CaveAdullam:
1. If you look at life from a realistic point of view it 'doesn't worth living.'

When you are young, you clamor for Independence; when you are old, you are nostalgic about those younger years when you play freely with a cheerful heart and no burden on what you will eat or wear because your parents will take care of that.

2. You don't have, you struggle tooth and nail to have; you now have, you want more or feel depressed because you now understand that one day you will die, and all that you have worked for will be inherited by someone who doesn't know the amount of time, pain, sweat and blood you shed just to achieve your glory; worst case, scenario, it may even be that it is your enemy that will inherit your resources after your death. Sad.

3. Only the living are subjected to these vicissitudes of life: light today, darkness tomorrow; one comfort, two pains.
Those who never exist are never bothered about life's experiences and the dead has escaped life's loop.

4. So, what then is the essence of life? Why not hasten into a mass suicide and be free forever?

5. The humans that have caused much damage on earth are still the humans that make life enjoyable. If you are extremely pessimistic, all you will see is agony and pain. Pessimism will further drive you into nihilism. Optimism also has its dark side: you neglect reality for wishful thinking and hope. No balance on both sides equals depression.

6. Being philanthropic albeit the ever-changing templates of life is how you enjoy it as your ephemeral life declines. The beauty of nature is enough to bless the eyes and soul: beautiful animals, beautiful mountains, beautiful sky, beautiful waters, beautiful plants, etc. enhance your life and will propel you to extrapolate these beauties into your soul and environment.

A good illustration: Birds gave an idea about airplanes, and the beast of burden (camel, bull, donkey) gave an idea about fast-moving cars.

Holding a beautiful child, and beholding a beautiful human also blesses the soul. Once you begin to appreciate the beauty you see that 'life is worth living.' Because you appreciate beauty, you no longer feel pained as you approach death, because you are now at a stage where your soul has elevated above material goods. Philanthropy becomes a norm: you want to always put smiles on grimaced faces. If such character and behavior ripples, everyone becomes one - welcome to paradise. Howbeit, something similar to paradise can be attained, and not paradise itself because humans are a melange of good, bad, and ugly.

7. Every circumstance in life either makes or mars you, it is left for you to paddle these circumstances to suit you. There are always factors beyond your control, and many times, there is nothing you can do about it.

However, you must develop a keen sense of leverage, flexibility, and adaptability as the situation demands. Life doesn't go as planned, you change as the wind changes. Never be caught unaware.

8. There is always conflict at the bottom: the struggle to get to the top. And at the top: the struggle not to fall to the bottom. So, you see, nobody has it all in life. Same conflicts, different struggles.

9. Don't expect a woman to take you seriously for a relationship when you are at the bottom. The same way you will not lust over an ugly woman is the same way a woman will never lust over a poor/average man. So, the poor and ugly can only mate either by enhancing status and beauty respectively or both or learn the art of manipulation - pick up artistry and prostitution(hook up culture and gold-digging).

10. Men are valued for their status while women are valued for their beauty and existence. It takes only the wise and transcendent man to look beyond status and beauty before he can appreciate people, albeit, they are the outliers among humans.

11. Your background, environment, and connections may not be favorable but you must try your possible best to paddle the boat. If don't paddle, you will sink.

There's no one method to succeeding in life except you understand your situation, learn, be flexible and adapt.

Bonus:
12. Be smart and intelligent: this will grant you access to quality people.

13. Learn sales and marketing.

14. Learn a skill and sell it.

Thanks.

Thank you very much

ibechris:
Get a father figure in your life now.

Be it an uncle from your mother's side,a neighbour,your former teacher in school whom u trust or your landlord whom u may trust to guide u about life..

U need someone u may see as a father figure.

In fact,I respect your mum to have raised a whole four children single handedly.
She must be strong!

U indeed deserves to make her happy..

Could you tell me more about this father figure advise sir?

henrimoto:
@daddyseun. Go over this comment again,again and again.

Yes sir, I am going through it. Thank you sir.

