Thanks for your response everyone!

I have edited the tittle. That was a typo because i initially intended the title to be "Dating in the UK can be difficult".

coogar:


which part of london do you dwell?
dating in london is the easiest activity i know although i agree you may not necessarily get what you require cos some of the available dates are damaged goods.

to meet & date nigerian chics....you would have to spread your tentacles. target social events. be open to your friends, colleagues & acquaintances. somebody usually knows someone that needs a boyfriend.

goodluck, bro....

cheers bro.

I live in the London suburbs but work in central. The problem i think i have is that my Nigerian circle of friends is pretty thin, and that is putting it mildly. Most of my friends are either current colleagues from work or friends of colleagues. I am looking into improving this going forward, but i am not too sure on the best way to go about things.

What are examples of some of the social events that you will recommend in this case? or how best can i go by finding them?

I am a 27 year old male living and working in London. Many of my friends back home in Nigeria are now married. I desire something as such as well, but the issue is that, it is pretty difficult - if not near impossible - to meet the type of person I will love to date and probably go on to settle down with, here in London. The type of person - career focused, family aware, strong Nigerian roots- but not stereotyped, religious- but not crazy about it, desires the basic fun things in life like travelling, salsa, adventure - is almost non-existing here in London. I do socialize a lot, and it drives me nuts that you only ever meet a Nigerian lady once in every 20 or 30 social outings. I know in the UK, there is a tendency for people to withdraw and live a convenient but antisocial 9-5 lifestyle. Which brings me to the crux of my entire rant, two questions for UK folks:

1) What is your experience with meeting and dating other Nigerians in the UK
2)How best does one improve his chances of meeting and dating other Nigerians in the UK