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@walcolm, I think you have made your point. This issue is not enough to derail you. If @Eljaye still needs help, he should just repost his problem. Perception, they say, is stronger than reality. He perceived disrespect and in reality am sure you didn't mean disrespect. Can we move on without DEMANDING an apology? Thanks all.

walcolm: Thanks @Bluepearls

one of the grounding virtue of this thread is that people who come here will be treated and also be required to treat everyone on the thread with respect..everyone here can bear witness to how i have aggressively pursued that agenda against every troll that has tried to turn our thread into an average nairaland thread where anonymity is used as excuse for misbehaviour...a good number of folks here have also joined me over time in maintaining decorum and keeping the thread as helpful, welcoming and warm as possible

@Eljaye has called me out on my response to his post, accused me of disrespecting him thereby challenging the credibility i have worked hard to build on this thread so its very important to me that other here (court of public opinion) wade in.

we are all from different backgrounds and mindsets and we view things differently and i do not claim to know all or claim to be perfect. i am struggling to understand how @Eljaye will term the phrase 'stop throwing tantrums' as DISRESPECTFUL and will like to get other people's views

these days, its very easy to throw out accusation and i take this very seriously since @eljaye also went on to say this thread is no longer warm, welcoming or receptive to new comers...that is a grave assessment and i will prefer we face this issue head on and clear it out once and for all

still waiting for more views and opinions on the post at the top of page 166