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RomanceRe: I Need Your Advice, Guys by Cum4me(m): 7:23am On Jul 11
See this one wan play the guy yahoo with religion and tradition. You think you're wise kodos to that guy never to fall for your manipulation. No pregnancy no married
RomanceRe: Can a man forget a woman he once knaecked? by Cum4me(m): 10:11pm On Jul 10
I can't remember all the girls I've knack. Even if I see some. There was a time we used to think that knacking different women is enjoyment and open eye until early 40s teaches us a lesson. A complete waste of time grin
RomanceRe: Bro To Bro; Stop Giving Women Your Money! by Cum4me(m): 10:07pm On Jul 10
For this Nigeria you never ready to enjoy woman. If your hand Na Akagum because hunger dey the land Na money Nigeria girls dey see no be you. That's why hookup full everywhere bro are you in this Nigeria grin
FamilyRe: “babies Cry With An Accent” by Cum4me(m): 11:42am On Jul 10
Oga Na lie all babies cry round the world are almost the same. That's to let you know we are all one. Religion, tribalism, language where created by humans to separate us all.
FamilyRe: If You Can't Provide For Your Wife .she Will Leave You by Cum4me(m): 11:36am On Jul 10
omophunky:
You people keep twisting narrative, what about those men that provides all but the women still leave?
woman wahala. Some are extremely insatiable it's a crazy worldgrin grin
RomanceRe: "The Moment You Woo Some People, You Become Responsible For Their Entire Life" by Cum4me(m): 6:58pm On Jul 07
No matter how you wan preach pass. You must spend to enjoy Nigeria girls. Because the system makes the rules. Your leaders are criminals nothing works here it's the capital city of poverty in the world. It's a survival to the fittest. You're a pay client to an average Nigerian girl immediately you show interest of choping her honey well. So chop and pass to the next man unless you want to privatise the t*T*
FamilyRe: Relationship Dilemma by Cum4me(m): 12:20pm On Jul 04
Gentlesoul2021:
Good day N'Lander

I need genuine opinions on a relationship dilemma.

My younger sister is 31 years old. She's highly educated with a master's degree, works with an NGO as a Programme Coordinator and Mental Health Counselor, and is also a skilled fashion designer with equipment worth over ₦2 million. She's hardworking, focused, and has consistently supported our family. Her job has taken her across different states, exposing her to diverse experiences and opportunities. Above all, she's deeply committed to her Christian faith.

She recently met a fellow church brother who has expressed serious interest in marrying her. However, he left school after Primary Six and works as a traditional window louvre fabricator. While there's absolutely nothing wrong with learning a trade, he has had opportunities to upgrade his skills to modern aluminium fabrication but hasn't pursued them. Instead, he seems more interested in becoming a pastor or working in a church, though he currently has no clear or realistic path to achieving that.

Another concern is the family dynamic. My mother and the young man's mother serve in the same church unit. On several occasions, whenever he goes out for a job, his mother would call him back or redirect him for other errands, and she would even mention these things to my mother. This has given us the impression that she relies heavily on him, raising concerns about the level of responsibility he already carries within his family and how that might affect his future marriage.

My mother strongly opposes the relationship, believing the gap in education, career progression, ambition, life direction, and even family expectations is too significant. I understand her concerns and tend to agree, but it also raises an important question.

Can love alone sustain a marriage when there's such a wide difference in education, ambition, exposure, career growth, and family responsibilities? Or should long-term compatibility, shared vision, emotional maturity, and the ability to build a stable future together carry more weight than love?

I'd genuinely appreciate respectful and honest opinions from both married and unmarried people. Please keep the discussion civil and objective—this isn't about looking down on anyone because of their educational background or occupation, but about understanding what truly makes a marriage work in the long run.
tell your sister to run from this religion non hard working man. He will finish your sister if they married. Tell your sister to run as far as she can because she will regrets it
AutosRe: Foreign Used 2011 Mercedes-benz E350, New Entry Full Option 9.7M by Cum4me(m): 9:18pm On Jul 03
Can it goes for 7.5m bro
FamilyRe: The Danger Of Using Sex As A Weapon In Marriage.. by Cum4me(m): 7:33pm On Jul 03
As for me I don't think a woman I married will use sex against me. Because sex is too cheap outside I'm not even sure of getting married to one woman. I'm gonna marry 3 women if my skin full. Food and sex is extremely cheap for me honestly. I can cook very well I love eating my own prepared meal. Sex is as cheap as ice fish outside just guide as a man woman no really get levels for this present generation them no too dey important if you dey get am clear.
AutosRe: The 2021 Honda CR-V Touring Is For People Who Love Comfort, Appreciate Class, An by Cum4me(m): 5:39pm On Jun 29
43m for this car grin. Maybe you never see watin China dey do currently you go hide this Agege bread. 25m with electric vehicles with modern technology you will love it.
FamilyRe: Why Emotional Intelligence May Be The Most Valuable Strength Today by Cum4me(m): 5:34pm On Jun 29
The ability to remain calm under pressure, communicate respectfully during disagreements, and recover from setbacks can influence careers, relationships, and personal growth. This is when the real you come into existence if you're able to overcome deep challenges. Most times you realised that there is an invisible power behind you when you win some battle silently. you become different and quite. You understand every human has 2 face
FamilyRe: See why am leaving my parents house at 31(pics) by Cum4me(m): 5:39pm On Jun 28
You dey post car with your dry face wen you no get Ur own apartment. You never ready. As a man the day you deside to enjoy woman try dey stay alone not under your friends or family house unless inside that family house you have your own full private flat. Or else the disgrace wen you go see Ur mouth no go fit explain am grin
AutosRe: SOLD......Clean Used 2014 Lexus RX350 by Cum4me(m): 5:27pm On Jun 28
Can it goes for 10m bro
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Army To Recruit 28,000 More Soldiers, Opens New Training Depot by Cum4me(m): 3:55pm On Jun 26
tuoyoojo:
I pray for anyone who takes this up, may God protect you and save you from Nigeria
don't you need the protection of God. Oga stop hiding and come out grin
RomanceRe: You'll Find Love Without Money. But Only When You're A Boy by Cum4me(m): 9:30pm On Jun 25
This one get job Na why him dey make noise here. Make your hand cool you go see the monster in that girl.
CrimeRe: Police Arrest Abia Man For Beating A Woman Over Pot Of Soup by Cum4me(m): 10:43am On Jun 22
After watching the video I automatically hate this guy with my life. How wish I can kpie this guy he is a big disgrace to humanity angry
RomanceRe: Who benefits more from Long Distance Relationship? Guys or Girls? by Cum4me(m): 10:31am On Jun 22
C it's more better and mature to avoid unnecessary drama
FamilyRe: The Wedding Is One Day. Marriage Is Forever. Treat The Selection Accordingly. by Cum4me(m): 10:28am On Jun 22
Most ladies are just after wanting to get married to a rich guy thinking it's all about breast and yanch. Some are just desperate because time is not on there side. Average Nigerian girls deeply don't like getting married early. They enjoy giving there T*t* to numerous men and wanting to enjoy useless fantacy until 30s then the overnight matured good lady comes up. doing all she can to manipulate a man into marriage. grin
CareerRe: The Reason Mortuary Attendants Knock The Door Before Entering The Mortuary by Cum4me(m): 11:30pm On Jun 20
HopeNeverDies:
I don't have strong network to watch the video... Can someone tell me the reason please ...

