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I GET THAT.

is it that they are afraid of rejection and ugly guys dont care cause they used to it. they like to be pursued so their ego's dont get bruised and it seems they never get turned down.

yes my family support is there. but i'm not complaining it seems people are getting it confused we not trying to get married now the thing i wanted advice on was should i give him another chance for the sake of starting a family. the issues with trust is because of both of us and i know that nothing is perfect so i just didnt know if it was necessary to try again it's not like it's been this way the whole 4 years.

how old r u anyways 5??

you dont matter guy okay so lets just end it here. definitely you couldnt make me cry.

I GET THAT.

HONESTLY SHE TRYING TO TELL YOU SOMETHING WE AS WOMEN DONT GET VIBRATORS UNLESS WE NEED MORE THAN WHAT WE ARE GETTING SORRY BUT IT'S TRU JUST DO HER REALLY GOOD AND THEN ASK HER WHY SHE NEED SOMETHING LIKE THAT SEE WHAT SHE SAYS

WOW!!!! SUCH ANGER IN YOUR DEMEANOR

DID YOUR MOMMY LOVE YOU AT ALL

YOU ARE A VERY SENSIBLE AN WISE LADY I CAN TELL!!! ME BEING YOUNG I LIKE TO RUN AWAY FROM RELATIONSHIPS AS I HAVE ALWAYS DONE IN THE PAST CAUSE I FELT LIKE IT DIDNT MATTER THERE'S ALWAYS SOMEONE ELSE BUT THIS I JUST COULDNT CAUSE I REALLY HAVE MORE INVESTED IN THIS BEING MY FIRST REAL LOVE AN NOW A BABY AND I'M 2 MONTHS AWAY FROM HER BEING HERE. WOW!!! I'M VERY HAPPY ABOUT HER TOO!!

NATURE IS LOVE, LIFE ABUNDANT IS LIFE WITH YOU. IT'S ONLY NATURAL THAT WE BECOME CONSUMED INTO THIS FIRE OF LOVE'S ETERNITY

THIS IS THE CRAZIEST SITUATION THIS IS REAL LIFE MAN LIKE THE TV SHOW CHEATERS OR SOMETHING MAN!! WHAT THEY HELL YOU KNOW WHAT MAYBE SHE IS SEXUALLY FRUSTRATED SO SHE GETS THE YOUNG GUY TO SATISFY HER NEEDS. IT'S NOT UP TO US BUT I THINK IF YOU STILL WANT TO BE WITH HER YALL NEED COUNSELING OR SOME SERIOUS TALKS TO GET THROUGH CAUSE CHEATING IS CHEATING UNTIL YOU GET CAUGHT LITERALLY!!!

SO YOU ARE TELLING ME TO TRY TO WORK IT OUT WITH HIM RIGHT ??

IT COMES DOWN TO THIS FOR ME AS LONG AS IT'S NOT EMOTIONAL CHEATING WITH THE OTHER PERSON DONT TELL HER IF YOU TRULY FEEL LIKE YOU MADE A MISTAKE MY ONLY QUESTION IS DO YOU THINK YOU WOULD HAVE WANTED TO "SHAG" IF SHE WAS NOT SO FAR AWAY I GUESS AND IF SO THEN MAYBE YOU DONT LOVE HER LIKE YOU THINK YOU DO. I KNOW EVEN BEING A FEMALE THAT YEAH YOU CAN LOVE SOMEBODY VERY MUCH BUT STILL BE DISPLEASED IN SOME AREAS OF THE RELATIONSHIP AND WANT TO GO OUT AN GET IT FROM SOMEONE ELSE YOU DONT WANT AN EMOTIONAL CONNECTION OR ANYTHING YOU JUST WANT WHAT YOU WANT AN THEN YOU GO BACK TO THE ONE YOU LOVE. FOR INSTANCE I MAY HAVE NEEDED $$$ THAT MY MAN DIDNT HAVE BUT KNEW SOMEONE ELSE WHO LIKED ME AND WANTED TO BE WITH ME THAT WOULD GIVE IT TO ME SO I WOULD GIVE THEM CONVERSATION AND LET THEM TAKE ME OUT AND LEAD THEM INTO BELIEVING SOMETHING WOULD HAPPEN BETWEEN US JUST SO THAT THEY WOULD GIVE ME WHAT I WANTED. STILL THE ONE I LOVED WAS THE ONE I WANTED TO BE WITH THEY WAS JUST A NECESSITY AT THE TIME. I HAVE EVEN WANTED MORE SEX A WEEK THAN MY MAN WAS GIVING ME AND WANTED TO GO OUT AN GET IT BUT THAT I NEVER DID STILL MAYBE IF WE DIDNT LIVE TOGETHER I WOULD HAVE WHO KNOW'S. RELATIONSHIPS ARE CRAZY WE ARE ALL HUMAN AND WHEN IT COMES TO NEEDS WE DO WHAT WE GOTTA DO NOT WHAT WE SHOULD ALL THE TIME AND IT DEFINITELY TAKES THE GRACE OF GOD AND PRAYER BETWEEN BOTH PEOPLE TO STAY FAITHFUL. SO ME BEING A GF AND BABY MOMMA I WOULDNT WANT TO KNOW IF YOUR NOT GOING TO CONTINUE TO DO IT AND IF YOUR NOT WILLING TO BREAK UP WITH ME. BUT IF YOU FEEL LIKE IT'S NOW A PROBLEM YOU SHOULD GIVE HER THE OPPORTUNITY TO DECIDE HOW SHE CAN GIVE YOU WHAT YOU NEED SO YOU CAN GIVE HER WHAT SHE DESERVES YOU NEVER KNOW SHE MAY FEEL THE SAME WAY OR EVEN BE DOING IT TOO!!!! GOTTA BE CAREFUL WRAP IT UP.

