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HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by customizedme: 6:05am On Oct 20, 2020
missmalachi:
Birth story of my twins

On 12th oct, i went for regular antinatals.On seeing the gynecologist,i expressed my concerns about how tired i was with the pregnancy and how i want it over with( they were use to my usual rant) that was 38wks 3days.

I had initially told them that my two previous kids were born at 41wks and that i was worried my twins would get to 40weeks at least.

On the 12th being monday,i went for my regular antinatal and i insist that i should be checked....gynecologist declined that he will only check me at my next visit which would have been 39weeks 3days.

I have had two kids before now.However,i do not know what labor is all about.My worries were that i might fall into labor at home unknown to me since i have never had labor pain before.(i usually dilate without pain or cramp)

Finally,gynecologist decided to check me after i narrated my two previous stories to him.On checking me,i was already 5cm dilated.I was admitted immediately.
Dh had to take our kids back home (they came with us to the hospital).Dh couldn’t make it back on time due to traffic and i refused to go to labor ward for doc to rupture my membrane (i told them i needed to wait for him.(He missed the birth of the first two due to the nature of his job.i didnt want him to miss this one).At about 8pm,he got to the hospital,we went to the labor ward together and i was already 8cm.The 3 doctors attending to me were beyond surprised as they couldn’t believe someone can be 8cm without pain.

My membrane was ruptured and contraction became strong and almost unbearable.I held Dh hands tight whenever the contractions starts....at a point,i had to hold the bed as i didn’t want to break his bones grin cheesy
I continued with my confession (i will contract and dilate without pain)and continued speaking in tongues.
30min later,i asked Dh to go get the doctor as we were using a private labor ward and they all seems far away.On getting to me,i asked the doctor that i have urge to push and he insisted i shouldn’t.I asked him to then check me which he declined that the gynecologist gave him instruction to check me by 11pm.I had to narrate my story to him that i am not like order people and that he shouldn’t use general knowledge to handle my case.I told him my labor are usually very short.
He insisted on not checking me until Dh told him he has to check me as i am saying the truth.He reluctantly checked me and said i am fully dilated but it has to thin out before i can push.He said i should wait for another 20min.3min later,i told the nurse stationed at my bedside to call the doctor as i can’t hold the urge to push....before she stood up,my baby head was out...the next push,the whole body flew out and almost falling down....everyone had to struggle to hold twin 1.

Twin 2 was breech so they had to manually turn my stomach to turn twin 2 to cephalic position.Contraction started back immediately and after a min or two,twin 2 came out.

They were 11min apart.One of the doctors looked at me and said « i have never taken an easy delivery like this in all my years of practice « .

I was cleaned up and taken to my room to bath and rest(no tear or episiotomy)
Twin 1 a boy weigh 2.96
Twin 2 a girl weigh 2.44

May those still waiting have a sweet and easy delivery.

Keep praying and confessing what you want daily...God will bring into manifestation our strong desires.

I have finally hang my boot in grand style.
Congrats Mama
Three Gbosa for u.
Gbosa! Gbosa!! Gbosa!!!
The delivery of ur twins was so swift.
I pray I have this type of delivery.
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by customizedme: 7:06pm On Oct 14, 2020
lubriderm:
Mamas today is my birthday. Please say a word of prayer for me and my family for supernatural conception so I can come here and testify too in Jesus name.
Happy Birthday Ma! I pray that soonest you shall be singing a new song IJN
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by customizedme: 5:41pm On Oct 04, 2020
GodwilldoitAmen:
Hi everyone,
I have come to rant.
I am not actually new here,

God,this is too much pains ......I do not deserve to go through all this....

It is well
Madam please don't work up yourself too much.its a matter of time.keep your faith alive.like they say where there's life there's hope.Most people on the preg thread were once on this thread and now they are rejoicing,some have even gone on 2nd round.My dear,na matter of time,pick urself up and make good use of every cycle that comes.U r even lucky u are seeing a period to start with.so my sis,look at the brighter part of this. Dont give up

God that has done it before will do it again n this time u shall carry to term and deliver at easy.If u ever need someone to talk to, send me a Pm...I full ground
HealthRe: Male Infertility!!! Share Your Experience/success Story. by customizedme:
PapaMama9ja:
Kindly help me to interpret
U have a very good result except the infection which u have to treat.When u see ur doctor he will explain better.Madam has to go for HVS to know her infection status n if they discover anything she can as well treat.
When DH had it. He was prescribed Cprx(not the cheap ones)because of sensitivity, doxycycline n oxytetracycline for 10days.
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by customizedme: 4:19pm On Sep 19, 2020
Mommdav:
That is when you do an hysteroscopy. Its done by a gynaecologist if your fibroids are inside the womb/uterus cavity. He passes a tiny camera and a knife into your womb through the vgay. Don't worry you won't feel much pain, you will be given medication to deaden your waist downward. You may even see in a TV while the fibroid is being removed.

