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ME: *jotting some points in my notebook*

Akinpresident:
From experience it works, you just have to do it sparingly and effectively.
Women thrives on attention and when you starve them that, they go crazy. And it pushes them to find out what exactly that's making you not to have time for them and they pest your life with calls and texts.
You don't do this to a talking stage. She'll simply disappear. You do this to someone who just fell for you.
I think the whole thing is about ensuring the lady likes you as much as you like them.

This is the most sensible post have read on this thread since. I fully agree with especially the hypothetical scenario you painted!

SuperOnyi:




I will be happy to go on this challenge but sadly, I'm currently working on a lot of things.

However, it is important to understand that humans are attracted to things that are scarce. Even in the market, you'd see how people automatically regard anything expensive as the best. But I digress...

You only have to partially ignore not totally, learn from online markets like Amazon and Jumia; they sell things for the full price but once in a while, they give the customers promos. You ignore her partially but when it's time to give her that attention, you give her what she wants 100%.

It took me a while to figure out I subconsciously do the "ignore thing" and I was surprised seeing red pill threads on Nairaland for the first time. I reflected on myself and found out that was 80% my default state. I'm still trying to figure out what makes people attracted to me...

So, what am I trying to say? You gotta have something they find valuable or mysterious to make the 'partial ignoring method' work. You have to understand how to make proper use of your silence and words. Communications between humans is deeper than just talking, sometimes silence pass a message.

Remember when your parents would look at you in a certain way and that's all you'd need to know you've fúcked up?

If you walk into a restaurant dressing and acting on a particular way, and you keep doing that for a week; all attention will be on you. When you disappear and appear a month later, you'd successfully create some kind of mystery in the mind of those who would remember you.

You gotta have something they think they've not seen in others but in reality, you're actually playing with their mind. Even if you're ugly, she'd still wonder why you keep acting that way—curiosity can also kill a monkey. Haha

You that you're begging for 2k wan dash person 500?
Wonder shall never cease!

WhiteIverson:
Send your account number sir let me share 5h with you. Egg 200 groundnut 300😂

Woe to you and your uncivilized household! Replying you is like dignifying you and this is my last response to an intellectually handicapped zombie like you.
I'm OUT!!

Risingblue008:
The man u r paradin as ur president is also an illitrate are u aware

No let me face
U see ur life
Stupidity has taken over ur life that it has become parallel to non

Woe to u

Be very careful and stay safe
Kidnapping is now very rampant
Don't be deceived, it's dangerous out there!

nedekid:
I am all open to meet one.
And the boy stays in Lagos?
If you are sure, let's take the next step.
Let's arrange it for Friday.
I will send you a dm.

You follow What If social media pages right?

WhatIf:
Make I dey manage my 30.6k/s that GLO network is given me with a speed of light in my area.

USE WHAT WORK FOR YOU IN YOUR AREA
.

Which one be consent form bayii? You want chop but unwilling to pay the ultimate price right? I caught you bro!

SocialJustice:
If na me be Osimhen I must chop after she sign consent form.

The new thing is that it helps you summaries and even understand no matter your way of expression something Google itself lacks!

uuzba:
It reads the summary of the sites and presents them to you in human language.
It's still summary.
It's not inventing anything new.

Fool!
stupity or stupidity?
Brain dead psychopath, go school you said No! See how you're embarrassing your pathetic self and household? Illiterate Zombie

Risingblue008:
U see ehh
Ignorance can be cure
But as for STUPITY,it cant
I think u r stupity
Its not an insult

Upcoming ilegendd!

Why are you like this? Why? Why? Why now? You didn't even let the superstitious ones see something to feed on before dispelling their processing myth responsible for such!

weyreypey:
It's seeing its reflection on the dark marble tiles

Mumu Friends that will betray you, friends that don't care about you which friend can do half or even a quarter of what this thing is doing instead make you talk true you don't know how to use it,u dey yarn dust

PS: I don't have friends my opinion was based on real life observation of people with so called friends and we all can't be extroverts

shortgun:
Ai was created to comfort the lonely people of the world.
There's nothing that beats the complexities of human interaction..Nothing!
Go out there and make friends with real people

You're wrong bro
Sometimes, what we really want as information can't be expressed much by Google but AI will answer your question the human way which is the best rather than dropping links of numerous websites

uuzba:
The AI is trained in natural language.
Unfortunately for many, natural language means English.
This is a cat. This is a mouse..
Once you start using slangs, bad spellings, pidgin English, the AI will lose your meaning or interprete a different meaning.
All the answers it gets are already on the Internet. It just presents the most relevant summary in a proper English back to you. So it is not inventing anything new.