i'm beautiful woman i just believe in substance sorry you dont c. it's okay but i appreciate your advice and cynicism.  

OKAY WHAT'S THE POINT THEY STILL GONE FEEL THE SAME WAY THIS IS DUMB DONT YOU THINK C HAHAHA AND YOUR REPLY WAS DEFINITELY POINTLESS CAUSE OBVIOUSLY THERE WAS NO LOVE THERE SO WHY DOES IT MATTER??

IT'S NOT THAT I HAVE GIVEN HIM CONTROL LIKE I CANT DO WITHOUT HIM TRUST ME HE KNOWS I CAN. BUT I HAVE A CHILD TO THINK ABOUT AND I WANT US TO WORK JUST LIKE HE DO. SO WHAT'S SO STUPID ABOUT THE POST??

[color=#770077][/color][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] HONESTLY I WANT TO SAY YES A MILLION DOLLARS IN THE USA I COULD DO SO MUCH WITH CLEAR MY CREDIT BUY A CAR AND A HOME OF COURSE AND WORK AND LIVE OFF THE REST STILL HOW COULD I HIDE IT FROM MY BOYFRIEND THE ONLY WAY I WOULDNT DO IT IS IF THE OTHER PERSON HAS AIDS OR STD'S

YOUR GOING TO MAKE ME CRY

MAKING LOVE ALL THE TIME WE WAS LIVING TOGETHER

I THINK THAT PEOPLE SHOULDNT BE SO FUNNY ABOUT THIS, YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT WHATEVER OR WHOEVER A MAN WANTS HE'S GOING TO GO AFTER AND TRY TO MAINTAIN THAT'S COMMON SENSE EVEN THOUGH YOU MAY HAVE FELT LIKE HE WAS YOUR EVERYTHING THAT'S NOT TRUE HE DIDNT GIVE YOU LIFE NOR WAS HE THERE WHEN YOU CAME INTO IT. MEN AND WOMEN CAN LIE AND LEAD YOU DOWN DEAD END ROADS JUST TO HAVE WHAT THEY WANT. IT'S OBVIOUS HE DIDNT HAVE THE SAME IDEALS AS YOU WHEN IT CAME TO THIS RELATIONSHIP I'M SORRY TO BREAK IT TO YOU LIKE THIS BUT ME HAVING THE EXPERIENCE WHEN A MAN LOVES A WOMAN HE WONT JUST LET HER GO AND DEFINITELY NOT OVER A FREAKIN DREAM. YOU NEED TO THINK MORE OF YOURSELF AND REALIZE YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN THAT. I KNOW IT'S HARD TO UNDERSTAND BUT SWEETIE YOU DIDNT EVEN DO ANYTHING HE MADE UP AN EXCUSE TO GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU. PEOPLE DONT BREAK UP OVER DREAMS. MOVE AND TRUST IN YOURSELF AND LIVE YOUR LIFE IF NOT FOR YOURSELF DO IT TO SPITE HIM TO PROVE YOU CAN DO YOU AND MAINTAIN WITHOUT HIM. THOUGH HE PROBABLY WONT CARE CAUSE HE JUST LEFT LIKE THAT.

i guess love shouldnt be so complex if it's real it's real you know

[color=#770077][/color]well i'm a pregnant 42DD can ya handle that i was a 36DD but i'm well rounded anyways

i think it's all about love an respect we all are human and at times others are stronger than others all i have to say is measure a man by his actions. but remember to also measure yourself and leave all judgement up to God but what you can tolerate is what you can tolerate. it really depends upon to depth of the relationship we all can do bad by ourselves but its always fun to be doing good with someone. Dont be ran over if they cant respect you then show them you can do without them even if you feel you dont want to 

that's what i want to believe but hurt just confuses things cause you dont want to be stupid for anybody

what do i do people is there anyone in my situation you know he's a good mane but unfortunately he's in the streets to much so he wants to go from a street guy to a family man what 2 do trust or not trust my instincts which i dont even know what they are telling me

She want me to join in what should i do