Try use wobenzym and serrapeptase a week after the procedure to try prevent adhesion.
Any operation around your womb could cause adhesion/scar tissue and this could cause further delay


Fertility blessings.


Watch this video for better understanding

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iiUWsA7SD3E
I agree with the bolded words.Currently battling with it
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by customizedme: 5:23pm On Sep 18, 2020
Tripletwins222:
My people, Pls, help me thank this great God for He has done a marvellous thing for my family
I had a successful myomectomy done last week. Discharged today and still recuperating. Thanks for your advice and words of encouragement.
God is great!.More of good news IJN..
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by customizedme: 3:51pm On Sep 16, 2020
Teey2019:
Good evening mamas and papas,

Please, I need natural ways to reduce prolactin in men and also increase testosterone in men.

I will also need contact of a very good private reproductive endocrinologist in Lagos.
I need it urgently.

Thanks a lot.
God bless
Hi dear, U can go through the link below n ask your question.

https://www.nairaland.com/1461715/male-infertility-share-experience-success

I hope u find it useful
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by customizedme: 4:59pm On Aug 11, 2020
Registration for antenatal is on tuesdays,then Antenatal days are Mondays and Thursdays

MummyD2020:
Good day mamas. I trust we are all pushing real good. Pls I want to ask if anyone knows the ante natal days for igando general hospital. I want to switch from a private to general. I sought the information on Google, but couldn't get any latest gist there(yeye country).It's too boring in the private hospital I registered. Pls its urgent becos I want to start this week. Thanks babes!

URGENT! URGENT!! URGENT!!!
purplish:
Please mention me if you get a response. Someone encouraged me to register there too. Thanks.
TravelRe: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by customizedme: 9:19am On Aug 04, 2020
SaintAY:
Thank you so much for the quick response, but can I reschedule it to my convinent date
U can go when u are availablet then again,Advisable to go earliest as possible
HealthRe: Male Infertility!!! Share Your Experience/success Story. by customizedme: 11:29am On Jul 03, 2020
Pojomojo:
You see she goofed big when she told me to go to hormonal test on day 10 of my cycle, I ran that through Mama's in the pregnancy thread they all said day 1 or 21 are the best time to do such results. A doctor that has been doing these for God knows how long don't know when it best time to get suck results


Later after clomid, I didn't get pregnant even after doing follicular tracking, before the egg would drop, we made love before, during and after the egg dropped. she was now saying it is either progesterone(citing the progesterone was low and could not hold the sperm-I was mad a doc will parmutate) or my dh sperms- can you see?.

Immediately, we went of SFA, result came out 28million count, mortility 75% morphology was good. Immediately she said I should take progesterone and do Hormonal profile not admiting she made a mistake by telling me to do hormal profile on day 10.

After the resultts came out she said my hormones are inbalanced and I will take drugs again, no issues. I only asked a question and she said, "I am the boss here and madam I don't deal with negativity you can consult another doctor" imagine such insolence after goofing. Tell me, why I will not be mad and inform other people about her?
So painful...from her page u would think she knows her onions well... anyways it could be pure marketing strategy just to get people believe shes up to the task.All these will be a thing of the past.Dont relent.
HealthRe: Male Infertility!!! Share Your Experience/success Story. by customizedme: 4:05am On Jul 03, 2020
Pojomojo:
Let me take you on the thepeoples_doctor. A doctor that made a mistake and couldn't even admit to it and apologize. She told me to go do Hormonal profile on day 10 but nairaland and the net says something different from it when I pointed out to her she claimed it usually the lab that gives them the days to do it. I was livid, you are a doctor and claiming you make women pregnant.


Please leave people's doctor she more concerned about her consultation fees, once you make payment GBAM she gives you test to run, and if you don't message her she will not even bother to know if you how fairing concerning your status.