You're very right bro now I'm not alone even after answering questions rate my English, rate my intelligence rate my personality etc

Alphamentips:
After you chat with your AI for like 30 mins to 1hour here is a very good prompt to ask AI - what do you think of me based off of the little information you got from our short time of interaction?

Also ask- how can I improve myself based off of the last response

What are you saying? Do you see any well to do mathematics teachers doing well? Especially in private schools?

Mrshape:
Was your math teacher poor?

Dey play
Mathematics teachers in private secondary schools says Hi!

Mrshape:
Thanks for bringing my attention to this, let me go through it.

Any woman that marry a man that is very good in Mathematics you are very lucky( for those that believe in luck) and your are fortunate, you have brought blessings to your generation, same with a man that marries I woman that is very good in Mathematics,
your children children will live to thank you.

It is a rear ability, from the research I did about 1 in every 10,000 Nigerian male are bad less than average in mathematics, and about 1 in every 15,000 Nigerian female are bad in mathematics,

If you can get a man that know mathematics and have swag, hold am tight because I no sure say them reach 10 again for your local government.

Lastly I have Never seen anyone that is very good in Mathematics that is poor, unless he is lazy and don't want to work.

Everyone should know that "mathematics is a universal language if you don't understand it you are the mercy of those who do"~Ifada 2015

Your points are 💯 percent valid, absolutely.
But the only unsatisfactory answer was the issue of human rights abuse. You buttressed your opinion with the fact that the West have committed worse abuse more than the Chinese, those that give them the go ahead for human rights abuse? Besides the West you're criticizing are sorry for their actions and it's obvious. Black people now well represented in their culture and racism has been reduced to its barest minimum. Can we say the same for the Chinese? In China most black people experience racism more often than anywhere else, those that mean the Chinese too must also abuse us but make it lesser than the West before rendering their help?



All in all sir the revolution of massive change is left in the hands of Nigerians/ Africans no one not even the Chinese or Russians is coming to save us. We are our own savior!
Thanks for your valid contributions anyways

Gerrard59:
You will accuse me of whataboutery, but the West has committed more heinous human atrocities in Africa than the Chinese will ever do. The precursor to the Holocaust was conducted in Namibia by the Germans, not the Chinese. What about the plundering of resources in the DRC and the dehumanisation of Congolese by Belgians? Congolese were shipped off to Brussels and placed in museums for then European children to see, most of whom are in their fifties and sixties today.


This is an East Asian culture, which I must say has been the backbone of their relentless economic success within a short period. From Japan to Taiwan, East Asians work very hard and tirelessly. Unsurprisingly, they have prospered not just economically, but academically as well as socially. As Africans, our sole interest should be to prosper at all odds and if it requires working long hours without rest, so be it. In this century, we have no business whatsoever with work-life balance or remote work or rest, the only thing we have is how to be prosperous. East Asians and now Southeast Asians have shown us that we can be prosperous by working tirelessly, saving and having delayed gratification. We don't have an option other than that. Or do you like poverty? You think Europeans, who plundered Africa anyway, did not work tirelessly as well? The fact that their children have a surfeit of holidays and preach work-life balance does not mean we, Africans, who are starting should copy them. We don't have that option. Building is always hard. We better build, or else our children will suffer for it. Time no dey again.

