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freecocoa what aprt of what my friend did to me back in lasu you dont understand and for the fact that am going to finish before him after causing him to loose lasu is killing me, our both parent are rich and i know he is using his last lifeline with his dad if he finds out so we are kepping this our big secret, and i never get caught, only if i go gaga and must it always be about cutlass and axeeven though am a black man i drop that life back in lasu, i believe there are other ways of dealing with suck issue, i can go spiritual with her, lots of other ways, am wiser now babe, @Scash (f) rustigation is not in my books again only if i choose not to go to school, am not acting like God but i found more better ways of dealing with this issue and this is just a little girl 19 for that matter, i really dont have to use cutlass or anything, its too simple , and there is no way out i will finsh before him and his parent must not find out then he is gone,,,and my friend has a fixed deposit of 5m he is not poor just the timing of the pregnancy made him touch the school fees, and for other that feels i cant construct simple sentence i understand ok, I am really under presure seeing someone that has done good for me go down and being punishd for loving a girl, mind you if not for what happened in lasu he wouldnt be here now facing this, i feel i owe him to be there for him and knowing fully well his parent MUST not know about this, then he is finished, you can send yout abuses i understand its nairaland thing ok, All am asking is if the girl pay for what she did , is it justified??what if my friend commit suicide??what if he decide not to continue school, what if his parent find outall this is on me cis i feel i put this on him from the stuff in lasu, he is really silent lately,,,not going to talk to me, i dont know what is on his mind or what decision he is making, wont go to class , you really need to understand my pain for him

Well thanks for the advise, the only statement i hold in it his revenge and my friend should pay too, He is already paying right now and i will have him pay a little by mending him , but my take is she loose one year too, they already end it, i hope he does not go back to her cus he is really in love with the bitch, but she will loose one year too if she didnt loose her life along the line, am so fucking angry she think me a fool too, now i keep blaming myself that i told him he should be happy she confess that not every woman can do that , imagine am telling him he should be happy, and now he is so sad, thin, for 2 weeks men this is bad for any guy

seems like you dont understand he didnt realise he is not the one responsible for it before he did, he found out later and i was among the people that ask him to forgive her that shit happens since she is a changed person(so i think)and then she made all the promises never to fail him or leave him right in from of me, am holding her responsible for taking me for a ride along side him , why should she make promises and made me convince my friend shit happens that he should forgive him that no woman is holy and that he should be happy the girl confess and forgive her, i was acting like a pastor that am not

A guy sacrifice is life for a girl 3 year relationship, details (use his school fees to sort of D and C after insisting they keep the baby and the girl refuse, later found out the baby belongs to someone else there by loosing one year of his school life cus he was not allow to do a whole semester exam which is automatic extra year or repeat)The girl promises to stick to him and promise never to betray him for what he did, suddenly on 3 holiday the girl call him to tell him its over and she doesnt care on what he did for her that she is ready to pay the money he spent on her back but what about the one year lost and he keeps wondering why 3 weeks will change 3 years relationship, later found out on facebook the girl taking pictures on bed with a new guy and putting them on her facebook then he realise it is all about the guy she met during 3 weeks holiday, I am a bad boy in the same skull the victim is my close friend and he has been there for me deeply before, i cost him a whole year of his life in lasu , we are room mate got involve in shit with skull he was trying to protect me and then got rustigated along side with me, now we are both in the same private school where he is going through this , am going to finish before him cus of the mess the girl put him and that alone is making me sad, i can do anything for this guy but i want to know the right judgement for this case cus he cant eat, drink, or do anything and i can continue seeing him like this please if you dont have any good advise to give please dont comment no abuses or bad words ooooo,

omo i cant just imagine, i am puting myself in his shoes now, the stigma, all dat stuff, i hope he keep it between the 2 of us and as for the girl, she go hear am o, i know what we are capable of doing, back in the days in uni, sorry for her life, some women can really be crazy

Thanks debosky, i will advise he try another test, @ tee then that bitch must have been bleeding dat her ex for the past few months, i wish i can see her now, i will just tell her how her mom made a great mistake not aborting her pregnancy