Please, leave that woman abi na lady out of it.
Dear,I understand how u feel,esp.when u contact someone 2 think the person will give u all the necessary attention and otherwise is the case ,Don't give up. At least,the good thing is u get to consult till pregnancy occur.
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by customizedme: 4:51am On Jun 28, 2020
kosi2018:
yes, hope is not lost, I read somewhere that iui is not recommended for women with blocked tubes, I Donno if anyone have knowledge about this, I would appreciate contributions from anyone that have idea
Ma'am,For soft landing with IUI,things to be considered are

You must be PCOS free
Tubes must not be blocked
Fribroid must not be sitting in the baby's space
Semen count must be above 15million
Active motility not less than 30%

I got this info from Dr Ese's instagram page(thepeoples_doctors)
AutosRe: Used Honda Crv In Very Good Shape by customizedme: 7:52pm On Jun 14, 2020
It's adviced you take a screenshot after which you crop then upload.
U r welcome in advance
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by customizedme: 4:15pm On May 08, 2020
tyhgfrdeswscbhf:
Is a BA BA BA


My blue plane landed yesterday through ECS... Weighing 3.4 kg. God is indeed faithful. alot wanted to happen but I thank God I survived the favor room
God is faithful! Can u imagine,I just tot of u now now.Congrats on your bundle of joy.
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by customizedme: 7:35pm On May 01, 2020
Amhappy:
Like today period arrived. 25days cycle. I don't even know which day to do hormonal profile. I know 28 days cycle is day 3'
Dear,just go to a lab,tell them u want to do hormonal profile,they will tell u which day of ur cycle to come back.Try to check tomorrow so u don't miss this cycle.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by customizedme: 3:51pm On Apr 29, 2020
Patking, so sorry... May God Almighty in HIS infinite mercy give u and ur family fortitude to bear the loss.
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by customizedme: 7:45pm On Apr 26, 2020
Florissante:
Good day Fruitful Mothers and Fathers of nations.
I am here to testify of God’s goodness to me. I
just got my BFP after about a year of #TTC2 and I am so grateful to God for leading me to this group, as the wealth of info that I gleaned from here helped to make my TTC journey shorter.

In all, I return the glory to God for enabling my body to carry a child again. I pray that the same God that did this for me would guide our paths to exactly what would work for each of us, as our bodies work differently.

Sprinkling loads of sticky baby dust to us all in Jesus name, Amen!
Mama,so happy for u.I wish u a stress-free pregnancy.
Zino89:
WIDD

My Doctor place me on primolut n and some drugs for one month on 14th of January I saw AF on February 21 there was no period in March I too home test 30th of march it was negative. 2nd of April I prepared ginger and garlic combo(my first time taking combo) I took it for a week still no period. on the 17th of April I went to the hospital to complain about my period not coming my Dr asked me to run a pregnancy blood test I refused he was so sure I was pregnant. I told him I wasn't period as I wasn't having any pregnancy symptoms, so he gave me primolut n again this time he's going to give me clomid and injection once AF comes.. that was how I left the hospital and started taking the tablets. 2 days later i had a fever my lower lip was swollen and itchy then on Monday being 20th of April at about 1 am the fever came out it was so bad dh had to rush me to a nearby hospital I explained to Dr so they gave me injection and ask me to go home and come back in the morning when their lab would be opened for test . I couldn't go in the morning cos I was so tired I went in the afternoon did Typhoid test it came out I had Typhoid. On our way home I stopped by at a pharmacy got some test trips ..got home did test lo and behold it came back positive.
Congrats Mama
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by customizedme: 6:30pm On Apr 25, 2020
tyhgfrdeswscbhf:
Baby no wan come out ooooo sad


I am so tired
Try stimulating ur nipple with breast pump
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by customizedme: 9:46am On Apr 18, 2020
Tomblessings:
Hello mamas in the house.
I've been on bed rest cos I was leaking fluid at 32 weeks.Though It has been arrested. I'm still scared, what if baby decides to come now, what are the chances of survival? They gave me some drugs to mature baby's lungs.
I've lost two and I'm not loosing this one.
God forbid u loose this baby.God does not disappoint at the last hour so please keep your Faith high.Your baby has a high chance of survival even if u birth today so please don't be scared n work with your doctors.please I hope u r in a hospital that has neonatal care facilities if not I suggest u run to one that has.
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by customizedme: 11:08pm On Apr 17, 2020
Mirian91:
Hi dear, I went to buy Vitamin E but suprised and confused about its varieties. Please can you recommend the one you used. I saw one by Emzor and some imported ones that comprises 100 tabs. Is it also 1000mg? Thanks in advance for your response.
Hello dear,The Maker is by Archy's comprises of 50 soft gels.its 1000 IU.I bought it for 2k6.If peradventure u don't find this particular Maker,any other one will be fine as long as it 1000 IU.Baby dust to u
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by customizedme: 1:12pm On Apr 10, 2020
Mummy4life1:
B.A alert.