9JAFULLBREED:
I don’t think you really understand Life. I don’t care what your story is but it’s normal to fail at some point in Life. Success is not a comfortable procedure

From 25-40 No be child’s play

The bitter truth is that u go still fail at some point no matter how ready/prepared you are in life but you just have to keep pushing

You want to end it all because of what exactly? cuz u trying and failing? How do you wanna grow without that? Here is the thing... Expand yourself and get out of your comfort zone if you really wanna be successful.

Forget about any serious relationship for now and stay focus

Thank you for this wonderful piece of advice.

emmanuelbrown26:
I wanted to suggest something, but immediately i came across RELATIONSHIP, i had to reserve my comment/suggestions.

Let me tell u one raw truth, u are missing father in ur life.

Could you expatiate on this sir? Thank you.

yemmit90:
I feel your pain, majority of Nigeria youths are facing something similar to yours. Just keep working but smartly, one day, you will sing a song of praise.

Amen, thank you very much.

Blackdeewhy:
Have you ever heard about an immortal called GOD?
He is full of GRACE and MERCY.
PLEASE say a words of prayer, fast and NEVER GIVE UP.
Things will be fine with you. I can feel it from this side.
Cheers....

Noted with thanks.

I'm not happy with the situation of my life. To say I am depressed is an understatement. Nothing seems working for me. Let me narrate my ordeal this way.
I am presently 28 years of age. I was raised by a single mother. She gave birth to four children though I am the first son(I have a sister before me and two younger brothers). Since I am begining to understand life.ever for once measured up with my peers. It was not that we live in poverty. She was able to afford basic needs for us. During my underage period I thought it was my non-working status that brought about insufficiency. Albeit this I wasn't bothered though I was not happy with my condition.
Now that I'm grown. I have finished from College of Education since 2016. I have tried businesses but I failed in them. I have worked in schools as ateacher but they were not promising so I has to leave the jobs. The worst part is that, my relationship life is poor. I do not have serious relationship. Every girl I asked out would always prefer someone else than me even though the person might not up to my status in age or other standards. I'm fed up. I thought about ending it all but I do not want to fail my mother.
If you have been in my situation before. Kindly educate on how you scale through this stage. Thank you.

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Good mornin, the offer is still valid.

The offer is still valid. Though two good people have contributed out of generousity. May God bless them �. However, we still need more.

Good morning

Good morning, the offer is still valid. Thanks.

Newman93:


No problem at all. God bless you

Amen, thanks.

Elmaaq:
loan app will help

Loan shark is not a good option sir. I have downloaded one of their apps(Sokoloan), input my details to obtain loan but I decided to check the experiences of various users on this nairaland. Sir, it was horrible.

Good morning everyone

Good morning

Newman93:
I'm adding 2k to that. All the best

Good morning sir, thanks for yesterday. May God bless you abundantly. I appreciate it.

ELff:


Done. Sorry I am just responding. Had a super busy day. Sent my small token.

Just coming back online now. Yes, I have seen it. Thank you very much. Your pocket shall never run dry. I'm grateful sir.

Newman93:
I'm adding 2k to that. All the best

Seen ! Thank you very much sir.

Newman93:
I'm adding 2k to that. All the best

I will appreciate it sir. Thank you very much. May God bless your pocket �

thesicilian:

Ok

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Yes, thanks.

thesicilian:
A passport you may not use in the next 5yrs is not a good collateral. Some people might be more willing to offer you loan if you have something better, like an expensive phone, electronics, etc

Thanks for your contribution sir. However, I have said earlier that if I had any valued item I would have presented that as collateral. As for the phone, I use Tecno Spark4 which I use to navigate the internet for opportunities and that's the only phone I have. I have thought about selling the phone but I'm afraid that I would go incommunicado for long time which might make lose opportunity that might Come my way. International passport is my only means identification so it's valued to me and I will work toward recovering it back. That's it. I appreciate your response though.

