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RomanceRe: Do Women Really Fall In Love? by Cum4me(m): 5:10am On May 11
Another wasted time. Useless post see watin u use your hand copy and paste here. Chia Tinubu really finished this country embarassed
RomanceRe: Guys Hop In Here... by Cum4me(m): 3:35pm On May 10
Yemite132:
My name his Ola from Lagos Epe,,I’m single with no kids and love having sex every day and go for many rounds and cause of this girls always leave me so anyone interested can contact me on

09030623315
Lagbaja nothing for you
RomanceRe: The Big Question Facing New Graduates: Should You Scam Or Find A Job? by Cum4me(m): 3:18pm On May 10
emperor4love:
to start bro must be an American cl working or paying em tax,just dm ,na work way de blow person bro,no be small money de dey involve
send me your email address make I write u
TravelRe: Ugboba-Ukwunzu Aniocha North LG Road Cut Down By Gully Erosion (Pictures) by Cum4me(m): 8:13am On May 10
If they tells you how much was used to build this road you will be shock. They keep looting hell from the nation wicked politicians
CrimeRe: How I Was Scammed Yesterday. by Cum4me(m): 5:49am On May 10
Duplex90:
this is not true it's network issues how can someone U know his house and your costumer try to scam u. I do this as well, ask a seller if he has extra cash for me if I transfer excess but I noticed that opay is having issues lately infact I have stopped transferring to opay for months now.
if a POS uses opay I don't patronize them coz u send the first it won't go or says unsuccessful then U do it again then they debit u twice.
this same thing did a guy I sent to his opay, if not he's my guy for years that's how he would say that i ve scammed him. when he saw me again he told me he didn't get the money and I checked and truely it didn't go and moniepoint didn't reverse me yet.
no use ur hand spoil ur business
who be this one again. Person dey tell you watin happen and how the man feel ashamed of himself you still dey write episode of watin u no know. Until E go reach you side you go understand
CrimeRe: Nigerian Yahoo Boys Are Learners: See Chinese Gurus In Action by Cum4me(m): 5:40am On May 10
Hedonisco:
I tell you. Imagine backing the name date of birth, social security number and other identifying info of HALF of American citizens. The value of this info in terms of the money that can be made from it is probably hundreds of billions of dollars.

Hushpuppi and Co are apparently kindergartens.
calling hushpuppi kindergarten shows you don't know anything about scammers.
FamilyRe: How To Power Our Homes And Businesses Now That Fuel Price Is Outrageous ! by Cum4me(m): 5:28am On May 10
Na advert you come do here.
RomanceRe: Guy Looking For Who To Marry: Girls Dey Post Am by Cum4me(m): 8:03pm On May 09
Woman and yahoo boy no difference.
Yahoo boy no dey take poor client serious
Woman no dey take poor man serious
If only men can wise up when dey start making money.
FamilyRe: When A Man Allows His Financial Affairs To Be Controlled By His Wife... by Cum4me(m): 6:49pm On May 09
I can never try such. No woman including my mother can know or have access to my finances
FamilyRe: How Families Can Avoid Fighting Over Inherited Property by Cum4me(m): 9:18am On May 09
I keep telling men stop killing yourself to build houses everywhere. If you can build just one house for yourself to avoid being a tenant. Because those kid's you're killing yourself for will kill themselves over all those properties. Some won't want to work hard for there life they will be waiting for you to die so they can start fighting over inheritance. As a man if you can give your child education or skills is okay. Enjoyment your money give yourself good care always put yourself first.
FamilyRe: My Brother Did This After He Caught His Wife Cheating by Cum4me(m): 9:08am On May 09
This story is fake.
RomanceRe: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by Cum4me(m): 8:42am On May 09
essentialone:
Most ladies who live alone fall into 2 categories.

Either they turn their apartment into a hosting place for different random man who just want to have sex with them for a fee.