I gave birth to my charming prince yesterday (09/04/2020) weighing 3.0kg through ECS. After 8years of waiting

@35weeksplus

BS will be coming later
@May Cappo: Please take note
Congrats! Congrats!! Congrats!!!
So happy for u.
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by customizedme: 2:38pm On Apr 07, 2020
Mirian91:
Thank you so much, this is helpful. I will buy Vitamin E to start after my next period and to stop during ovulation as you earlier said.
Congratulations in advance to BFP dear.
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by customizedme: 11:10am On Apr 07, 2020
Mirian91:
Hi dear. What time of the day do you take your folic acid and vitamin E? Do you think it's best taken in the night or morning, and is it also taken on empty stomach. I take mine whenever I remember and I think that's wrong.
Hi Dear,Folic Acid n Vit E is best absorbed with food.I took mine(Folic n Vit E) at night immediately after food reason because I was on another supplement(pregnacare conception) which I used in the mornings so either ways it doesn't matter.Breakfast is an important meal n staying hydrated always is beneficial too.My husby was also on Vit E, C n Folic acid.
Vit E is vital in woman's fertility as it helps create a conducive environment(cervical muscus) where the sperm can easily swim from the virginal to the uterus where the egg is.Naturally,Fertile cervical mucus will actually help sperm move towards the egg,however if ur cervical mucus isn't fertile enough, sperm can't survive for days.
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by customizedme: 5:18pm On Apr 06, 2020
Mirian91:
Good day mamas. It's my first time here, I'm a TTC. Please pardon my long post and read till the end. I'm here because my mind is playing tricks on me. So I got married last year. I and hubby decided to wait to put things in place before making babies (our mistake, if only I knew I will be eager to be pregnant now). Hubby was using withdrawal method to avoid pregnancy (he's an expert) and it worked. I remember vividly some months last year 2019, I could feel my ovulation discharge so well but my naive self needed to stabilize in my job before bringing babies. Fast forward November 2019 we got ready to conceive till now we have been hitting on my fertile days and nothing has happened o. I'm so scared because I'm being both anxious on my most fertile days. I have the flo app and another app that helps me keep track of my fertile days. Infact hubby downloaded the flo app first and he's keeping track too. I have a regular period and feel ovulation pain.

My health history
At some point in 2016 I had ovarian cyst that lasted for one year before it disappeared. It caused me so much pain during menstrual periods that I vomitted and had high fever all through the 5 days of period. I took felvin all the time to ease the pain. I just got to know that felvin causes anovulation.

Again, Since this January I started having severe menstrual cramps that stops my daily activities. It hurts so bad that I end up in the hospital to get some pain relieve injections (Pentazocine). This is actually where my fear grew. I never experienced such pain.

I took clomid in December but ignorantly waited for ovulation day in January to copulate with hubby and we missed it.
February I treated PID with hubby because doctor suspects it might be the cause of my severe menstrual cramps. Out of anxiety I frequent hospitals for scans (abdomino-pelvic) 3 times a month cause I had movements in my stomach and every thing came out fine. In March I track my ovulation through Transvaginal scan and saw the follicle that would release egg. We tried and my period still came out I felt sad.
Has anyone been in my shoes? I read people say remove your mind and have sex but honestly having sex now feels like chores because we are focused on something. Worst still, hubby's sperm doesn't come out all the time we make love. If we make love twice a day he will only come once and will have to force himself to come the next round which will still not happen(maybe psychological). Can anyone offer me advice or encouragement. I really don't want to get to a point where I will feel depressed. I'm currently in my 2 weeks wait. Fertile period ended today. Please wish me luck. Thanks for reading and also for your patience.
Has husby also done the necessary test to be sure he's not shooting blanks?
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by customizedme: 2:33pm On Apr 06, 2020
I want to imploy GTC n TTC women to always chart their monthly cycle.it goes a long way.There are apps that makes it easy like flo,Glow,ovia fertility n the rest.It offers the option to record moods, cervical fluid data, sexual activity and any other personal notes everyday at least if we can do that religiously for 3 to 4 months so we can have an idea n also be able to explain to our doctors guilding him with the charts to prescribe medications n appropriate test that needs to be done.
This chart helps to know our body system.when we chart we will have an idea whether the app goes in line with our body system, whether we should trust it in making that big decision in baby dancing or not. For instance,if ur App predict ovulation day to be day 14 but u charted u saw cervical fuild day 12 so that means there's need for reconciliation.In essence,don't chart only ur mensural period,also include changes in your body, ur moods,cervical discharge, sex n all, so that at the end of the cycle u will be able to tell what n what u missed.
I hope this helps someone
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by customizedme: 10:38am On Apr 05, 2020
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HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by customizedme: 3:22pm On Apr 02, 2020
Detumi:
Can vitamin E be taken through out the cycle?
It is not advisable to take throughout the cycle if u r GTC.There has been some concern that taking vitamin E supplements might be harmful to the fetus when taken in early pregnancy.However,Its best taken the day after your period stops to the day before your ovulation.
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by customizedme: 10:02am On Apr 02, 2020
gabby18:
Hello house..just thought to share some personal tips that worked for me to encourage someine out there...