To show you a typical example of East Asian work ethic. Go search about the semiconductor factories TSMC announced to build in the US and Japan. The US project was announced before the one in Japan. However, the company (TSMC) encountered cultural differences in the US as they (Americans) could not work long hours as is done in Taiwan. The company had to fly in Taiwanese engineers (check the distance from Taipei to Arizona) to work on the construction. In fact, the CEO and founder of TSMC said the project will be delayed because of cultural issues, rather than funding. However, within that period, the company completed the project in Japan and as I write commenced the second plant in another part of the country. The project in the US which was slated to be completed in 2026 has been shifted to 2028. Meanwhile, the second plant in Japan is billed to be done in 2026. Apart from distance, cultural similarities between Taiwanese and Japanese were the reason why the Japanese project was completed even before schedule. Westerners who have worked with the Chinese have confessed that they cannot compete with East Asians in engineering, construction and manufacturing.

As Africans, we have to compete with the likes of India, Bangladesh, Vietnam and Malaysia for FDI. Na this swegbe and siddon-look attitude we wan use compete with these people? The unemployment rate will be catastrophic. The effects will be televised!


The fault is entirely on the governments and indigenes in the area, not the Chinese. The Chinese are not working alone. Fellow Nigerians made it possible. If you have a loophole, expect outsiders to exploit it. That is basic human greed. No one is altruistic, not even one's parents. Human beings are selfish. You need to understand this. Nevertheless, the Chinese and to an extent Indians and Canadians (just one investment anyway) are the major investors in Nigeria's mining industry. Chinese mining companies have invested over $500 million into processing facilities across the country. I am not a Tinubu fan, but I must commend his mining minister - Dele Alake - who has been at the forefront of ensuring the mines are well mined and ores processed before eventual export.

The same Chinese are being attracted by Namibian, Zimbabwean and Indonesian governments to invest in mining and processing facilities. Chinese investors ARE THE ONLY WILLING investors who do this. Western investors are not interested in mining projects across the developing world, only the Chinese are. So, I ask, do you want jobs and prosperity or lovey-dovey? Please choose one.


That act is condemnable. The good thing is that the Chinese take corrections. To be honest, though, the Chinese like to keep to themselves. The good thing however is that compared to other groups of migrants, they don't seek to impose their cultural norms on others. It is why in countries/cities/counties with high Chinese immigration, the crime rates are low and social truancy is almost non-existent. Trust me, as much as the West don't like the Chinese because of economic competition, they prefer Chinese migrants considering how immigration issues are brewing there.


This is a lie that has gone too far. Let me write about Nigeria, we owe the most to China as a country. However, we owe less than 4% of our total debt to the Chinese. We owe the World Bank and IMF - Western-controlled institutions - more than we owe the Chinese.
https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2019-08-06/nigeria-owes-more-money-to-china-than-any-other-country-chart (subscription needed) However, https://archive.md/PqOfN (free-to-read) Bloomberg is a western media organisation.

For the likes of Zambia and Kenya, they misused their loans and unlike the IMF & World Bank, they called for restructuring with Chinese lenders, which they agreed to. The last time Ghana sought a loan from the IMF, the institution threatened that it must accept the LGTV laws. Uganda was denied loans by the World Bank for the same eligibility issue. Which do you prefer, a pen!s in your yansh or a loan to build a road to major economic zones? Also, the Chinese have reduced their construction projects in Kenya and invested in Southeast Asia.

The Chinese have NOT requested that Zambians or Kenyans speak Chinese before loans are restructured. Moreover, Rwandans can earn $500 per month as Chinese interpreters. I had a roommate then in NYSC who earned 250K per month as a Chinese interpreter in Kaduna. How many people do you know in Nigeria who earn a good living as German interpreters?

More can be read here: https://www.nairaland.com/7801886/multipolarism-versus-hegemonism-great-power

You are seriously mad but have no one to tell you.
Do you even know whom you're chatting with? With that your pathetic self you claim you're richer than me? You that you're thinking of where your next meal will come from?
Do you even how much is with me right now? You that you're closing on 40 still you're senseless. I pity you and your wife and children that's if you've got one na poverty go kill y'all!