Or they go out every night to hustle for men at clubs and hotels and return at 5AM every day.
your ancient mentality Na wa. Just see how you dey reason so if your sister go work for another state make she finds your family home there stay
RomanceRe: Why You Should Be-careful When Inviting A Woman by Cum4me(m): 8:38am On May 09
Really men are the price. Her mother know her daughter go collect DK but because they want husband someone who will pay bills. If she was 21 her Mom won't allow such. But aged has entered. Time no dey again grin grin
AutosRe: SOLD❌❌❌Nigerian Used 2014 Toyota Camry LE @ 8.750M by Cum4me(m): 12:00am On May 09
6.5m bro can I message you
PoliticsRe: Court Convicts Ex-Power Minister Saleh Mamman Over ₦33.8 Billion Fraud by Cum4me(m): 7:53pm On May 08
Omo see looting. Who will deliver Nigeria from this huge corruption
TravelRe: Bitter Travel Experience by Cum4me(m): 5:59pm On May 08
HacheNoire:
Whoever read the novel should please summarize in 4 sentences.

I got tired along the line. 🥱
I tire see episode wahala grin
FamilyRe: How Do I Get Rid Of A Visitor Who Refuses To Leave? by Cum4me(m): 9:52am On May 08
Life is not easy anywhere. You might regret everything you did to him later. Try see how you can assist him to get a one room apartment if you truly you call him your friend. Maybe what his pursuing is not working out. Try asked him how much he can raise see how to assist him. If you can't then do what pleases you. But I pray may God favour him. embarassed
BusinessRe: Dangote Plans 20,000MW Power Investment To Tackle Nigeria’s Electricity Gap by Cum4me(m): 5:39pm On May 07
This our politicians are evildoers. Tinubu has the capacity to give Nigerians steady electricity. But they keep looting the nation with silly excuses. Dangote please try your best we need steady electricity
RomanceRe: Masturbation Causes Premature Ejaculation And Erectile Dysfunction by Cum4me(m): 3:47pm On May 07
190:
wahala!


But why cant these ladies give una the P so yall can stop masbathing!
p***sy is now for sell everywhere. It's become responsibility after the age of 35 every girl believe you have to drop money because you're a man. It comes with a lot of account debited if you choose to keep choping her. Money is more important if you want to enjoy Toto bro
RomanceRe: Your Sugar Daddy May Have Tied Down Your Marriage Spiritually by Cum4me(m): 9:54am On May 07
Na Nigeria girls you wan tell all this. Nigeria girls are exactly like yahoo boys if you like be old as Methuselah as far money dey your skin they won't leave you even if they later get married the will still FK you grin
RomanceRe: They Have Used Sir Sir To Block My Advances by Cum4me(m): 9:47am On May 07
Kalulu44:
Lolz! I'll be 46 by September 10.
Honestly eh nature cheats me badly. You can see at my age I still don't have matured beards.
Omo you be old man oo. See you see 50 grin
RomanceRe: Can You Allow Your Wife/Gf To Do Tattoo In Sensitive Part of Her Body?(pictures) by Cum4me(m): 9:43am On May 07
When tattoo is too much on your body it becomes irritating
RomanceRe: Top 10 Hookup Apps In Nigeria 2026 (my Honest Experience) by Cum4me(m): 9:41am On May 07
Michat has been saving lives for ages grin
BusinessRe: 8 Daily Habits That Quietly Waste Your Money In Nigeria by Cum4me(m): 9:16am On May 07
k2money:
The realest of them is a broke axx girlfriend, betting and alcohol. My brother village People no need to reason your matter again.
broke girlfriend is the worst then if you so much in love with her. You're not different from addicted gamblers..you go dey loss everyday grin
PoliticsRe: Kenneth Okonkwo Speaking Against Atiku And Obi (Then Vs Now) by Cum4me(m): 9:07am On May 07
He will regrets fighting against obi 2027. He was never consistence
CelebritiesRe: Iyabo Ojo Vs Lizzy Anjorin: What Really Started The Beef? (full Breakdown) by Cum4me(m): 9:03am On May 07
Another wasted time. Useless post. Next please
RomanceRe: Where Can a man Find A Good Girl In Nigeria to settle down with? by Cum4me(m): 9:15pm On May 06
essentialone:
I get the frustration — you’re serious and tired of the stereotype that every Nigerian woman is only after money or hookups. But the short answer is: *real, decent women are everywhere in Nigeria. The challenge is where and how you’re looking, and what you’re showing up as yourself.*

