. Asking her to try to relocate is normal, men av had women make sacrifices since time immemorial, dey dont see it as a big deal as we do, but d way he is going about is just wrong.

Distant relationship! Have u been into one before?

dopeJemi: did exactLy dat.. She said a braceLet or a neckLace

So she don tell u, u come dey make me waste mb for ur head?

quivah: that would be a very silly thing to do na
Who guarantees a relationship? what assurance does she has she's gone get engaged to the dude after all? What if she loses the relationship at the long run?.... #two losts, will she start blaming the guy,cussing guys in general for her stupidity...?
Come again, bf??

Btw, tell her to ask her bf this;
What if you move over here to PH and plan our future together?...
Lets hear his reply..

Lotta peeps had survived long distance relationships.. let them keep pushing through jor and if the distance keep posing as a threat, tell her , move on!!!
But seriously, she could apply for a transfer if possible tho..
I just wonder if her guy can do the same for her which i very much doubt

#all in one;
A cheat wil be remain a cheat,distance or no distance.
Lonely or not.. so i swear down i cant buy that "i dont wanna be distracted by girls" sh.it lool

Bf!!

Sister, u almost had everything right except for "a cheat is a cheat no matter the distant ". Distant is a strong barrier in a relationship and not everyone has this ability to walk away from temptation.
Op, ask your friend what is her guarante.

U no get money, u wan impress gal? No go indebt yoursef o. If i were u, i will simply interrogate her via chat to tell me what she likes, no be buy teddy bear she go use am as weapon. Use style ask her o!

Ma brother, u're far from lucky. U're just a jackpot waiting to be hit.

stanuplane: same here. That indian movie forced tears outta my eyes. But the first was 'one tree hill' (the point were quentin or something died); titanic (the point where they where playing enya's version of 'my heart will go on' and dion's). Then fireproff; along with prison break( at the point when they were playing 'lay it down slow'). And then the almighty vampire diaries,(the tv show comes with a lot of theme songs that can drive you to tears each time you listen to em. How to save a life, give me strenght, ungodly hour, bloodstream, drop in the ocean, eternal flame, cosmic love etc.VD is just too wonderfull. If you look well at my case, u'll discover that its the combination of the scene and it's song that brings me to tears. Am in love with music. When it comes to films and movies, the whites surely knows there business.

Em excuse me, do you cry anytime u see a movie with white cast? If no, u have absolutely no reason to cry for the movies and series u mentioned above. I've seen them all except for the indian, and there's nothing so emotional about them that can make me break down. It is either u're so emotional or u just cry for any white movie u see.

My list goes like this:
Joker (isn't it obvious)
Chadnovsky (the green hornet)
Bane
Loki (avengers alone)
Khan (star trek into darkness)
gerrard butler(law abiding citizen)
Aizen sosuke (thats if you watch bleach)

arcbabe: Thanks all for your comments and contributions,I appreciate it so much b'cos I have read through them and find out some important steps to take in finding true happiness in a relationship

Abeg share am with me.

Ma childhood crush is married. The last time i saw her, all i did was wish.

1. she was a virgin.
2. she wanted full access to ma life without restriction. some how a control freak.

I don't Ghanians either. If so, its a mutual feeling.

Do for her something good u wish to do for yourself.
So u no go like build house for ocean for her? or use generator do special pendant for her?

P square, if u do me i do u

why is it when a woman comes into a man's life, she would want to control everything? I know change is constant especially when you have a lady in your life, but can't some certain things the man loves just stay the way they were when she came? I'm talking from experience and i want answers cause it has ended two relationships.

As many as u can handle physically, mentally, emotionally, financially and sexually. And if u're scared of STDs like hiv and co. don't worry, cause there are things that are lethal to man.

BYE






BYE

Op trust me, virgins do exist. I know the word "trust" is forever lost to you as long as a woman is mentioned, but you have to forgive and forget so you can move on with your life. As for the relationship, just count your losses and end it. As for your shoe, E too big and holes full am.

WTF! Can u act bf?

This one na walk over

Agybabe: it's wrong mbok. Even Bible and God says it's not good for man to be alone...they are helpmates. Shey God doesn't know what he's saying ni? Mbok forgerraboutit...
You ain't permitted to be single forever. Even God is Trinity (triple)!

Abeg where dem talk am for bible? abi pope no single? him no read bible pass u? although i don't know the bible that much but i recall where it was said, if you can stay single better but if you want to marry good(not exactly how they said it in the bible).

Op, i'm in a relationship with maself and it's the best fuckn relationship ever.