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Thank you all for your advise and words of encouragement, but am just alittle disappointed with that guy call

SYLVAO2000

or your name should have been "syco 2000", maybe you think it fiction or something, well av got news for you it 4real, and

if you don't have good words in your mouth, i think you should just SHUT-UP, if your brother ask you for advice on

something like this, i guess your reply would have been the same, i wonder how ladies cope around crazy-ass men like

you.

next time people ask for advice, and you ain't gat nothing good to say, i guess you better shut up your "syco mouth' shut.


once again thank you all for your good words, i was already thinking of what to do before i saw Mr syco's post.

hello all,

If you have any computer related problem, i will be more than glad to give you solution.

Totally Free. Just Trying to help fellow nigerians out.

hi all,
         am currently serving somewhere in nigeria, i met two beautiful, lovely ladies just as service year was starting.

  There was basically nothing on our "virgin minds" when we all met, but somehow, somewhere, as the days of NYSC

rolls by, love,intimacy,likeness and care crept in.

        Currently, am in one of the southern states in nigeria where one of the ladies that i mentioned earlier is serving, and

lots of stuffs happened, apparently she wants to marry me, not me marrying her, and the other one has someone

working

in an international company who has been begging her for their introduction, she kept on postponing it even before we

met.

      Now my problem is, i really don't want marriage for now, since i am still serving, i don't have a good job and my

folks are not the rich type, even if they were, i really don't like getting  money from people, including family members.

both ladies are from very okay families and they are both telling me that money is not an issue that they got my back. 

one of the ladies has health problems so she needs marriage fast, so as to raise kids before she gets to 30-35years,

and the other one has a well to do fiance whom she wants to leave for me.

my sister messed up really bad in a relationship some years back and she is still in regrets till date all thanks to  stupid

motherly advice. i really hate regrets alot especially if its something you will carry for the rest of your life.

   out of pity i could marry the one with health problem because, she is all any man will want, but i really don't love her

"bone2bone", the other one would have been a better offer but her fiance knows me as just a friend to his wife to be.

i need candid advice please, something sensible, i don't care if its harsh, just drop it, i will definately think about every

word in your advice.

        lastly, am too nice to say it to there faces that marriage is not possible, so please you can advice on great moves

that will not hurt them, because they are both nice ladies in-love with the wrong guy i guess. Thanks