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chiefboomite204:
Thanks mama for sharing your story with me... I have been blaming myself for everything, it seems God hate me and funnily things I told him I won't serve him again... is just so unfortunate... I tried as much as possible to make sure that it reached terms.... How are you finding your healing?

Hi Dear,Am glad I shared my story with u.U don't have to blame God,yourself or anybody.Theres a reason y it happen and only God knows best.As it is been said Weeping may endure for a night,but joy cometh in the morning. I Believe we will surely laugh best next year. Please try to keep a positive mind ,it goes a long way in the healing process.Healing has become easy as the day goes by,am beginning to let go and engage myself with other things,i eat a lot of fruits and have enough bed rest .The incision scar is reducing day by day,am religiously cleaning it,done with my drugs given to me only taking folic Acid. just waiting for my next appointment with the doc.

During my post natal appointment,The doc advised I wait for a year before I take in that by that time I would have fully recovered and if I get pregnant before a year,the pregnancy will be considered high risk and I should be getting ready for another CS.I was dumbfounded.like seriously after everything.Its really sad...Next year will seek a second opinion else

chiefboomite204:
Good morning mama's, I know I am not supposed to post this here but I need help at this time...And I need the healing very fast too... I had inevitable miscarriage at 27 weeks due to cervical incompetence on Wednesday ... I gave birth birth to a baby girl weighing less than 1kg, 0.83kg to be precised... it was very painful they couldn't saved her until she gave up on sunday... I am very sad right now .... couldn't face the world ... is like I am a loser... I am alone brooding.... Pls I need your words of encouragement now... I know I need to let my body heal before trying again but is like I am letting my man down and he is not getting any young... pls if there is anything I can do to heal myself and things to take with the healing

I also went through the same experience about a month ago although mine was a little bit different. My water broke at 28weeks.I n DH rushed to the hospital where I was attending ANC,Upon seeing the O&G Doctor,said I had PPROM.I was admitted immediately,I was given antibiotics against infection and injections to develop the lungs of the baby. By the 3rd day,the doctors said the baby needs to be taken out immediately thru CD since my pus was high and the scan says the Amniotic fluid is low The baby came out weighing 1.2kg and since .... was prematured they incubated .....I spent another 7 days dealing with a lot.To cut the story short,the baby died dued to breathing complications.I have wept my eyes out.It been God all the way that am staying strong and struggling to get up every morning. It was my first.what is even paining me is that I had no complications throughout the pregnancy except the morning when my water broke.It is well.I know by next year God will put a smile on our faces