Damnnn!!!!
you don't have data stop lying oga grin
CelebritiesRe: How Mavo And Oraimo Are Defining A New Generation Of Culture And Sound by Cum4me(m): 12:40pm On Jun 18
Hunger for this Tinubu regime don nearly finished this one carrier before. If no be this endorsement E for see shege grin
PoliticsRe: Governor Okpebholo Sings Praises For President Tinubu (Video) by Cum4me(m): 3:46pm On Jun 14
oz4real83:
If you had no hope or means of ever becoming somebody important in life but somebody from somewhere made it possible, that person will automatically become a god in your life whether others like it or not. The Edo governor's situation is highly understood😏
exactly my view because Tinubu rigged election for the D7 illiterate. They don't care what the masses are facing. Nigerians need to stand against these criminals parading themselves as politicians
RomanceRe: At Last I Find Joy In My Less Beautiful Wife by Cum4me(m): 12:55pm On Jun 14
No woman is ugly oga. When she start taking very good care of herself with your money you will be surprised by her transformation. Besides you she has yanch and you call her ugly you have been insecure for far too long. I've never meant a lady who's in money and looks ugly. Only poverty brings unglynes
AutosRe: Barely Driven Registered 2020 Toyota Hilux by Cum4me(m): 9:18am On Jun 14
shox:
The 2025 brand new model is 60 meter.
I’m sure you added your japa fees.
all this middle men/car dealers are just like APC government they're ready to loot the hell out of you grin grin
CrimeRe: Boko Haram Sets Schools On Fire In Kautikari, Borno by Cum4me(m): 9:04am On Jun 14
Tinubu know all the cables behind this nonsense. He has all it takes to crush this terrorist but because he doesn't want to step on toes. He keeps killing Nigeria's all in the name of winning next election. Tinubu is extremely weak as a president an incompetent vegetable president. He should be leave Aso rock by all means. The most incompetent president I've seen. Noise maker
PoliticsRe: We’re Not Safe If A General Can Die This Way - Reactions Trail Gen. Rabe's Death by Cum4me(m): 7:19am On Jun 14
Nigeria politicians are cashing out from this insecurity problem. My biggest surprise is that incompetent vegetable president that knows all the cables behind this nightmare we are facing he has all it takes to crashed them all but he refused. Because he doesn't want to step on toes that will make him lose next election. It's a complete disgrace to have APC in Nigeria. Tinubu is a complete incompetent fellow he has no ball a complete noise maker.
RomanceRe: See The Big Mistake I Did That Made Me Loose This Girl by Cum4me(m): 10:19pm On Jun 13
That guy fit done dey knack that girl watin no good. You play a very wrong role to carry her to a bar. Understand most of these girls are hungry with fish 🐠 brain 🧠. Is your house too far that you can't take her home to wait until you return. Abi Na your parents house you dey live. She go later see you as simp grin
AutosRe: Foreign Used Lexus RX350 2016 Model by Cum4me(m): 12:26pm On Jun 13
fyneboi79:
Too expensive..wetin dey happen? 2016 model?
extremely expensive
FamilyRe: Who Is The Best Person To Be With A Woman In Delivery Room? by Cum4me(m): 12:22pm On Jun 13
The doctor is okay. Every other person should wait outside the delivery room. No be she first carry belle. grin
EducationRe: Pupils Debate On Rice Vs Garri As Most Reliable In Quenching Hunger by Cum4me(m): 12:11pm On Jun 13
Garri is the ultimate guide in the kitchen. You gas finished carry go save you. Your pocket dry to buy ingredients garri go save you. Garri is the winner 🏆
PoliticsRe: I Will Negotiate With Agitators If I Become President - Obi by Cum4me(m): 12:00pm On Jun 13
Obi power no reach the insecurity level. We need cold hearted president that don't negotiate with anyone. Obi should understand that past president has been negotiating with this blood sucking demos.

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