I also ttced for 2years 3months before I had my first child..and another 2years plus again before I got pregnant the second time and on both occasions, I had an irregular flow as long as 50-56 days or more..I went for tests.took drugs but still no solution.

I eventually got tired of all d drugs and turned to God, my Mother Mary and stuck to just folic acid + vitamin E (the soft yellow ones by Mason and Nature's field, I guess any other brand wld also do).

I noticed the vit E made my period more irregular but one thing remained constant for both pregnancies, after taking the vit E + folic acid combo for about 14 days or so , my cycle got longer and within 6weeks or so I got preggy on two different occasions of course with lots of prayers as well...

Dunno if it's a coincidence or not but please check in with your doctors and hear what they have to say about the vitE + folic acid combo cause it worked for me..
Just tot to share...praying God grants everyone here their special heart desires, in Jesus name, Amen!!!
As in!!!! Please continue to share the gospel of Vit E.Mostimes I wonder y couples who r TTC or GTC don't include Vit E..It helps to achieve pregnancy when taken properly[b][/b] It can be used by men also.
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by customizedme: 9:33am On Apr 02, 2020
glowiee:
Hello house, good morning I am so depressed. We have been trying for a baby for over a year now and we visited the doctor last month and he did hydrotubation on me and said everything was fine. We had sex back to back and this morning I was awaken by premenstrual cramps. I tried a home test for pregnancy and it's negative. I feel very terrible and sad. My period is actually supposed to be next week Wednesday. I have been crying my eyes out. I can't even go to the hospital now because of Covid-19. Please I need your help and advice. I am down.
Ma'am all hope is not gone.pregnancy and mensuration have the same symptoms. u still have till next week to be sure.Use this period to pray to get a BFP next week.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by customizedme: 2:05pm On Mar 31, 2020
Babiesoflagos:
Hello mamas and mamas-to-be,

I'm just here to answer any questions and clear any doubts concerning pregnancy, childbirth and parenting issues.

Yours Sincerely
Babiesoflagos
Always ready to serve smiley
Pls comment on the below quote

shadow88:
Good morning mummies,I was the lady that had stillbirth in January after my six weeks appointment I started the usual routine then I tested positive lastweek which makes it three weeks this week,I started spotting yesterday which is brownish in colour immediately I did test it was still positive but this morning I started seeing thick dark brown blood its not staining my pad but when I pee I repeated the test again it came out negative
please mummies I don't know what the issue is
No transportation here to take me to the hospital please help me mum
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by customizedme: 8:39am On Mar 31, 2020
Babiesoflagos:
Here are some more healthy tips:
1. Eat small portions of food. Convert ur 3 square meal into 6 - 8 portions.
2. After eating, sit up for a while before lying down.
3. Avoid alcohol, fatty, spicy, greasy foods.
4. Take yoghurts. Take milk wen you feel d heartburns.
5. When you eventually lie down, use a pillow to keep ur head elevated.

I'm guessing you are in ur 3rd trimester and it's very normal to have heartburn.
It's caused by a combination of hormone and pressure from the big bouncing baby inside your tummy. The size of ur baby tends to exert pressure on ur stomach causing acid to move up to the oesophagus, dats wat causes the burning sensation.
Let us know if any of the tips help.
Warmest regards.
Thanks for ur response.

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