I receive a call from my best friend this morning and up till now am still in the state of shock, this is how our conversation goes
Me:Hello guy how far
My friend: Omo he don happen o
Me:wetin happen
My friend:my babe has killed me
Me: How, why,
My friend:few weeks ago we dey together and had fun without protection and this week monday i found out she had sex with her ex without protection before she came to visit me and yesterday i saw a paper in her wardrope saying she should go for vigina swamp ,hiv test etc, i think she went to see a dr cus she was having virgina discharge
Me:then
My friend:as i see the hiv test my heart skip so i quick go see solomon (our dr friend) and he found out am positive and you no na only dis girl i dey f since 2 years ago you know am too busy to be haing sex around
Me: what, did you see her own result first
My friend: she did not tell me about wanting to go for test and i dont expect her to show me result na
Me :obviously na she give u , guy i dey come house soon hold on, no tell any body again o, u don hear
My friend:come quick i don dey mad ooo


We have been close friend since primary school days, we know our self too well and we are both batd guy, as for me i am only thinking of way to get the girl result and if she is positive too na she give my friend and i swear my friend will not wait for the hiv to kill her before he queeze life out of her and i am playing leading role in doing that, i need advise before i do something bad,,,this girl is a dead meat

Hellp nairalanders am wondering if you have 10 million naira as your own inheritance from your grandfather, what can youdo with this money that can change your life completely , i mean business .solid bussiness thatyou will be involved in , like everyday going out and coming in, please dont tell me to loan you money please, as the money is not mine, is for a friend so am helping him think what he can do with it and make it big time within one or two years, thanks

never, she is not worth it and i made up my mind to let the bitch go,

I dont blame you for all you said, my grandmom said the same thing and my friends, but what i did is not compare to what she did, you need to know what she made me swear with the day i disflower her that i wil never leave her, she used me that is what am feeling, and i acted base on annoyance , so i dont blame your actions too,

I swear there is no single exageration is what i just wrote, everything is as it happend cus it happened just yesterday and she just left today, and i dont think she drank relaxer cus i said am no longer interested but becus of what i posted on her facebook wall, some of it is how i disvirgin her and how i ask her to keep the baby when she was pregnant but insist she want to abort it and now am wondering if i was ever responsible for it, i guess those are what makes her want to kill herslef, i wish it wasnt in my house, i wouldnt have try to resque her, i see reasons with letting her go cus i dont thimk i can trrust her again and relationship without trust wont work out, i never did though was only giving her benefit of doubt, i dont trust females naturally, that is who i am

thanks african queen, am already blaming myself for that, my friends told me it is childish, we act that way sometimes, and from what i can understand from what my granma is getting heart is i should learn to taake my eyes away from some thing women do, indirectly she is saying i should forget what happen and assumed nothing happen and i accept her back and continue the relationship, is that why you said i should listen to her cus am thinking she is a woman that was why he said that

thanks for all the advise, i actually end up giving her TF , why, when i was going through the pain, out of anoyance i went on facebook and paste alot of shit there, what we both went through, she was a virgin when i met her, i broke her virginity, so how do i know she is going to be a bad girl , how do i know a good girl incase i end the relationship with her becus when she went on her facebook and saw what i posted on there, i was away in bank when i saw i text I WILL KILLL MYSELF IN YOUR HOUSE, i thought she was joking but when i got home she has drank hair relaxer and was rolling on the flow, i had to quickly give her palmoil first then i took her to a chemest near my house for treatment and when we got back home she was begging me she is sorry that i shouldnt i gone that far to do the facebook shit, i was deciding what to do then i said ok have heard so i took her to do her hair and took her out to eatry i did that to cool her mind down cus if i had not come early and she end up dieing in my house then by now i will be counting how long am going to stay in jail, her family and friends in school and her sister who is a close friend to me knows everything about us infact is she is not at home .they call me to find out where is can be and i have been able to predict and locate her, so there is no way i can escape jail if she had died in my house, she said she is not worthy that she knew it will remain in my heart and that i will never forget even if i forgive her, so should i doshe still want me and i still love her so much, but am confused, should i just let go and move forward, my grandma told me if you dont have ability to take your eyes away from some things that women do then you will never get married cus you aint a man, is that true ?already i feel like letting go but i my heart is still with her, and if you suggest i leave how do i know good girl next time i found someone since i met this one a virgin and she still did what she did, and the same thing was what my ex told me , i am not worthy of you before we broke up, is it just me or have been too nice to this ladies??please am confused, i need advise, hones one please

few weeks ago i was seeking advise on my gf now my ex cus she shout at any argument, she is in my house now, i founf out there was other guy now though far away, we argued and i found out sge had sex with 3 other guys during our one year relationship, she apologise and said she is not worthy of me that i should let her go, ok i made up my mind long ago that i will noe accept any cheating gf, am vexed now it look like my whole world is crashing, she is still in my house now, going tommrow, i promise myself i will not give her transport fair, am going to leave her stranded, i will ask her to leave my house first thing in the morning, am i a bad person,