Some weeks back I created a post about delaying in getting my result . This is the link to the post https://www.nairaland.com/6570728/how-get-certificate-advice-needed. The result is finally out for collection. However, we are to pay #50,000 to clear the result. Given this condition, I have strived to gather 30k from all means. I tried to obtain loan from these loan sharks app but when I read about the horrible experiences from various users no I wouldn't get myself into trouble in the cause finding money.

This is why I came to nairaland to seek loan from every nairalander. I am looking to obtain a loan of 20k with the offer returning 30k as compensation. I'm willing drop my International passport as collateral if I had any other valued property I would have included but that's the only thing I have to offer as collateral.

NB - The loan will be repayed in three months time or less. I just need to obtain this result as quick as possible so as to apply for the current FRSC recruitment, thank you.

I'm in need of this o

ELff:
I don't have so much, I can assist you with a token of 3k. Drop your account let me send you something. I hope you find the support you need.

Thank you very much sir. Salaudeen Wakilat Adeola 3043680901 First bank. May God bless you. Amen.

Some weeks back I created a post about delaying in getting my result . This is the link to the post https://www.nairaland.com/6570728/how-get-certificate-advice-needed. The result is finally out for collection. However, we are to pay #50,000 to clear the result. Given this condition, I have strived to gather 30k from all means. I tried to obtain loan from these loan sharks app but when I read about the horrible experiences from various users no I wouldn't get myself into trouble in the cause finding money.

This is why I came to nairaland to seek loan from every nairalander. I am looking to obtain a loan of 20k with the offer returning 30k as compensation. I'm willing drop my International passport as collateral if I had any other valued property I would have included but that's the only thing I have to offer as collateral.

NB - The loan will be repayed in three months time or less. I just need to obtain this result as quick as possible so as to apply for the current FRSC recruitment, thank you.

Some weeks back I created a post about delaying in getting my result . This is the link to the post https://www.nairaland.com/6570728/how-get-certificate-advice-needed. The result is finally out for collection. However, we are to pay #50,000 to clear the result. Given this condition, I have strived to gather 30k from all means. I tried to obtain loan from these loan sharks app but when I read about the horrible experiences from various users no I wouldn't get myself into trouble in the cause finding money.

This is why I came to nairaland to seek loan from every nairalander. I am looking to obtain a loan of 20k with the offer returning 30k as compensation. I'm willing drop my International passport as collateral if I had any other valued property I would have included but that's the only thing I have to offer as collateral.

NB - The loan will be repayed in three months time or less. I just need to obtain this result as quick as possible so as to apply for the current FRSC recruitment, thank you.

This is depressing. I need your helpful inputs on this.


Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Seun

I will try to be concise and detailed in the narration of my ordeal.
I finished from Emmanuel Alayande College of Education in 2016. After my final exams and project submission I travelled to seek for survival. I returned to the school for clearance to collect my result there I discovered that I had five failures in my courses which I had to retake before I could start clearance. That shouldn't have been the problem but that was my last year. I couldn't take the five course because I arrived in second semester and there were three courses out of the five courses were to be done in first semester.

Consequent to that, The only option left for me was to transfer my studentship to sandwich program to complete the courses. I did the transfer and subsequently did the exams in the following year (2019). Ever since then i have being going back and forth but the coordinator in charge keeps telling me that they are working on it. Though, I'm not the only one in this situation but we have tried meeting with necessary top officials (Dean of Student Affairs, Director of Academics and even the Deputy Provost of the school). Deputy Provost on his part used his influence to push our forms to certain stage before he stopped attending to me. I have seen some among who used connection to secure their own results but ours have remained stagnant.


My new resolution is to go and complain at Oyo state ministry of education but I don't know if it is advisable to do such.




I should have gone far but this result issue is holding me back. A lot of opportunities have been missed because I couldn't present post secondary school certificate. I wanted to go Unilorin PT program too but the difference between using O'level and NCE is far. I just need my certificate o.

Kindly advise on what to do, thanks.
Pardon my errors.

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