Actuarydeji:
Go and check your PH level. It's a disease. Welcome to Isogroup, I no that auntysimbi belongs to the group. lol

thanks

uboma:
try taking fruits inbetween meals.

Oranges, Watermelons and Bananas will aid the digestion process.


daily intake of water will also help.

OK. Thanks

[quote author=Caustics post=57595452] Do you think this is a laughing matter? [/quote ]do you have any advice to give me?

Hello people, while most people defecate daily, I'm not the type that does. I guess that's how my system is wired. I do like once in 2 to 3 days. Sometimes I even force myself to defecate. Now my problem is that I fart anyhow and it smells. Lol. Sometimes I can't control it and I don't want people to be thinking I'm the one smelling not knowing its my fart. Please doctors in the house, is there anything I can do to help the situation? Please I'll like to know as it's becoming embarrassing. Thanks in advance

pcguru1:


Ok then has he ever contributed to you financially in some ways

also what's his salary scale ?

How many people is he responsible to ?

Let's face it when it comes to priorities his Families and personal people would come first however there would be some form of assistance from his side, if genuinely he can't assist because of financial constraint then that's understandable because my dear things are tough out there. Generator that cost 30k is now 70k, both men and women are cutting their spending habits, however i do know that there some really stingy people. so the ball is in your court, frankly i don't think you should be complaining because as long as you have an option you shouldn't complain, you can either deal with this or dump him, it's not really a big deal, alot of people have what we call deal-breakers. For we all he might be really really stingy and that would not play out nice even after marriage.

It would be nice to be independent to a large extent, so that tomorrow no man will come and feel you owe them something just because he paid your rent. You should have that pride to take care of your own self.

Peace

Thanks dear. The most sensible response so far

Some of your comments got me seriously laughing. I appreciate the scolding. Sometimes it's good to let out our minds to be able to see clearly. Only the person facing a problem knows where the shoes pinches. Gracias

pcguru1:


A boyfriend would help If he wants to, but ideally he's not obliged to unless you are his wife, imagine he keeps spending and you dump him later on and he dates another girl and keeps spending. How does such a man save for his marriage life when he keeps spending like this. Also are your parents dead ? You come off as a liability. Its one thing to ask your bf to assist with rent but to pay off the whole rent is just sheer stupidity to me.

nobody is telling him to pay the whole rent

kwaso2:
....And is it not girls like U that single-handedly pay rent or car for their Men. Madam, he is not ur ATM, if he doesn't give u, hustle ur money, what if u aren't dating him, would u pay ur rent?

if I'm not dating it would be much better not the one someone is dating and it's like am not. Cos there's nothing to show for it. Obviously, I can't brag about such a man

Chidonc:
does he look like mmm or your father, babe take a chill pill.

he's not my father, but is it not men like him that are single handedly paying rents for their babes? Moreover it's not everytime I ask him for money , it's once in a while

Hi peeps, I've been dating this guy for almost 4 years now, and I've noticed when I need a major financial assistance from him, he'll just enter low key and be giving flimsy excuses like he doesn't have plans for me.

The most recent one that happened is that I need to pay my rent and the money with me isn't enough he's also giving excuses that he has commitments.

Sincerely, am tired of these excuses, I can't imagine getting married to a man who can't support me while am single what will he now do when we're married. He acts like someone who dodges responsibilities by all means.

Am confused right now,is he just a stingy person or what? The last time I needed money from him, I had to quarrel with him about it before he finally gave me money Guys pls help me out

thesicilian:
That guy has been drilling your borehole for the past 4years.

drilling what? Did you read the post at all?

My fear is that we might start having issues once he has sex with me

Enochman:
don't try it dear.

just wait till you guys gets married just as u've early agreed.


don't say u were not warned.

Thanks dear. Pls what do you think is the reason behind his behaviour? Why did you say I shouldn't try it? What are the disadvantages of going into it as am actually contemplating giving in

Hi guys, I've been in a relationship for about 4 years now. We've never had sex, am a virgin and he knows. Though we smooch and do everything except sex cos we agreed at the beginning of the relationship to wait till marriage . Last time I went visiting him, to my surprise he went and bought condom, saying he got it to avoid stories that touch. Well he later tried having sex with me, which I refused. I noticed he wasn't happy after then. Do you guys think I should have given in? This is his first time behaving like this, dunno what happened