Risingblue008:
Asaba no get slums just like state,
A good place u will like to visit,
Good topography,
As for u
Na hunger go kill u
If u think say i poor like the richest person in ur family,
Think twice,
I can feed u wella
Imcludin ur family and ur cousins in addition
Since u pple beg for a livin,i like it
Beggi beggi
Me na full time edo man
Benin gor dt matter

It's crystal clear! The Chinese are known for extensive abuse of human rights here in Africa So many factory workers working with Chinese have reported abuse and uncomfortable working culture
Secondly most illegal miners are Chinese mining our resources for their own gain. Regions like zamfara in the North, Illesa in the West have reported cases of Chinese illegal miners
Discrimination against indigenous people is rampant for instance the Abuja restaurant that barred indigenous people from getting served even in their supermarket I believe you know all these
The Chinese are known for their loan trap tactics in other to take over strategic infrastructure like airports, bridge and even mines

These are some of the evils slant eyes have done to us

Gerrard59:
Thanks for your reply. However, I have some questions as a follow-up.
- Which guys have done more harm than good? Who are they?
- How have these persons done so?
- Why do you believe others should do good for you rather than yourself?

Let Trump kick those fvcking immigrants out of America. All man for himself let everyone develop their respective shit holes. Do you want what happened in the UK repeat itself in the US? Nah immigrants must be kicked out for good. Trump 2024

God1000:
I pity nigerians who are supporting this man, some of you have brothers and sisters living in America, some are undocumented immigrants , Donald trump doesn't care whether you are christian or Muslim, he will deport them all for as long as they are from third world countries.

He will not deport anybody from Saudi Arabia, Qatar, UAE but he will deport people from Nigeria, Kenya, Ghana and Uganda

His own wife "Melania" was born in Slovenia before coming to America

I've been a guest since 2019 using my Tecno Y2K , attempt registering but failed got a new Tecno Pop 7 pro and registered successfully.
My first moniker Delco got a ten year ban and I quickly registered a new one. So far so good no regrets and I have learned so many stuffs

You're right most Africans have China to thank as they help lessen the digital divide but again these guys have done more harm than good to be candid. Just so unfortunate

Gerrard59:
Then, the most active members were corporate workers and Nigerians based abroad (mostly in the UK and US). As Andriod-powered phones got cheaper due to the introduction of Tecno, Infinix and ZTE by the Chinese, many Nigerians were able to connect to the Internet. This was around 2012 - 2014. The "garri wars" started during this period. The proliferation of Andriod devices is a major reason I wonder why many Nigerians, largely out of ignorance and Western indoctrination, criticise China these days. If not for the Chinese, MANY Africans would not have been able to connect to the Internet at the touch of a screen and with the device on their palms. Then, one popular Nairalander - Bluetooth2 - boasted how Instagram could only work on IOS devices. Me sef, I vowed not to use a Chinese-made phone until my HTC One M8 was stolen.

The review of the HTC One M8 (got to the front page): https://www.nairaland.com/1980370/personal-review-htc-one-m8

Na small u use take senior me
2015/16 was in J2

SamueItem337:
You were in ss3 2016?
And now you are in 200 level
2016 I was in ss1 and I am a graduate now

Omo Na small u use take senior me
2015/16 was in J2

SamueItem337:
You were in ss3 2016?
And now you are in 200 level
2016 I was in ss1 and I am a graduate now

You're responding to a scammer
I pity you until he fleeces you of your hard earned dough!

EreluRoz:
But why is the past of men always overlooked, what gave them that right to think their past does not matter?

The day Nigeria finally breaks up is the day you'll finally rest!

KingCold:
Classic Nigerian hypocrisy again on display

Lol ephemeral control.
In as much as Putin is still here on Earth as the president of Russia that territorial control by Ukrainian forces is ephemeral!
Ask Prigozhine how far!

Lol ephemeral control.
In as much as Putin is still here on Earth as the president of Russia that territorial control by Ukrainian forces is ephemeral!

If this logic is true, then Margaret Thatcher administration should have failed!
This argument is absolutely illogical and baseless!

MadamVanessa:


You don't support Kamala more than me, but the truth is , the time is not just yet ripe for a woman to lead the world most powerful nation.

Wait and see the atrocities of Islamic terrorist around the world if Kamala finally wins. They will even price USA because Kamala as woman will bring so much emotion into politics and decision making. No woman has that steel balls like men.

Sergio Ramos has Luis Suarez to thank cos I'm sure the beast in Messi in Messi would have been unleashed on him

tobenuel:
Oh my dealer, oh my helper give me VISA I wan enter Canada

It's not visa it's bizza!