move on, or Bleep her sister

Thanks for the advise, I respect everybody's point, when i say she spend half of our days together i mean after class from4 to 9 pm everyday we are always together, rigth now am at home she is in school , will be going by the weekend, she just sent me 35k yesterday to support my bussines , she just said she will like to suppose the bussiness i really don't need her money so don't think i ask her for it, we are both in a private univeristy so you should know her money mean nothing to me oo, i already conclude she is seeing someone else, so my plan is to get to school talk to her about her behavior lately and expect changes, if she change good for her if she did not good for her it will be her lost. abi i actuualy want to change cus i met her a virgin that is what i dont expect , my mind is made up, like i said i moved on really as that is not my first break up, girls are everywhere, i think she need to explore and need to be given chance to do it, please don't see me as a heart breaker , my dad always tells me women are never reliable and one should never relay on them, from my experience i seen that it is true, am already listening to deuces remix feat drake,kanye west and Ti, i love kanye's side, is talking about my relationship, thanks for the advise, i'll let you know the outcome,

@madukaele, I am not here to be insulted ok, at 24 are you telling me i don't deserve to have a gf or disflower a girl, i beg make u hold ur site if you no get better talk, @kenx1 i really dont like acting fast, we spend alot of days together , i will see what i can find out, but if it if what you said i dont want to becarefull i just want to break up, i am a taurian we move on quickly, life goes on @ Orton1 all i said is she is shouting at me at any argument and so far have not find out about any guy, i actualy change her sim dec 1st 2010 cus i change my sim to MTN too and she agree without any argument, that is why am confused,

I really don't understand what is going on, I met her when i got school 09, She was a virgin, when i disflower her she told me she promise herself to get married to the one that disflower , really that was not my plan, i just want to have fun but but her moves got me thinking i was confused but i play along, really it worked cus am in love with her rigth now, but the strange things about her lately is she shout at me at any little argument, am a curious type of person, i went through her phone found nothing, we spend almost half of our day together no strange calls, each time i try to talk to her she will tell me she really don't want to hear my story, so am wondering what is going on, i want to act fast , it is good to be the winner sometimes, i dont want to be the loser in this game, should i just end it or relax and give her time, am confused, i need your candid advise,

Omo till tommorow na KH go dey win, choc boys are really a big flop on this beef, well that is why you need originality in whatever you do, if KH try am with Dagrin, RIP, him for don run now, him self no go won die now

@Felix Duncan, Am also in the same situation but my capital is not as much as 2.5m , so i would like to know what kind of online bussiness can you start with as low as 50k ??what is the percentage of the profit i can get it this bussienss monthly lets say i start with 50k.

@btuneri , how does Bond work, Have heard about it but dont really know how it works and how to start i want to start it, can you explain more better, i dont mind your email id, incase i need to learn about both bussiness

guy go make money first, then look your back, no be only she go dey there dey pursue u but hundreds on them, including some on nairaland, i wonder why all of us nowadays no dey reason well, make money first then any other things follow,

Each drop of a Tear is Costly than anything in World, But,No One knows its value until they have it in their own eyes, assuming you were the one receiving the slap?

I love the petroleum business , i want to start from now even though am still in school, I need to know what part of the business i can put my money in that will be of a great profit , i need help, please remember am still in school so i need to know what part of the business i can put my money in and my money will be working for me while am in school, I have a little above 1 million to start, please i need advise, thanks,

R I P dagrin

hello machere44
i just sent you an email, please reply me soon , please you can also check your buck mail for the email thanks hopefully you will have answers to those questions thanks God bless

ok thanks am sending you an email rigth now

Thanks machere44 , since you are online rigth now, there is alot i want to learn about HRM as a whole, am still an undergraduate still for 2 years more to spend in school but i want to be a professional before i graduate, i would like to contact you privately too, there is so much i need to ask, if you send me your email i will ask all my questions and will be able to read answers over and over again and ask again whatever i need to know, hopefully you will reply me soon thanks

Thanks titobay, HRM is my choosen career and i sure want to be one of the best , I will need your help since you know alot about it, is there a way to contact you , i would prefer an email, i need to learn alot on HRM and how to be good in my choosen career, can you please tell me your email so i can contact you??mine is cutieistheboy@yahoo.com
Thanks
I will be expecting your reply soon