teemy:
hello dadasamuel08, i feel the main purpose of sex in intimacy has been missed here which is communication-of the bodies. verbal-communication betwix you two seems to be low from your guesses of 'is he?', 'i don't know if ...'. so, talk to him first.

The truth is he doesn't talk as much with me at home but talkrtive outside how do I deal with that? if I try to open that channel he doesn't show much intrest as he got so much attachment with his phones. So am relapse too most of the time and this has lingered on an on

teemy:
also who says the rule is that the man must be the crixus of capua should always demand first. even if his libido is lower and you feel the need for some gidi gidi time with your own legally married hubby, grab him and let your bodies do the talking.

You are right but I feel it should be both ways not one sided.... we should both desire each other

teemy:
the funny thing might be he does not want to disturb you while you are worrying yourself upandan over what is no issue at all hence my saying you should first build up your verbal communication and not let guesses rule the day. go rock girl!

Well if I have been talking about same issue for about 6 years he should know it's important and look for ways to get better at it. But it's same whole thinģ

teemy:
hello dadasamuel08, i feel the main purpose of sex in intimacy has been missed here which is communication-of the bodies. verbal-communication betwix you two seems to be low from your guesses of 'is he?', 'i don't know if ...'. so, talk to him first.

It's just sad for me to say he doesn't value intimacy he prefers to stay in the living room when am the room he also prefers his phone than talking to me most of the time this has been a major concern. I think all he wants is just children it's a good thing for a man to love his kids no doubt but he has put them in BTW us once he calls to talk to them he wouldn't bother to talk to me again each time he is out. He doesn't know the value of marriage as he handles everything like a child. We are totally opposit

Thanks to you all for the responces well I try to look good all the time I wear shorts once am home and yes we have kids. What I observe in him is that he is kind of lazy on everything in the house but I thought that should be different with intimacy.
My husband thinks a lot eventhough we are not doing bad financially but he is a perfectionist who gets bothered by little things. Haven ever caught him cheating so am not sure if he does outside runs as well... I just believe a man should not compromise his intimacy with his wife cos of any situation you should find comfort there

Guys I need your advice... my husband and I have been married for 6 years in those six years I can count how many times we made love simply cos he can go weeks without asking okay I have been the one asking more than he does but now I feel he should know his obligation s as a husband and I have discussed it over and over again but he seems not to have changed he only ask for sex when he feels like having sex which might be twice or once a month. I like sex but I can do without it however am concern about the future of a marriage without a committed emotional attachment... what should I do?