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stuffsabouttara:
I can't name just one, they are too much, both the good, bad and ugly, everything is just simply amazing.

That guy must be from pluto

Presh900:
She gives amazing head .

Hmmmm..... It is well with you brova

We all know that every relationship/marriage is not always a bed of roses. There are some bitter times that you just feel like ending the whole thing but then you just remember one special thing about your partner that blows your mind away and you just try so put yourself together and keep the relationship going.

What's that special thing you think your partner has?

Ineedinfo:
Op, why do you think a woman who wants to help you control your wealth isn't a helper? Let go of such mind set. A woman can help control your wealth through her business sense, her hard work, knowing how to manage resources available to her. Or are you simply saying you need an "already made" lady?

If the latter is what you are searching for, it could become a turnoff to ladies you meet. You may have found what you need already, yet your eyes are glued far ahead for already made ladies.

You seem not to have gotten what I said because your comment is totally different from what I stated in my post.

Joavid:
Do you know a lot of women are also in the same position as you and they feel the same way. Life is hard. Everyone is fighting for their own survival.
It wasn't like our parents time were an educated man or woman had high prospects of getting a well paid job.

People are more selfish about their decision of a partner this days cos no one wants a liability. and it's not just women, men look out for ready-made women too.


So, i understand how you feel. cos as social beings, it's normal that you need companionship but don't lose focus on what's important and have your priorities straight and with that I believe you will find your woman along the way.

Nice

shortgun:
Bros a woman by ur side is not what u really need right now....that's just the truth.

Even if you finally get a woman you will regret it later.

I don't want to ever live with such mentality and I will never. The people that are living a good married life do they have two heads?

Lol... @perfecttouch Wow your story even inspired me more. I really want to face it all and get made already being inside of it than making it and bringing a woman into it.
I want to grow and be well established with a woman I will respect so much for how much she stood by me and helped me grow to achieve alot

zealblinks:
If you dont have money. U can go to kiriri, kuje or brothel. You will find one....... You better double your huslte give the game what it takes nd 4get about settling down for now

Hmmmm, cheers

subtlemee:
Go get a job or handwork to show God and man some seriousness and stop waiting for manna to fall from heaven, you'll wait forever till you become a subject of ridicule

You got it all wrong. Thanks anyway

jashar:
How old are you?

You working/have a business?

You still living in your parents house?

Do you have a confident/whiny personality?

Are you the type that will be waiting for a woman to bring you money?

Let's start from these ones 1st.

Ok... I am a little above 30, I dont stay with my parents, I am a Real Estate consultant but things are not that smooth yet, am not a shy guy but I think am hardly looking at women because I don't feel settled and I have a very likable personality. I am not waiting for a woman to constantly put food on the table, I have a goal and am focused on it.

It might be shameful am doing this and I am very sure some people will insult me but I don't mind. No matter what happens I just feel somehow, at least one person might really understand me.

Honestly I think I am really getting lost. I am someone that felt at my age now, I must have been settled, have a lovely family and just do everything in the world to make my wife the best and happiest woman ever and also make my kids see dad and mum as the best parents. Yes I know its just an imagination but I think am willing to try hard to make that happen.

But somehow it seem so far from achieving that and I am so worried. Every lady I come across are just looking for a way to be with a made rich guy. Yes I understand that every lady needs security and a good life, but I am someone that know I will make it because I never give up but the ladies don't see that. I might have nothing now doesn't mean I can't be the best husband ever. I really want to settle down but it's been difficult because I have nothing yet.

I don't see anything wrong in a good woman who knows she really wants to settle down helping a guy stand on his feet. Why don't some ladies see that they can assist some guys in building an empire together. They say behind every successful man is a woman, does that actually mean the woman is just to help him control the wealth he has already acquired?

I truly need an understanding lady that we can start a beautiful life together even if it means her supporting me to do something great. I want a woman that will believe in me and see that we can build a family together.

Please don't tell me such ladies are not here, where can I meet just one.

I rebuke every spirit of makeup deceit from my future wife IJN AMEN.

As a young graduate who got a job with a starting salary of N60,000 monthly and you have a fiancee who is also a graduate and has a job of N40,000 monthly, do you guys think one can start a good home with this a raise a decent comfortable family in Nigeria?