Let’s cut through the cynicism first. Generalizing that “church girls sleep with the choir master” or “bank girls sleep their way to the top” isn’t accurate. You’ll find good and bad people in every space — church, bank, university, POS stand, online. The environment doesn’t create character, it just reveals it over time.

*Where You’re More Likely To Find Women Interested In Something Serious*

1. *Through intentional communities*
Not just church as a venue, but actual community groups — professional associations, volunteer groups, skills training centers, alumni networks, even mosque/church mentorship programs. People there are usually there for a purpose beyond dating, so you see character over months, not just first impressions.

2. *Professional and academic spaces*
Yes, universities have hookup culture, but they also have serious students and young professionals focused on career, postgraduate studies, or entrepreneurship. Same with banks, hospitals, schools, tech hubs. You meet them through work projects, conferences, or networking events, not through social venues.

3. *Family and trusted referrals*
It sounds old-fashioned, but it still works. A sister, aunt, respected colleague, or elder introducing you to someone from their circle means there’s already some vetting. That’s how a lot of long-term relationships still start in Nigeria.

4. *Values-based social spaces*
Book clubs, entrepreneurship meetups, NGO volunteer work, sports clubs, agricultural co-ops. People who show up consistently for non-romantic reasons tend to have clearer priorities than those you meet on clubs or dating apps.

*How To Spot The Difference Between Serious and Gold Digger*

- *Consistency over time*: A serious person’s behavior doesn’t change when money isn’t involved. If every conversation circles back to what you can buy or give, that’s your red flag.
- *Her goals beyond you*: Does she have her own plans, career, business, or skill she’s working on? A woman building something of her own is less likely to see you as just a wallet.
- *Family and friends circle*: The people she keeps around say a lot. You’ll learn more in 30 minutes with her friends than 3 months of one-on-one dates.
- *Pace*: Someone serious won’t rush you into financial commitments or marriage talk within 2 weeks. They’ll want to actually know you.

*The Part Men Often Miss*
You also have to be clear on what _you’re_ offering beyond money. Decent women aren’t looking for a perfect man, but they are looking for stability, respect, emotional maturity, and shared values. If you walk in with a “everyone is fake” attitude, you’ll only attract or notice people who match that energy.

*On Online Dating*
Online isn’t all hookups, but you have to filter hard. Apps like Tinder/Instagram DMs are mostly casual. Try platforms like LinkedIn for professionals, or even WhatsApp community groups tied to specific interests. And always meet offline in public places early on.

*Bottom line*: Stop looking for a “perfect location” and start looking for character over time. The best relationships in Nigeria still happen when two people build trust slowly through shared purpose — whether that’s work, faith, business, or community service.

And one more thing: if you go in assuming every woman is a gold digger, you’ll either push good ones away or attract the ones who prove you right.

What kind of values or lifestyle are you looking for in a partner? That’ll narrow down where you should actually be spending your time.
oga you carry this topic for head. See episode you wrote because of woman.
RomanceRe: Before The Money - What Every Man Must Build First by Cum4me(m): 8:55pm On May 06
There's no confidence anywhere without money as a man. Money gives you real confidence. Watin you wan build without money. Hunger and anxiety go finished that confidence grin
RomanceRe: Why Men Avoid MMarriage These Days by Cum4me(m): 8:50pm On May 06
Immediately you clock 35 upward to marry go tire you. Because you done see say woman Na for the money. Liabilities everywhere looking for mumu to Pench and suck dry grin

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